Blog success till today

Just wanted to thank each one of you for all the encouragement you gave regarding the blog..Just wanted to start it as a personal blog for fun but never expected this much encouragement...
By today,our blog has completed two long years since the day i started designing it...

Since May 2010,the statistics of the blog till today are listed below..

No.of followers-92
No.of hits and visitors-237548
People from 180 countries have visited it so far...unique visitors since Jan-2011 are 58,445...Though am not updating it regularly these days,am getting a very gud response till today..Thnx so much friends,for all your encouragement..

Hope this continues in the future too..

Regards,
Sriram Mallik,
With loads of love :)

Am back.. Thnx for your love

Dear friends,
Am so sorry for not updating the blog from the past two months...Thrzz a lot of variation in my office timings that kept me away from blog.. Anyways am back again... Will start updating with regular posts and articles... I hope everyonezz alright and thnxx for being with me till today...
Hope your encouragement continues to be the same.. With lots of love and best wishes to everyone,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

A heart touching story for the married people

I dedicate this article to one of our regular blog reader whoz fed up with her husband and wanted to get divorced..Special Thnxx for one of my friends who have shared this story with me.. Its simple but truely has lots of meaning in it.. specially fr the married people..I dedicate this message to the married couples who feel that their husband/wife is ignoring them or has been loosing faith in them..for all such people,here is a nice story..Click read more..!!

P.S. : Its easy to become single but hard to be single for the second time.


My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restles...sness. I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?” Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes….

My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face…

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ” My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continue on reading…

“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk…

I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread…. Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments…
Life without love never existed till date..It might be a lack of mutual understanding that keeps a distance in bwn people but remember it doesnt mean tat u shud get divorced or forced to hate people..TRUST LOVE UNDERSTANDING is all needed...
Hope u liked the article very much..Comment with ur opinions...!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Unconditional love..

A wonderful message that i have received in the recent days regarding what is unconditional love...Click read more and see it for yourself..!!

Unconditional love...:)
Bf: how are you swetheart ♥
Gf: not good :(
Bf:why? Wht hapnd?
Gf:i have cold . .
Bf:wht? How?
Gf:i had ice cream. .
Bf:are you mad? I told you nt to eat ice cream in thisrainy season. . . .are you crazy ? ?
Look into my eyes wht the hell you think you are? Dnt you have brain? You arent a kid . . . .cnt you take care your self ? Stupid. . . Idiot . . . .
Gf: smiled. . . . Hugged him and said "I LOVE YOU"
Bf:whats hapening here? Will you plz tell me . .
Gf: .i just lov whenever u scold me that's why i ate ice cream so dat you will scold me. . .♥
Bf: stupid . . .idiot. . . .huh. . ." I LOVE U TOO " ♥ ♥ ♥—
LOVE is not only a simple 4 letter word to talk... LOVE is a belief on someone wit whom we consider as WE than U n I OUR'S than UR'S n MINE... LOVE is only ONE FEEL 4rm TWO HERTS... LOVE is pure like a BABY SMILE,fair like a FULL MOON n more like SKY....... so if u r luvng a person,luv d person truely,completely without expecting anythng...that is UNCONDITIONAL LOVE..:)

Hope you have liked it...

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Please answer this question of one of our blog readers...

One of our regular blog readers,a very good friend of mine has asked me something that i felt like sharing with you people..Its in telugu and its been sent by her as a mail to me..Am posting it here..Please go through it and post your valuable comments...!!



Eappudu navvuthu, life lo every moment happy ga undali anukuntu.. life lo annitini balance cheyali anukune okadiki.. kopam ochinapudu matram ela react avalo matram teliyadam ledu.
we can tell about the person by seeing his behavior., but can judge his reality by seeing his way of responding when d right situation occurs.


kopam ochinapudu-- xpress chesesi., manasulo una matalu kopam antha chepesi relax ayithe btr ahh., leka ponle ani xcuse cheyatam btr ahh......
motham chepesthe vaalu hurt avtharu., nd as a human nature vaalu chesindi tappu kaadu it happend ani argue chestaru., manam xplain cheyataniki try chesina ah discussion kasta visugochi prolong chesi relation padu cheskovadam istam leka stop chesestaru. ala chesina kuda., hayoo enduku ila chesadu vaadu ani iddaru both sides disturb avtaru. may be mundu la free ga undalekapovachu bcuz of d litle disturbance in heart...
ponle ani forgive chesthe vaala tappu valaku ela telusthundi malli same repeat chesthe malli hurt avali... mana tappu lekapoyina manam forgive chesthe may be adi the other person ki tappu athadide kabbati akaditho odilesadu ani anukovachu kada or els vaalla way ne crct anukoni repeat chesthe em cheyali....
Atlast nenu adigedi entante., manaku kopam ochinapudu/ okarivalla hurt aynapudu ela react avali( which is the best way to solve the issue without hurting our self-respect and spoiling our relation) meeku telisunte., or meeru ah situation lo unte ela react avutaro ikada comments lo share chesthe adi inkokariki use avthundi ani asisthu one of the blog follower...

So frnds... Hope u will answer this question with ur opinions as comments...
Regeards,
Sriram Mallik.

Identify if ur gal/guy is loosing interest in U

Relationships can be made easily and broken easily too...But the broken relations cant be mended easily..What say people..?Click read more to know the signs if your partner is loosing interest in you...!



Relationship is a two way street and it takes the efforts of both the partners to keep it alive. It takes more efforts to maintain a relationship than getting into it. There is always a probability that any relationship can change and one or both of the partners loose love or interest in the other person to stay in the relationship. It is said that if you can fall in love you can fall out of love too.If or not your Boyfriend or Girlfriend has lost interest in you is something which you would be able to know based on his or her behavior or body language. Sometimes even the best of relationships can die down and everything you put up together will go down the drain. However, as long as it is not too late efforts can be put to re-build/re-construct the relationship and bring back the feelings of love into the relationship. But it is very important to know if your man/woman is loosing interest in you so that you can prepare yourself from the inevitable. How to know if your Boyfriend or Girlfriend has lost interest in you? There can be many signs that your relationship is in trouble, your boyfriend or girlfriend may have lost interest in you and may want to dump you.

Does he or she make excuses just not to see you or spend time with you regularly? You don’t go out anymore or do things like hugging or holding hands anymore?

Does your partner ignore you not only in public but in private as well? Does he or she have excuses when you try to be intimate?

Have his/her friends started being un-involved with you or are avoiding you?

Is your inner conscience feeling/telling you that something just isn’t right with your partner?

Is he/she making lame excuses that you are boring or he/she finds it boring having a conversation or chat with you?

Is your partner suddenly become more critical of you and the things you do?

Is your partner irritated by things he/she used to love about you earlier?

She or he no longer is bothered by the fact that you two aren’t getting together as much anymore. There is a major change in your boyfriend or girlfriends behavior and you even avoid communicating.

Your partner no longer notices you the way he/she used to do earlier?

Did you find any signs of admiring other girls other than you in your partner?
Then take steps in improving your relationships....Dont loose the relation at any cost..never give up even when u feel its over and can never happen anymore.!
REGARDS,
Sriram Mallik.

Feelings in INFATUTION

There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.
To know more...Click READ MORE...!!



There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.

When infatuated, we are thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. There are lingering, nagging doubts about our “partner in infatuation ” and their love for us. We’re miserable when they’re away, almost like we’re not complete unless we’re with them. It’s a rush and it’s intense. It’s difficult to concentrate. And most infatuation relationships have a high degree of sexual charge around them. Somehow being with them is not complete unless in ends in some type of sexual encounter.

Do any of these “symptoms” resemble feelings of love? Hardly. So why do we become infatuated? Where does it come from? Perhaps it’s biological.So keep an eye on all ur emotions and feelings and it is preferrable to have a self test before you come to a conclusion..!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Tears,they are not jus droplets of water..They are really valuable

Hi friends, how are you all...??

This article is just to give my opinion on how valuable tears are...!!

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Tears are really valuable.. They are to be used only at times when necessary.. But we seldom find people using them unnecessarily for various silly reasons...

"Avasaram leni chota avi use chesesthu unte,avasaram padinappudu avi raavu". idi maha kavi Sri-Sri cheppina maatalu...!!

Actually i thought that writing this article may be of no use but i had to write it because I've seen one of my colleagues who had a small quarrel with her lover and in that mood she started crying like a kid... I felt something might be really wrong with them or they might have got into a serious issue...but after inquiring,i came to knw that it was for a silly reason,shezz crying like a kiddo... Whyyyyyyyyyyyy..?? I tried to ask to myself...Is that really necessary to cry...?? I agree to the fact that we only shed tears for those to whom we give our true love...Or for whom we like very much... As for a relationship is being considered here,i'm writing this..But still i hope that there is no need for tears to be shred out in this instance...Not only this,there are several more instances which happen like this.. I dont want to point out anyone who is doing so but still i want you to think once before you cry...Cozz tears are truely valuable.... Please dont waste them for unnecessary things...!!
Sorry if i wrote anything wrong..But still i feel that there is no use for shedding tears for silly things..

U know how tears come out of your eyes..??Wikipedia gives an explanation regarding this..Click this link and know it for yourself...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tears



Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Please answer my doubt..Regarding SACRIFICE..!!

From many days i have a question/doubt in my mind.. The same doubt has been expressed by my trainer in office. So just wanted to know from you all if my doubt is true..!!



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Sacrificing our friends and relations in the name of LOVE is good for the instance or for some time in the future but not in the long run.. What can you say about that..? Please answer this question in the form of comments.. I am gonna disclose my feelings in the later time in the space of comments.

Waiting for your replies...
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

101% Love.. A story which is really worth reading..Unexpected Love

Hi friends, today am gonna post you a story that i was sent my one of my friendz Ammaji.. Its quite a long story but still a bit heart touching.. I hope you should surely like it cause i felt tat i had a heavy heart at the end..
Please read it with patience,till the end..!!!






Unexpected love
That is the Final year of the college. There is a gang with some guys and girls. In that gang only a guy and a girl are not committed. Their college life comes to an end.
The gang finished their final exams and they’re enjoying the holidays with their pairs………..
Hang outs will occur frequently in that gang. One day they went to a park.
After sometime all pairs went separately. The guy and a girl who’re single sit together. Guy started talking to the girl.
He: hi
She: hiiii
He: all our friends are committed except us
She: yeah
He: it is so boring to live single rite…? That too in holidays
She: yeah I too think so… All of my friends have boy friend and we are only the two persons left in this world without any special persons in our life (the girl has a crush on that guy. She want that guy to propose her….)
He: We want to do something…..
She: yeah…. We want to think about that….
He: but next month I’m going to US for my higher studies… Before that I want to find a girl….practically it is tough to find a girl within a month and to make her love me……( the guy is an orphan… he suffered a lot in his past life for coming to this position…. So, he won’t trust in love…. He jus want a girl to make him happy for a month)
She: (Inside her: I don’t want to miss this chance) Yeah … I’m having one idea… (With hesitation she told)
HE: oh gr8… Tell me yaar
She: we’ll play a game…
He: what??? Tell me clearly yaar….
She: I’ll be ur girl friend for 30days and you’ll be my boy friend…. (inside her: This is the chance to show my Love, care on him, which he didn’t get in his past life….. God he wants to tell k for this game…. plzzzzzzz)
He: hmmm… That’s a great plan yaar…in fact I don’t have anything to do for the following weeks
She: From tomorrow we’ll start our game…. (Inside her: from tomorrow you’ll see true love from me which you didn’t see in ur past life….. God after 30 days or b4 it, he wants to propose me……..)
HE: Sure yaar……..
Then he and she put some plans for next 30days….
DAY1: They watch their first movie “Vinnaithandi varuvaya” and they got touched by that romantic film…..
DAY 4:
They went to the beach and have their quality time together…..
DAY 12: He invited her to a circus and they ride on a horror house… she was scared and she wanted to touch his hand but she touched someone else’s hand and they both laughed….
(Like this many small incidences happen in their hang outs….. She showed her love and care on him every second…..
Her crush turned into a serious Love on him…. She came to stage that she can’t able to live without him…..)
DAY 15:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and they asked for their future advice. They asked individually For he the fortune teller said: “One girl is going to take care of ur life…. She’ll dedicate her life for you…” and for she the fortune teller told “ur life is going to change in short time…. May be it’ll be within a month or b4 it….”
Both got confused and went from there…..
DAY 20:
She invited him to go to the hill and they saw a shooting star there….
She: hey see the shooting star…
He: yeah… it’s going there….
She: Tell some of ur wishes by seeing that…. It’ll come true one day…
He: Oh k…. Shooting star show me the girl who is going takes care of my life….
She: (inside her: I’m here man… why you’re asking that shooting star stupid….:( )
He: Tell ur wish yaar…
She: Mumbled something
He didn’t hear anything what she told to shooting star….
DAY 28:
They sat on the bus and because of a bumpy road she gave kiss to him by accident…. Both laughed at each other….. She smiled with a shy….
DAY 29:
After finishing their hangouts they both decided to go to that same park….
11.37pmHe and she sat in the park where they first decided to play this game.
He: I’m tired…. I’m want to eat something….Do you want anything to eat?
She: hmmm k… Dairy milk SILK is enough for me… but where is the shop here…?
HE: I’ll just go down the road and buy…. Wait for me…
She: k… come soon….
11.55pm
A stranger approached her….
Stranger: you’re the girl came with that guy ah…?
She: yeah what happened….?
Stranger: a reckless drunk driver ran over him and he is critical in the hospital….
(She started crying and went to the hospital
11.58pm
The doctor came out of the emergency room

Doctor: who is the person came with that guy….?

She: yeah it’s me sir…. (She is crying badly)
Doctor handed out a dairy milk SILK and a letter.
Doctor: We found this in his pocket
(The letter is written by him. He wants to give that letter to her b4 game ends)
She reads the letter and it says:
Hi… Don’t get angry on me after reading this letter….. I want to tell you what I felt while playing this game…. This is not a game…. This is the lesson for me to realize the true love….Daily I’ll pray god that I don’t want to die as a orphan…. I’ll ask him to give some relationships in my life….I think he heard my prayer and sent you… yeah, these past few days, I realized what is the true love…..I realized the care showed by you for the last 29 days which I didn’t get in my past life…… I realized you’re really a cute girl and I’m really falling for you…. Ur cherished smile, ur everything when we played this game….. Before this game ends, I would like you to be my girl friend, my mom, my wife… (all the relations in this world) for the rest of my life…. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
After reading this, she crumples the paper and shouted…..
She: God I don’t want him to die…. I should propose him earlier itself….
She went near to him…. She can’t able to see him also…. Doctors are trying their best to save his life….
(She is crying very badly…. Doctors asked her to get out from ICU
Standing near to the door with tears she told)
She: Hey idiot I Love you da….Remember that night when we saw a shooting star, I mumbled something…. I mumbled that we want to be together forever and never end this game… Please don’t leave me da…. I Love you…. I want you in my life….
Clock strikes at 12…. This is the 30th day doctors came out from ICU….
Doctor: We tried our level best…Anything can happen ….All in god’s hand….
(With tears she told)
She: I don’t let him to die…. If that is his fate… then I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
(Suddenly she called her parents and explained the situation…. She told that she wants to marry him but her parents didn’t accept it… she told if you’re not accepting also I’ll marry him….Her parents told if you marry him then forget us….. She replied one day you’ll understand me and you’ll see ur daughter in a higher position…..Her parents cut the call…)
(She is confused…. She wants to take a decision….)
She is confused…. But no other way to go….she takes the decision to marry him….
She: Doctor Plzzzzz help me… In my dad’s position, You should conduct this marriage… plzzzzz…..
Doctor: Jus think of ur future….
She: I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
Doctor: anyway ur wish……
She: K thank you very much…. I’ll call my friends and they’ll make arrangements for this….
(She called her friends but all refused to come by thinking some problem will come to them……)
She: its k…. No one wants to come… I’ll marry him…. (She shouted in the hospital….)
(By seeing her true love the hospital staffs decided to make arrangements for marriage)
(Jus imagine how the marriage is!!!!!!!!!!…..)
(Doctor as a dad.. hospital staffs as audience… Glucose drops, blood drops from blood bag, Heart pump as the musical instruments….noise by other patients in pain as Mantra, blood drops from him as Atchadai… ICU as the marriage hall……they both got married…..)
She: God I don’t know whether I took a right decision or not…. But you want to save him…. Plzzz… He didn’t see any true love and care in his life… but now I’m there to show all this to him…. Don’t take him away from me…. Doctor’s are doing there best to save him…. God save him Plzzzz ….. (She cried and prayed to god)
After some time a stranger approached her…
Stranger: sorry for incident madam, I’m the owner of the car which hit ur friend…. It is my driver who drunk and hit ur friend… I put case on him… don’t worry I’ll do any help for you and ur friend….
She: He is not my friend…. He is my husband…. He is in death-bed now…. I don’t want anything….(She shouted)
While the stranger talking to her, doctor comes out of the ICU and told…
She: What happened doctor…..?
Doctor: Silence….
She: plzzzz tell something…. What happened….?
Doctor: again silence…
She: plzzz tell something….
Doctor: I’m sorry…..
She: What happened…? (She is crying so badly)
Doctor: we saved him…. But
She: but what happened doctor…..?
Doctor: He is in Coma stage…. Sorry we can’t able to do anything….
She: oh god what is this L…. Anyway I’ll take care of him… doctor when he’ll come to normal…
Doctor: It may happen in 1 month or it may not be happen also…. We can’t able to tell anything…
She: I’ll take care of him doctor…. I’ll take care of him…
(The stranger approached doctor….)
Stranger: what happened doctor… I want to do something for him…..
(Doctor told all things to the stranger. The Stranger felt very bad and went near to the girl)
Stranger: Sorry…. Treat me as ur dad…. Don’t hesitate to ask help… I’m the MD of this company… keep my visiting card… any help jus give me a call….
She: silence
(The stranger decides to give the financial support for them…. But she refused….. The stranger forced her…..)
She: I don’t want anybody’s money for free….
Stranger: Don’t take it as free… If you want I’ll give a job in my company…. Take it as salary…I’m not forcing to join now…. When you’re feeling better you can join…. Please accept this… I’ll be some what happy….
She: Silence….
Stanger: You can also bring ur husband to office and take care of him…. I’ll make all arrangements for that…
She: hmmm k… I jus think that if go to job, who’ll take care of my husband but now I got ans for that….
Stranger: thx for accepting madam….
She: I only want to say thx to you sir….Thank you so much…..When my husband’s injuries are cured I’ll join…
Stranger: Sure…. Ok after discharging from hospital, my company’s guest house is there you both can stay there….
She: Hmmm k thank you sir….
(After some days she joined in the company and also she took care of her husband)
(She will feed him, clean him, brush his teeth,… She dedicated her life to him…. She will take care of him like a born baby…..)
(She also concentrates on her work and come to an higher position….. After 3 years she bought a house for them…. Now she got all basic needs for running their life…. She achieved this bcoz of her True Love and confidence….)
(One day she went to a doctor)
She: Doctor I want to give birth to his baby…. Is there any possibilities…
Doctor: k… may I know the reason for this sudden decision…
She: If anything happens to me… Then he’ll be an orphan…. I don’t want him to become orphan again… I want to fulfill his wish…. If anything happens to me also my child will be there for him…. I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
Doctor: yeah now the technology is improved very much…. So you can give birth to his baby….
She: k doctor…. (Happily she went to her home)
(She enters the home very happily and went near to him)
She: Hey do you know within some months you’re going to become Dad…. I’m very happy today darling…..
(He is not in the position to understand this….)
(After some months she gave birth to a baby… The baby is boy)
One day He comes to normal from coma……
He wake up from his bed and saw a baby playing near to him…..
He don’t know where he is… what happen to him these days…. After some minutes he thought about that game and cried very badly….
He: God where is she….
He: How many days I’m like this…. (He shouted)
He turned and saw a photo hanged in the wall… He started crying… In that photo He and She is posing near “TAJ MAHAL”…. He is sitting in a wheel chair…. Then he remembered, One day while playing that game he told that definitely I’ll go “TAJ MAHAL” once in my life with my lovable wife… She noted that and took him there… Suddenly a girl came to his room and called her husband….
Girl: Hubby see ur father came to normal… I think he is cured… (That is his daughter in law)
Son: dad… dad…. Are you k…?
He: Who r you….?
Son: dad I’m ur son….
(Son introduced all persons to him)
Son: Dad she is ur daughter-in-law…. He is ur grandson and she is ur granddaughter…..
(Son told all the things which happened… and he gave a diary written by mom to his dad)
(After finish reading diary he asked)
(He was in coma for 40 years)
He: Where is ur mom….? I want to see her….. I want to see her… (He shouted)
Son: K dad…. Come with me…..
(He eagerly went with his son to see her)
Son: (Son lifted his hand and showed) See there dad….
He: Yeah she is sitting there… (He ran towards her)
Son: Dad…. Dad… wait….
Son: That is the wax model of mom…. It’s a statue dad….
(He suddenly stops and come back to his son)
He: Where is ur mom…. Where is ur mom…. (He cried and shouted)
Son: Dad….. come with me I’ll tell you
(Son takes him near to the statue and said)
Son: 2 years back mom died… when she is in death bed , she called me and told ur wish…
He: what r you saying….?(He cried very badly)
(when they played game, once she asked what is ur last wish when you’re in death bed… For that he told I want see my girl’s face when I die….)
Son: Mom noted all ur wishes and made it true dad….. (son cries)
(He went near to the statue…. He saw a CD in the hand of the statue…)
He: What is that CD…?
Son: that is mom’s speech dad… She want to tell you something… When she is death bed we recorded this….
(When he went to take the CD he saw a heart placed in the statue….)
He: what is this son….
Son: That is the heart which lived for you for the last 38 years…. Which beats for you only… Where ur love is placed…. Mom heart dad…..(Son cried)
(By seeing that He cried very badly)
(He played that CD)
She: Hi darling…. How r you…? I know you’ll be normal one day and will see this… I think I fulfilled some of ur wishes… Do you know I’m a lucky person in this world…. God gave chances to show my love to you…. God Gave chances to fulfill ur wishes…. I’m very happy to die… but the only sad thing is I can’t able to say “I Love You” when you’re normal…. “I LOVE YOU” darling…..
(Her heart waits for her to finish “I Love You” and its stops….. she died)
(He cried very badly while seeing this video…..)
He: You gave me all the things…. You gave me a family…. B4 I Saw you, No one is there to take care of me… but now, there is my son, daughter in law, grandson, granddaughter….. all r there.. But without you now I’m feeling like an orphan… you’re a very lucky person showed all ur love, care on me…. But me I didn’t do anything for you…. Without you this is like a hell for me…..
( He cried very badly….)
(After that he lived with his family…. But always he’ll think about her and the game played with her… One day he was serious due to some health problem. He knows that, he is going to die in some minutes…. He slowly moves to her statue)
He: Hi darling… I’m very happy now….In some minutes I’ll come to you… I’m going to see you after a long time… I want to say one thing darling….. I lOVE YOU…. I LOVE You darling ( By seeing her heart in that statue he told)
(This is the first time he is saying that to her… Her heart is waiting for this word only till now….After hearing that her heart starts to beat… yeah that is the power of love…. He took that heart in his hand…. He can able to feel, that heart is beating for his words… after some minutes he died… Both heart beats stopped at same time….. )
Last word spoken by both of them is “I LOVE YOU”…
Their true love still exist in this world….
In ur life also whatever happened to ur loved ones… Don’t leave them or break with them…. Take it as the chance given by the god to show ur love on them….
Love – a nice feeling in this world… Don’t spoil that feeling by ur lust…..
THERE IS NO PAIN IN TRUE LOVE!!!!
Feel it and Live for it!!!!
*****THE END*****


Hope you might have like it.. Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Rest in peace Sandeep :( We miss u :(

Its really disheartening or rather shocking news for me... My friend D.Sandeep,who has been suffering with blood cancer and has been getting treated for the same along with dialysis for his kidneys has expired two days back... It took me a lot of pain to digest this news and finally i'm left out in a shocked state with the pics that i had with him two days back...
Dedicating a poem on his loss...!!
P.S. In the pics inside,it is my cousin Praveen with me and sandeep.

Like a sea-bird I’m leaving all flying on the sea,
I will fly and fly till I blend into the far horizon,
It aches to leave you all but death hugged me,
From now I’ll live alone in the sky, sleep on stars,
I hate this life I want to die than flying life alone,
But your tears remind me that I’m already dead.

Thnxx for Suman bro.for sending me this poem.
Miss u Sandeep... U will be always in our hearts....May ur soul rest in peace...!!
With a heavy heart and water filled eyes,
Sriram Mallik.

Sorry for no updates these days.. Reason for this situation..??

Hey friends, sorry for no updates. I've been to hyderabad for a week just to meet my friend Sandeep who is suffering with blood cancer since two years.. I will provide you the complete details regarding him in a short while... Hope you understand my situation.. Thanks for your support..

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Cute story-The meaning of true love

A small story depicting the meaning of true love.. Awesome meaning,perfectly written..And overall..you will enjoy reading this post. Click read more..!!



Perfect Meaning of love :

[Kid]: Daddy Daddy...

[Dad]:Yes Timmy !

[Timmy] : Daddy, I've got an assignment to write for school. Will you help me? Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[Dad]: Oh ! Okay !! What's yr assignment on?

[Timmy] :Love !

[Dad] :Wow ! You have an assignment on it ? In my days, the teachers were against our er... assignments ;)

[Timmy] :No Dad, we are supposed to write something on the meaning of love...its Valentines day, na !

[Dad] :Love...hmm lemme see !

[Timmy] :wait. Wait... Lemme write it down... :)

[Dad] :Love... Love is about Lies !

[Timmy]: Lies ???

[Dad] :You see, Timmy... All my life, i have said lies in love & i've found it to be the best gift you can give a person.

[Timmy] :How, Dad?

[Dad] :Well, the first time i met yr mom for a Valentines day 7 yrs ago. She was not the hottest of chicks in college, if you know wt i mean...

[Timmy] :Hot chick ?

[Dad] :You get it in due time, son... ;)

Anyways... i saw this cute girl standing at a corner of the dance floor. I heard one of my friends say that she couldn't get any date for the party.

So here i was, cursing my luck as my date's grandmom expired n that left me in the same predicament ?

[Timmy] :Pedica ??

[Dad] :Predicament...means..eh, problem !

[Timmy] :Oh...

[Dad] :So i went up to yr Mom n told her.."Hey, How come such a beautiful lady like you does not have all the guys crooning over you?"

Now, i knew very well that even i wouldn't have asked her to dance if i had a choice, but it was that one little lie that got us together !

[Timmy]: But Dad, aint it bad to lie ?

[Dad] :Son, sometimes you have to lie to make the ppl you love happy !

Every Valentines day after that, i used to tell yr mom that she was the most beautiful girl in the whole world.

Now yes, i think she's cute & pretty in a special kind of way, but you tell me...Do you think she has the legs of Sharon Stone and the figure of Alicia Silverstone ?

[Timmy] :Eh... I dont know any of these stones, dad !

[Dad] :Hmm.. ok...Lets just say that yr mom was just an ordinary Wilma from the Flintstones !

[Timmy] :I know Wilma ! I know Wilma !!

[Dad] :Hehe... & then again...

When yr mom was pregnant with you... she used to ask me every day how she looked ? Did she look fat ?

Now frankly, she had gained about 30-40 pounds... & was always in one of her moods..

But i'd tell her.."Nooooooooooooo Honey, you are glowing ! You look fabulous !!

Now if i told her she looked like a fat cow, it would have hurt her !

[Timmy] :Ya...

[Dad] :So you see son...Love is when you say those little lies to keep someone happy !

ok... i've gotta go now... All the best with yr assignment...

[Timmy] :Bye Dad !

............................

[Timmy] :Love means lying ??? Maybe i'll ask Mom

Mommyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?yyy...

[Timmy] :Mom..Mom... i have an assignment for school...you will help me, na !

[Mom] :Timmy, you know i'v to go out with daddy in another 1/2 hr

[Timmy] :Pleaseeeeeeeee Mommy !

[Mom]: ok...Timmy. wts the topic ?

[Timmy]: Eh... Love !

[Mom] :Love...Love is about knowing the goodness of a person's heart, honey !

[Timmy] :Goodness of heart ? huh ?

[Mom] :It’s like this...

When i was in college, yr Dad used to tell me i should be in hollywood. Now i knew he was just lying, but i also knew that he dint want me in hollywood, but rt next to him!

& when i was pregnant, i used to look so fat i looked like Santa Claus ! But yr Dad would say i was looked weak n would feed me everything he could find !

His lies were so dumb, i even thought i had married a stupid...but the truth is that this stupid cared enough to lie...just to make me happy !

[Timmy] :But... he was lying, rt ?

[Mom] :Well honey...he was just being a guy !

& i knew everytime that he was lying to me... but every single time, i also knew that he said those lies coz he loved me !

[Timmy] :Hmm...

[Mom] :Ok honey... i'v to go get ready now. byeeeee

........................

Assignment

Topic : Love

Author : Timmy

Love... When someone lies to you n you smile... coz you know the person cares enough for ur happiness to lie to you !!!

The End..........

Hope you liked it...
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

The Beauty of Rain (Not jus to be read,but also to be experienced by everyone)

Its rainy season right ???
Have you ever wondered how good it will be if you have the first few rain droplets on yourself ??
Awesome isnt it ??
So collecting all such sweet and sensitive expressions,we have a wonderful article related to the beauty of rain :)



The bloated clouds came like dancing angels,
These angels darkened like graphite sheets,
Robe of darkness spread over within moments,
The fragrance of humid earth fused in the air,
The trees looked like kids waiting for parents,
Fierce thunders cracked ablaze like silver strings,
The first drops of untainted water fell to earth,
The dust on trees flowed down glittering green,
Puddles of dark water started off into rivulets,
Wind blew so hard like drizzling chill icicles,
Fields started swaying on the waves of wind,
Peacocks opened their gorgeous bright plumes,
Flowers glowed like scented and painted pearls,
Huts bright like castles tinted in bubbling gold,
Sweltering lands turned flowering fields with rain,
The barren lands started sprouting green shoots,
Frogs threw slogans flicking in the brown ponds,
Rain brought the beauty, paradise down to earth.

Special thanks to a friend of mine,a very nice blogger,photographer and a multi talented person Suman (http://silverquiver.blogspot.com/) for such a nice collection.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Happy friendship day

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Reason for celebrating friendship day every year

Why do we actually celebrate friendship day ??
Any idea ?? If not then see this post.. Its accepted from the UNO people.. This is the reason that the UNO has given for celebrating frndshp day.. Click read more..!!



Friendship Day was originally promoted by Joyce Hall, the founder of Hallmark cards in 1919, and intended to be a day where people celebrated their friendships by sending cards. The first Sunday in August was chosen as the centre of the largest lull in holiday celebrations. Friendship Day was promoted by the greetings card National Association during the 1920's but met with consumer resistance - given that it was rather too obviously a commercial gimmick to promote greetings cards. By the 1940's the number of Friendship Day cards available in the US had dwindled and the holiday largely died out there. There is no evidence to date for its uptake in Europe, however it has been kept alive and revitalised in Asia where several countries adopted the tradition of dedicating a day to friends. Today, Friendship Day is enthusiastically celebrated in a number of countries across the world. In honor of Friendship Day in 1998, Nane Annan, wife of Secretary-General Kofi Annan, named Winnie the Pooh as the world's Ambassador of Friendship at the United Nations. The event was co-sponsored by the U.N. Department of Public Information and Disney Enterprises, and was co-hosted by Kathy Lee Gifford. Many friends acknowledge each other with exchange of gifts and cards on this day. Friendship bands are very popular in India, Nepal, Bangladesh and parts of South America. With the advent of social networking sites, friendship day is also being celebrated online. The commercialization of the Friendship Day celebrations has led to some dismissing it as a "marketing gimmick".

Friendship days for the next decade

Do you want to know when is the friendship day in the next few years to come.. ??
Here is the info regarding the dates of friendship days for the next decade that is from 2011-2020 :)

P.S.: Special thanks to Swaroop for keeping this info.. And thnx for permitting me to share this info in my blog too :D



When Is Friendship Day?

2011---August 7
2012---August 5
2013---August 4
2014---August 3
2015---August 2
2016---August 7
2017---August 6
2018---August 5
2019---August 4
2020---August 2

Poem dedicating to all my friends regarding Friendship week

A small poem that i found while surfing on the net.. Dedicating this to all my dear friends :)
Wish you all a very happy friendship week :)




Friendship week comes but once a year,
It is nice to remember my friend's I hold most dear, and I want to give them all a very loud cheer.

It is a time to tell my friends I love them and cherish them and to have them near, also that I hold them very close and near they are most dear.

Friends that I love and cherish forgive my mistakes that I may make, they will never judge me or make me feel bad because loyalty and trust is what we sure have.

Friends I can trust with all my heart also I can share my hopes and dreams that I hope to realise soon.

Friend's I never doubt also friend's can help me grow throughout the years and they do beleive in me.

Friends are angels in disguise and they help to dry those tears from my eyes they help me to keep sane with that smile on my face.

Friends support and encourage me through when my life is being rough and tough on me.


Friends they give me so much inspiration, they lift my spirits up when I am feeling down they help to lift those big dark daunting black clouds.

Friends are like shining star's that shines so bright at night they always try and bring me happiness and such delight..!!!

Happy friendship week :D
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Tips to be happy all the time :D

An article dedicated to everyone who wants to be happy.. Here are 100 small tips using which you can be always happy :D
Click read more..!!

1. Never put yourself last.
2. When you extend a helping hand to one person, be careful not to kick
someone else in the teeth.
3. Always own a pair of old, faded jeans.
4. Count your blessings every day.
5. Acknowledge your successes along with your downfalls.
6. Burn the candle that has been in storage for the last two years.
7. Strive for progress, not perfection.
8. Remember, the voice telling you that you cannot do something is always
lying.
9. At least once a day sit and do nothing.
10. Don't close your heart so tightly against life's pain that you shut out
life's blessings.
11. Celebrate all your birthdays no matter how old you get.
12. Examine your life for limitations and ask yourself why you put them
there.
13. Plant a tree, pull weeds, or get your hands dirty.
14. Diminish your wants instead of increasing your needs.
15. Cry when you feel like it.
16. Rejoice in other people's triumphs.
17. Don't wait for someone else to laugh or express joy.
18. Forgive yourself for any mistake you make, no matter how big or small.
19. Keep good company.
20. Never take a pill for a pain you need to feel.
21. Use your enthusiasm to put yourself in forward gear and give yourself a
spark to move ahead.
22. Look in the eyes of the ones you love when you are talking to them.
23. Remember that one is a whole number.
24. Walk in a summer rain shower without an umbrella.
25. Do a kind deed for someone else.
26. Keep your eyes and ears open to get the messages you need from people
and events in your daily life.
27. Be patient.
28. Eat something green.
29. Change what you can and leave the rest alone.
30. Walk hand and hand with truth.
31. Make laughter and joy a greater part of your life than anger and grief.
32. Embrace solitude instead of running from it.
33. Be zealous, not jealous.
34. Forgive anyone you've been holding a grudge against.
35. Slow down and enjoy the present.
36. Walk in others' shoes before judging them.
37. Send yourself a kind message.
38. Remind yourself that the company you keep is a reflection of what you
think of yourself.
39. Go on a picnic.
40. Accept your fears, no matter how crazy they seem.
41. Don't let other people's opinions shape who you are.
42. Say a prayer.
43. Never attribute your accomplishments to luck or chance.
44. Know when to say no.
45. Look at the positive side of negative situation.
46. Remember that you are a spiritual being in a physical body.
47. Avoid seeking out other people for constant approval, because it make
them the master and you the slave.
48. Go fly a kite.
49. Avoid fads and bandwagons. 50. Accept the things you cannot change.
51. Look inside instead of outside yourself for answers to life's problems.
52. Remember that all feelings are okay.
53. Shield yourself from bad influences.
54. Stand up for what you believe in.
55. Respect the wishes of others when they say no.
56. Seize every moment and live it fully.
57. Give away or sell anything you haven't used in the past five years.
58. Never downgrade yourself.
59. Take responsibility for what you think, feel and do.
60. Pamper yourself.
61. Never say or do anything abusive to a child.
62. Let yourself be God powered instead of flying solo.
63. Volunteer to help someone in need.
64. Refrain from overindulging in food, drink and work.
65. Finish unfinished business.
66. Be spontaneous.
67. Find a constructive outlet for your anger.
68. Think about abundance instead of lack, because whatever you think about
expands.
69. Think of yourself as a survivor, not a victim.
70. Cuddle an animal.
71. Be open to life.
72. See success as something you already have, not something you must
attain.
73. Experience the splendor and awe of a sunset.
74. When you score a base hit, don't wish it were a home run.
75. Learn to be in the present moment.
76. Instead of believing in miracles, depend on them.
77. Take a child to the circus.
78. Change your attitude and your whole life will change.
79. Never turn your power over to another person.
80. When your heart is at odds with your head, follow your heart.
81. Always remember that the past is gone forever and the future never
comes.
82. Live your life according to what is right for you.
83. Acknowledge your imperfections.
84. Plant a tree and watch it grow.
85. See "friend" instead of "enemy" on the face of strangers.
86. Watch an army of ants build their houses and cities and carry food ten
times their weight.
87. Believe in something bigger than yourself.
88. Let the playful child within you come out.
89. Make haste slowly.
90. Work through your problems step by step and one day at a time.
91. Accept compliments from others so you can see the truth about yourself.
92. Sit on the lawn without worrying about grass stains.
93. Don't condemn yourself for your imperfections.
94. Do a humility check periodically by loving the truth about yourself.
95. Tell someone you appreciate them.
96. Never live your life according to what is right for someone else.
97. Talk less and listen more.
98. Admit your wrongdoing and forgive yourself for it.
99. Thrive on inner peace instead of on crises.
100. Affirm all the good things about yourself.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Saying I LOVE YOU in different languages of the world

Hi friends,its a general fashion to say I LOVE YOU while proposing.. Jus try saying the same in a different language that will fascinate your lover ??
Here are the different languages in which the most loved sentence I LOVE YOU has been translated into all the major languages of the world..!!








Afrikaans »» Ek het jou lief
Albanian »» Te dua
Arabic »» Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic »» Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian »» Yes kez sirumen
Bambara »» M'bi fe
Bangla »» Aamee toma ke bhalo baashi
Belarusian »» Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya »» Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian »» Obicham te
Cambodian »» Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese »» Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan »» T'estimo
Cheyenne »» Ne mohotatse
Chichewa »» Ndimakukonda
Corsican »» Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol »» Mi aime jou
Croatian »» Volim te
Czech »» Miluji te
Danish »» Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch »» Ik hou van jou
English »» I love you
Esperanto »» Mi amas vin
Estonian »» Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian »» Afgreki'
Faroese »» Eg elski teg
Farsi »» Doset daram
Filipino »» Mahal kita
Finnish »» Mina rakastan sinua
French »» Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Gaelic »» Ta gra agam ort
Georgian »» Mikvarhar
German »» Ich liebe dich
Greek »» S'agapo
Gujarati »» Hu tunney prem karu chu
Hiligaynon »» Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian »» Aloha wau ia oi
Hebrew »» Ani ohev otah (to female)
Hebrew »» Ani ohev et otha (to male)
Hiligaynon »» Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi »» Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong »» Kuv hlub koj
Hopi »» Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian »» Szeretlek
Icelandic »» Eg elska tig
Ilonggo »» Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian »» Saya cinta padamu
Inuit »» Negligevapse
Irish »» Taim i' ngra leat
Italian »» Ti amo
Japanese »» Aishiteru
Kannada »» Naa ninna preetisuve
Kapampangan »» Kaluguran daka
Konkani »» Tu magel moga cho
Korean »» Sarang Heyo
Latin »» Te amo
Latvian »» Es tevi miilu
Lebanese »» Bahibak
Lithuanian »» Tave myliu
Malay »» Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam »» Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin Chinese »» Wo ai ni
Marathi »» Me tula prem karto (to female)
Mohawk »» Kanbhik
Moroccan »» Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl »» Ni mits neki
Navaho »» Ayor anosh'ni
Norwegian »» Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan »» Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan »» Inaru Taka
Papiamento »» Mi ta stimabo
Persian »» Doo »» set daaram
Pig Latin »» Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish »» Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese »» Eu te amo
Romanian »» Te ubesk
Russian »» Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic »» Tha gradh agam ort
Serbian »» Volim te
Setswana »» Ke a go rata
Sindhi »» Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux »» Techihhila
Slovak »» Lu`bim ta
Slovenian »» Ljubim te
Spanish »» Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili »» Ninapenda wewe
Swedish »» Jag alskar dig
Swiss »» German »» Ich lieb Di
Tagalog »» Mahal kita
Taiwanese »» Wa ga ei li
Tahitian »» Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil »» Naan unnai kathalikiraen
Telugu »» Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai »» Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai »» Phom rak khun (to female)
Turkish »» Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian »» Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu »» mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese »» Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese »» Em ye^u anh (to male)
Welsh »» 'Rwy'n dy garu
Yiddish »» Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba »» Mo ni fe


Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.