Sunday, January 31, 2010
Some love tips for Girls
My dear buddies,Mainly Girls[:D]
# Do something he would probably never expect - Send "Him" flowers!
# Spend intimate time with him. No television, no telephone, no computer, just you and him.
# Always respect him. Respect is one of the things men treasure the most in relationships.
# Touch him affectionately: put your hand on the small of his back, run your fingers through his hair, using your fingertips, lightly trace the inside of his forearm.
# Tell him he is "handsome," "rugged," and "strong", try not to use "cute."
# Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner.
# Tell him that you feel safe when you're in his arms.
# Encourage him in whatever he does-sports, work, whatever.
# Watch sports with him, even if it isn't your thing.
# Forgive him when he messes up.
Please avoid the feeling of EGO and care him as if he is a small kid awaiting for your love,affection and care...!Plzzz have the feeling of forgiveness and take care about your relation...Hope you have a happy life...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
Some love tips for Guys
# Make a cassette tape of your and her favorite love songs, then record (in your voice) a special, romantic message at the end!
# Write her a poem (See our Romantic Poetry for inspiration)
# Leave little notes around telling her things you love about her.
# Let her rest her head in your lap.
# If she's feeling stressed out, give her a massage and help her work out a better way to do things.
# If she makes dinner, offer to do the dishes.
# Always be a gentleman--hold the door for her.
# Give her the same respect you enjoy from her.
# Make an effort to get to know (and if you can, love) her family.
Donot neglect her or ignore her even in ur worst times....Keep making her Happier at every stage and enjoy your life....
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
Six tips for love and happiness
Here are the six small tips for achieving love and happiness.....Read through them and realise your capabilities for achieving it..!
1. "If you can't say anything nice...""...don't say anything at all." If you want to really help people, give up trying to correct them. Instead, compliment them on their strengths. Will they still make mistakes that, to you, are obvious and need correcting? Sure, but I have found that there is ALWAYS someone willing to tell others where they are failing, it is rare to find someone who will tell others where they are succeeding.
2. Be Optimistic
Everyone likes to be around the "realistic optimist". The "RO" is a person who can acknowledge that everything isn't always great, but that somehow we will all make it through. Knowing that trials and setbacks are both inevitable as well as temporary makes you an asset to the people around you.
3. Be Funny (--even Silly!)
When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried? That was TOO LONG AGO. Learn some jokes and tell them. Watch a comedy on TV. Go into Burger King and put on the cardboard crown. You would be amazed how everyone around you will respond--and how much better you will feel.
4. Give it away
Go ahead and be frugal when it comes to your bills, your clothes or whatever else you want to save money on--just be generous with PEOPLE stuff. Give a 25% tip to the waitress who served you that great meal. Give $5 to a kid you see at church. Give away hugs like you get paid for each one. Take someone out to lunch--TODAY.
5. Live in the Moment
This is a tough self-actualization step for many people: STOP WORRYING ABOUT TOMORROW. Instead, live in today. Live in right now. Live as if tomorrow will worry about itself. After all, what can we do tomorrow until tomorrow gets here? All we can do is whatever is before us today.
6. Love Deeply
This is the most important tip for happiness.
Sure, you love your spouse, you love your kids. But what about the people you work with? What about your neighbors? If you love deeply I will guarantee you a couple things: You will be disappointed and hurt, but you will ALSO find happiness from some people who will deeply love you back. Trust me, it's worth it.
Regards,
Sriram Mallik..
Friday, January 29, 2010
Valentines Day Ideas
Fun Valentines Day Ideas, February 14 is a day of fun for young and old! This is a day to think about people we love and celebrate the friendship and kindness. That is one of my favorite winter vacation when the young kids like I love all the excitement of the parties at school, Scouts and Sunday School. It is the rest of the winter weary! I enjoy going to the store to let them each choose their own Valentines. Back then "the computer printables" not in the vocabulary, if you can believe it! We bought an old box of cards that tore apart the perforated line. They like to choose their own theme, was in Ninja Turtles, Super Heroes, Care Bears, or Cabbage Patch Kids. Yes, I'll date myself when I look back on these years! Then we will take the boxes and each will wrap and decorate their individual mailboxes own! As Valentines began to arrive from relatives; into the box they will go until Valentines Day Ideas!
In our house, we always add components to give to the day. We will bake and give home made cookies for elderly neighbors. We will collect coins in a big decorated Valentines Day Ideas pitcher that we've decorated after long after Christmas and have fun watching it grow. On Valentines Day we would count the coin and decide where we will donate the money. One year it was the local volunteer Fire Department as a child I thought since the red truck and Santa always visited the city with the firemen every year, that they should accept the gift. We made a gift to all the grandparents, who are still there today at Grandma and Grandpa's house! We tried to make the kids focus on the ideas of love and attention and fun to receive.
Over the years we have been doing different things to celebrate on the actual day, but their all-time favorite is "Sweet Treat" special. From the moment they wake up, they can eat their meals in whatever order they want. I put all the food on the table from main dishes to desserts, and they can eat in whatever order they want! Perhaps the worst idea ever and I absolutely will most likely be reprimanded by nutritionists and pediatricians together, but they are all grown now and no worse for wear and continues to be one of their favorite memories of Valentines Day Ideas!
When they got older, my husband and I started to grow Valentines Day Ideas party. Sometimes dinner with friends and then go back to our house for dessert. Another time was a cocktail party or gathering dessert and drinks. We will always close the evening with a fun game and I really think that was the highlight of the party.
By Carol Eiseman
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Thursday, January 28, 2010
A Loverz curiosity==Revolution in the field of Social Networking
A guy lost his girlfriend in a train accident....but the gal's name nowhere appeared in the dead list. This guy grew up n became IT technical architect in his late 20?s,achievement in itself!!
He hired developers from the whole globe and plan to make a software where
he could search for his gf through the web..Things went as planned... and he found her, after losing millions of dollars and 3 long years!!
It was time to shut down the search operation, when the CEO of Google had a
word with this guy n took over this application,This Software made a whopping 1 billion dollars profit in its first year, which we today know as ORKUT.The guy's name is ORKUT BUYUKKOTEN Yes its named after him only. Today he is paid a hefty sum by Google for the things we do like scrapping.He is expected to b the richest person by 2013..
ORKUT BUYUKKOTEN today has 13 assistants to monitor his scrapbook & 8 to monitor his friends-list. He gets around 20,000 friend-requests a day & about 85,000 scraps!!!
Some other Cool Facts about thisguy:
*He gets $12 from Google when every person registers to this website.
* He also gets $10 when you add somebody as a friend.
* He gets $8 when your friend's friend adds you as a friend & gets $6 if anybody adds you as friend in the resulting chain.
* He gets $5 when you scrap somebody & $4 when somebody scraps you.
* He also gets $200 for each photograph you upload on Orkut.
* He gets $2.5 when you add your friend in the crush-list or in the hot-list.
* He gets $2 when you become somebody's fan.
* He gets $1.5 when somebody else becomes your fan.
* He even gets $1 every time you logout of Orkut.
* He gets $0.5 every time you just change your profile-photograph.
* He also gets $0.5 every time you read your friend's scrap-book & $0.5
every time
Isnt that great...??Hope you people understand the curiosity that a lover has in his heart for the one he loves.....Thats the power of LOVE
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Valentine Cards
How to present your Valentine cards really means a lot. You should look for in all the right places so you can get good ideas. Valentines presents, you need to think about what other people think. This is not just about packaging but also about words and style you choose to use. However, the way you now they will be determined by several factors. The first thing is the receiver. Ask yourself what would the cards will go to? This will help you customize each one to the specifications required. This is to say that when you send and their presentation, you need to personally and take into account the personality of a particular person. You can send them to different people in your life on Valentines like your parents, friends, wives, husbands, sisters, brothers and sisters and other relatives. There are those Valentine cards that need more consideration. However, this does not mean that you ignore the card and presentation for some people.
However, when you are presenting them to your husband or wife, you'll need to do more than when you are presenting to your friends. People closest in our lives is more important and very important to strengthen the relationship of the house. If you are looking for a good Valentine cards to present to your partner, you will have to consider many things. The point is to impress or to get a big or wild reactions. However, it is important for you to relax and focus instead on how they would react wildly to the perfect Valentine cards; focus on love and affection you will be able to communicate through this card. This is not all about the customized design or color that beautifully tailored but express what you feel for one another as you support your union with the commitment and dedication. Love really has made cosmetics by men; was evident in how many Valentine cards now. Not just one day to beat each other that can produce the best Valentine's card with a very good right now; it is really about treating people we love.
Of course, this must be caring and love not just for one day and, very important that you present Valentine card, you explain that you are in a relationship to stay. Now they are in a way that will attract and friendly. You can do this by playing with different colors. You can also choose to make your Valentine cards by hand. This is due to hand made items will be in a position to look more real. Lovers of truly appreciate such a thought and this is an opportunity to enter personal themes and even to see what I can please them in connection with the presentation style. For the words of many choose to go with a poem or song lyrics. If you know a good song that would work well, why not go with it. You'll be glad you did; love you'll only get better.
By Francis K Githinji
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Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Positive Thinking and the way to achieve it
*An Extreme Postive thinker thinks ::
"A stopped clock shows right time for 2 times a day".
*
"Learn to Labour,Success will not Escape".
"Winners Never Quit,Quitters never Win".*
"The secret of success in life is for u to be ready for your opportunity
when it comes."
"Success comes in cans, not cannot."
"There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard
work, learning from failure."
"Self-trust is the first secret of success."
"Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm."
"We can succeed at almost anything for which we have unlimited enthusiasm."
Such should be our attitude...... Think what ever happened is for our good
and go ahead....with lot's of enthusiasm
AT ANY COST DON’T LET YOUR HOPE DOWN
Have A great positive attitude
To have a positive day keep the following in mind:
- Every problem has a solution.
- Failures always lead to learning something you can use later.
- Many times you must take a step back before u take two steps forward.
- After a crisis is always an opportunity.
- You control your thoughts and feelings.
- You make the choices that determine your fate
Hope you would follow these points for sure...Keep rocking
Regards,
Sriram Mallik
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Short Love Poems
Looking for a way to write a short love poems? Look no more than haiku poetry! Haiku poetry shortest possible stay in the world! In a few words, the sentiments may be expressed. But how to write them you ask? It's easy! Look at this short love poems:
Spring wind --
hand accidentally
graze mine
Here we have a scene where we know what the time of the year. We also know the kind of day it is ... relaxed. Now, the next two lines describe an event that happened in "real-time." Because that's what haiku is all about. It's about current events. What could be more quickly and suggestive love than what is happening as it happens?
To write haiku, you have to learn how to save themselves from the western poetic devices like analogies, similes, and metaphors. Haiku trying to describe events in simple and plain. You must be good at writing what haiku poet Ray Rasmussen rightly called "the first-order mind sense impressions." This distance describes how to write haiku just means you need to see what is happening now, not what happened in the past or what might happen in the future.
For example, the phrase "my hands accidentally graze" describes an event that occurred. No ornament with flowery language. Simple describes what happens in the present. Many people think that writing haiku is easy. That's because they do not understand how to write haiku. Short love poems the haiku way is unique way to express your feelings for someone else. To do this, think first to write a phrase, then, combine with a sentence fragment and you've just written your first haiku poems of love! By Edward A. Weiss
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Thursday, January 21, 2010
Value of missing relations and life..S/w engg's story
""""A Software Engineer's feelings.....
It was raining heavily outside. Dark clouds gathered in the sky and nature
was in its ominous best. I took a break from my work and went to the pantry
to grab a cup of coffee. I had a sip and went near the window to see the
rain pouring down heavily outside the glass structure. I was inside our huge
office building, unruffled by even the fierceness of the nature.
Through the heavy transparent glass, I could see a small girl trying to hold
on to her umbrella which the wind was snatching away from her. I felt sorry
for the girl, and was happy that I was not in a similar pathetic situation.
Yes. I take pride for the fact that I am a software engineer.
*I have everything which a common man would envy; money, status, respect,
you name it I have it* . I always wanted to be software professional and
here I am, working for one of the best firms in the world. But then, am I
really happy? Now, I could see an imprint of my palm on the other glass
window, through which I reminisced my past, basked in the warmth of the sun
shine.
My childhood was so much of fun. I vividly remember those rainy days, when I
hugged my mother tightly during sleeping listening to all the stories told
by her. Now, *I have a big house here, but then it is just a house, not a
home. My parents are pretty far away from me now. I have a cell phone to
talk to them everyday, but then I really miss those dinners which I had with
my family everyday. I could easily afford to taste all the different
cuisines these days, but the best of food there, lack the love and affection
which is present in the food prepared by my mother. *
I threw a lavish party for my colleagues for my birthday, but then they
would never replace the birthdays when my friends secretly brought a cake
and at the end, half of the cake would have ended up on my face . *The
couple of hundred bucks that u save for a long period just to give a treat
to your friends in the road side chat shop can never give the pleasure even
after spending a few thousand bucks these days.*
The scene of me crying and refusing to have dinner on the day when I fought
with my best friend came to my mind. Today, she has gone far away from me,
taking away my love and with it my life, but I am sitting and coding here
with a false smile on my face. Everyday I meet new people, but then I long
ceased to make a new friend.
It's true that I have a lot of things now. *I have a nice bed, but no time
to sleep. Lots of money, but no friends to spend it with*. The latest
designer clothes, but a worn out body . Quite a few to flirt, but no one to
love. Awards for technical excellence, but no reward for the crave for
peaceful ambience. A confident demeanor, but a reluctant and apathetic mind.
Full of rain, but no sunshine even in the farthest distance.
Now, I could see the small girl on the road enjoying in the rain with her
umbrella firmly in her grip. She might not have all the comforts which I
have, but then she has the innocence and fun which I lost a long time back.
I have decided to come out of this false fantasy, even if it is at the
expense of losing the tap of the software engineer. I am going to again
enjoy my life. I am going to go out in the rain and play with the small kid
now. I removed my tie, and went near my computer to shut it down. Just then,
I saw a new mail alert in my mail box. I slowly opened outlook and I found a
message from my manager with an attachment saying that there was a *critical
defect* in the code and I have to fix it soon. I convinced myself that I am
not going to get bogged down again by these pressures and stick to my
decision. I ignored the mail and went to the rest room. After a couple of
minutes, the software engineer in me came out, his shirt tucked in with the
perfect tie knot, sat before the computer, and started typing,
Hi XYZ,
I am looking into the defect and will send the patch files before EOD.
Regards,
Software Engineer. """"
Being a person from the IT field,i may be missing a few things.Thats the reason i am sharing this article..Who ever the person may be or what ever his profession may be..Bt plz understand everyone and share ur affections wid them....
Keep rocking and my warmest regards,
Sriram Mallik.
Romantic Poems
In my opinion, romantic poems has one purpose: to show us the best things in life - not intellectual ideals for us to reflect - Poetry shows us the best things in life to convince our hearts that really there are things in the world worth fighting for longing for things, things of a substance rarer than the discomfort that often monotonous crowds today. "When we are unhurried and wise we perceive that only great and worthy things have permanent and absolute value of the fears and little pleasures are small but the shadow of reality," Henry David Thoreau. Poetry is the hustle and wise, those who seek to discover the best things in life's small pleasures and fears that often come to meet, something romantic, for lack of a better word.
This is what I think it is the duty and privilege of everyone to spend some time reflecting on the eternal questions that have interfered with problems of all mankind. It is your duty, I say, just to spend some time reflecting on his life in its economy, putting his fingers into the stream of time through the often nothing - and although, being in fear that the great scheme, elusive intertwining all mankind. Our challenge is we can only win the stillness and wisdom to be truly inspired by the timeless feeling of the romantic poems we read? That is the challenge to anyone who is willing to deepen the world of classical poetry: for, for a time, remove the fears and little pleasures, and realize that the only thing worth having large permanent and absolute value.
Why classical poetry? That's just my preference. In my opinion, classical poetry, has the best versions of romantic poems and poems of nature, which are the two kinds of poems I think most people enjoy. everything that has the potential to inspire the spirit of sleep, the story of love can strengthen the ideals and notions of children's fairy tale most of us have long forgotten.
However, there is a composition of classical poetry, most of which the average reader will not enjoy. So where to begin in classical poetry person? I really just clinging to a small number of offers overwhelming. But that does not stir the soul are like buried treasure. Although there are many, a person can not go wrong with names like Robert Frost, William Wordsworth, and Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. I was lucky enough to read much of classical poetry while in the north woods of northern Minnesota, in a small village of 93 inhabitants, in a cabin no less. That might have something to do with my affinity for good classic poetry.
If you're reading this, especially if you are in this section, probably means that you are interested and at least somewhat versed in poetry. If not, how you found this article first, unless you were looking for it? Do some online searches for some of the poets mentioned. I promise you will not be disappointed. And when you find a romantic poems that they fall in love, not just save it to your computer, print it and take it with you out of the sunset and feel the mystical wonder of the world come and fill you up.
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