A heart touching story for the married people

I dedicate this article to one of our regular blog reader whoz fed up with her husband and wanted to get divorced..Special Thnxx for one of my friends who have shared this story with me.. Its simple but truely has lots of meaning in it.. specially fr the married people..I dedicate this message to the married couples who feel that their husband/wife is ignoring them or has been loosing faith in them..for all such people,here is a nice story..Click read more..!!

P.S. : Its easy to become single but hard to be single for the second time.


My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restles...sness. I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?” Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes….

My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face…

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ” My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continue on reading…

“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk…

I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread…. Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments…
Life without love never existed till date..It might be a lack of mutual understanding that keeps a distance in bwn people but remember it doesnt mean tat u shud get divorced or forced to hate people..TRUST LOVE UNDERSTANDING is all needed...
Hope u liked the article very much..Comment with ur opinions...!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Please answer this question of one of our blog readers...

One of our regular blog readers,a very good friend of mine has asked me something that i felt like sharing with you people..Its in telugu and its been sent by her as a mail to me..Am posting it here..Please go through it and post your valuable comments...!!



Eappudu navvuthu, life lo every moment happy ga undali anukuntu.. life lo annitini balance cheyali anukune okadiki.. kopam ochinapudu matram ela react avalo matram teliyadam ledu.
we can tell about the person by seeing his behavior., but can judge his reality by seeing his way of responding when d right situation occurs.


kopam ochinapudu-- xpress chesesi., manasulo una matalu kopam antha chepesi relax ayithe btr ahh., leka ponle ani xcuse cheyatam btr ahh......
motham chepesthe vaalu hurt avtharu., nd as a human nature vaalu chesindi tappu kaadu it happend ani argue chestaru., manam xplain cheyataniki try chesina ah discussion kasta visugochi prolong chesi relation padu cheskovadam istam leka stop chesestaru. ala chesina kuda., hayoo enduku ila chesadu vaadu ani iddaru both sides disturb avtaru. may be mundu la free ga undalekapovachu bcuz of d litle disturbance in heart...
ponle ani forgive chesthe vaala tappu valaku ela telusthundi malli same repeat chesthe malli hurt avali... mana tappu lekapoyina manam forgive chesthe may be adi the other person ki tappu athadide kabbati akaditho odilesadu ani anukovachu kada or els vaalla way ne crct anukoni repeat chesthe em cheyali....
Atlast nenu adigedi entante., manaku kopam ochinapudu/ okarivalla hurt aynapudu ela react avali( which is the best way to solve the issue without hurting our self-respect and spoiling our relation) meeku telisunte., or meeru ah situation lo unte ela react avutaro ikada comments lo share chesthe adi inkokariki use avthundi ani asisthu one of the blog follower...

So frnds... Hope u will answer this question with ur opinions as comments...
Regeards,
Sriram Mallik.

Identify if ur gal/guy is loosing interest in U

Relationships can be made easily and broken easily too...But the broken relations cant be mended easily..What say people..?Click read more to know the signs if your partner is loosing interest in you...!



Relationship is a two way street and it takes the efforts of both the partners to keep it alive. It takes more efforts to maintain a relationship than getting into it. There is always a probability that any relationship can change and one or both of the partners loose love or interest in the other person to stay in the relationship. It is said that if you can fall in love you can fall out of love too.If or not your Boyfriend or Girlfriend has lost interest in you is something which you would be able to know based on his or her behavior or body language. Sometimes even the best of relationships can die down and everything you put up together will go down the drain. However, as long as it is not too late efforts can be put to re-build/re-construct the relationship and bring back the feelings of love into the relationship. But it is very important to know if your man/woman is loosing interest in you so that you can prepare yourself from the inevitable. How to know if your Boyfriend or Girlfriend has lost interest in you? There can be many signs that your relationship is in trouble, your boyfriend or girlfriend may have lost interest in you and may want to dump you.

Does he or she make excuses just not to see you or spend time with you regularly? You don’t go out anymore or do things like hugging or holding hands anymore?

Does your partner ignore you not only in public but in private as well? Does he or she have excuses when you try to be intimate?

Have his/her friends started being un-involved with you or are avoiding you?

Is your inner conscience feeling/telling you that something just isn’t right with your partner?

Is he/she making lame excuses that you are boring or he/she finds it boring having a conversation or chat with you?

Is your partner suddenly become more critical of you and the things you do?

Is your partner irritated by things he/she used to love about you earlier?

She or he no longer is bothered by the fact that you two aren’t getting together as much anymore. There is a major change in your boyfriend or girlfriends behavior and you even avoid communicating.

Your partner no longer notices you the way he/she used to do earlier?

Did you find any signs of admiring other girls other than you in your partner?
Then take steps in improving your relationships....Dont loose the relation at any cost..never give up even when u feel its over and can never happen anymore.!
REGARDS,
Sriram Mallik.

Feelings in INFATUTION

There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.
To know more...Click READ MORE...!!



There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.

When infatuated, we are thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. There are lingering, nagging doubts about our “partner in infatuation ” and their love for us. We’re miserable when they’re away, almost like we’re not complete unless we’re with them. It’s a rush and it’s intense. It’s difficult to concentrate. And most infatuation relationships have a high degree of sexual charge around them. Somehow being with them is not complete unless in ends in some type of sexual encounter.

Do any of these “symptoms” resemble feelings of love? Hardly. So why do we become infatuated? Where does it come from? Perhaps it’s biological.So keep an eye on all ur emotions and feelings and it is preferrable to have a self test before you come to a conclusion..!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Ashok Reddy's story ending.. Really heart touching...Part -3

Ee third part chadivina prati okkariki ekkado eado teliyani feeling ostundi.. Prema viluva eanto adi duram aite kani teliyadu ani antaru kada... Idi nijam emo anipinchindi..!! Idi chadivaka mee abhiprayalani tappakunda comments lo pedataru ani ashistunna..!!




Appati varaku China phone a unna naa life okka sariga Iphone la maripoindi.

Rojulu gadusthunnayi. thanaki naa gurinchi nijam cheppesa, thanu parvaledu le andi.. thank god anukunna.

Oka work unte hyd vella..vishayam telisi thanu kaluddam andi sare ani meet ayyam.

Thana favourite color yellow dress lo vasthune oka princess la undi. nenemo below avg luking gadini.

Days passing...Priya frnd Rupa cal chesi cheppindi priyani hosp lo admit chesam ani
emaindi ani adiga..... priya neeku neeku cheppaleda ani adigindi.Naku em cheppaledu ani cheppa.sare nuv aithe hospital ki vachey, anni matladukundam andi.

Priya ni ICU lo chusi edchesa.Roopa cheppindi priya ki heart prob undi ani, thanu ekkuva rojulu bathakadu ani.Naku inkem vinpinchaledu bayatiki vachesa. Priya ni discharge chesaka adiga enduku cheppaledu ani.Nenu cheppeddam anukunna ashok
but nuv naku ekkada dooram aipothavo ani cheppaledu. nen bathiki unna anni rojulu manam happy ga undali anukunna andi.Nen thanai ekkuva hospital lone choosa.

oka rojaithe phone matladuthu sudden ga padipoindi.Frnds ki cal chesi hospital lo admit cheyincha.thana parents vacharu.

Oka roju thana Mob switch off vachindi..parents unnaru kada ani switch off chesindemo anukunna. 2days varaku ade thanthu. doubt vachi roopa ki cal chesa. Thanu valla native place vellipoindi ani cheppindi. thana parents thiskellaru ani cheppindi.
Rojulu gadusthunnayi kani thana phone kalavatledu. 15days tharvatha malli roopa ki cal chesthe cheppindi Priya banglore lo valla relatives daggariki vellipoindani. 2, 3 months akkade untanani cheppindanta.

Sarle thanu akkadaina happy ga unte chalu anukunna. Oka roju thana frnd oka abbayi kalisadu.priya gurinchi adiga.Neeku theleeda thanu eppudo chanipoindi kada annadu.
inka tharvatha em jarigindo nenu cheppalenu...

Priya Gnapakalatho bathikesthunna...
Mee Ashok



Ento badha karam ayina ee story ending ni chadivaka undaleka nenu eadichesa.. May her soul rest in peace.. Naku mari maatalu ravatledu...Ashok..We all love you for ever...!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Ashok Reddy's love story.. Really heart touching.. Awesome Narration..Part -2

Awesome narration tho first part tho manchi positive response techukunna mana Ashok Reddy,tana love story lo second part ni post chesadu..Telusukovalani unda?? Aite enduku aalashyam..Read more click chesi chadiveyandi...!!












Aug-8-05 roju oka wrong call chesa,avathali vaipu oka abbayi naku ventane ardham aindi wrong cal chesa ani..so sry cheppesi phone pettesa.

10 min tharvatha same number nundi cal vachindi. ee sari oka sweet voice appativaraku ammayila tho matladani nenu oka ammayi phone lo matladuthunna ane Anxiety ekkuvaindi.ammayi matladuthundi kada ani edo saradaga annanu, "Nenu nee sudheer gurthupattaleda", ani adiga."Naku meerevaro gurthu ravatledu",ani cheppindi. "Sare gurthu thechukoni malli call cheyandi", ani pettesa.

30min tharvatha malli call vachindi. Nalo theliyani konni vibrations start ayyayi.

"Naku meeru evaro assalu gurthuravatledu", ani cheppindi. Ala oka roju motham edipincha.. Tharvaatha nijam cheppesi thana detailes theluskunna.

Thana paeru PRIYA ani, working in a part time job and also study chesthunna ani cheppindi.Nenu mathram naa details anni wrong info icha enduku ante naa bhayam
naadi. ikkada inko pedda twist entante thanu naa kante 18 mnths peddadi so naa date of birth kuda wrong cheppa.

Two days lone baaga close ayyam..adi premo/aakarshano theliyani feeling naalo start aindi. but thanu naa gurinchi emanukuntundo theliyadu kada propose chesi anavasaram ga frndship paaducheyadam ishtam leka silent ga undipoya (ammayini chudakunda
love entra anukuntunnara manatho oka ammayi matladdame oka prapancha vintha alanidi ni8 3'o clock varaku matladesthunte kachitham ga idi lovve anukune age adi. nakkuda
alage anipinchindi).

One week tharvatha thane propose chesindi Oh My God... idi kalaa / nijama anukunna.. Naku therukovadaniki 2min pattindi. naku aluchinchukodaniki time kavalani yedava buildup kuda icha. (actual ga cheppalante dance.... oka 5 min kavalani ala cheppa)..Ventane pakka roomloki vellipoyi dance chesa choodu na sami ranga(aa dance debbaku next day antha full body pains). 5min tharvatha cal chesi I 2 LOVE U ani cheppesa...

----<@ Ashok <----<



Eanti inka next part emaindo telusukovali anukuntunara?? Kangaru endukandi... koddiga opika pattandi..next part ati twaralo ochestondi.. So keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Ashok Reddy's love story.. Really heart touching.. Awesome Narration..Part -1

Hello friends.. Oka heart touching love story ni mee munduki testunnanu.. Its our friend Ashok Reddy's true love story.. Meeku parts parts ga chepataniki try chestunadu tanu.. Anta okesari cheppatam kanna three small parts lo chepta ani fix ayadu..So we are gonna read this story in his own narration only.. Lite ga confusing ga untundi but read it with curiosity ;) :D
Here goes the story :)




Aa roju nen maa farm house lo work tho busy ga unna. Priya mobile nundi call vachindi
"Hi ra... college aipoinda..?", ani adiga.. Phone lo Priya friend Roopa matladuthondi.."Priya ni hospital lo admit chesam,ventane ra",ani cheppindi...

Asalu eam jarigindi??? Priya ni hosp lo enduku admit chesaru? Asalu Priya evaro thelusukovalante........ 6 mnths venakki vellali...

Flash back lo ki vaste....Naa studies complete aipoyayi..naku job cheydam assalu
ishtam ledu so maa farm chusukuntu own ga business pedadam ane planing lo unna...

Maadi chaala pedda family, chaala pedda farm house 50 acres varaku untadi..andaru city ki vellipoyaru nenu mathram village lone undipoya. naku city ante nachedi kadu anduke maa farm house chusukuntu life enjoy chesevadni..maa farm house lo bathayi pallu, nimma pallu etc undevi...aa thotalu chuskunevadni.. ade naa life. daily
workers tho work cheyinchadam,vatini market ki thiskelladam ila unde vadini. full mass.

Naa school colg life lo okka ammayitho kuda matlade vadni kadu. naku aa feelings kuda levu, votti palleturi batch nadi.. naa gang kuda anthe undedi. nene ila :D
Naa gang members voora mass..

Generala ga gang lo evadaithe logic lekunda gang ni confuse chesthu matladuthu
untado vade leader avthadu so naa gang ki nannu leader ni chesaru...vallu cheyadam
ane kante nene leader aipoya anatam better :). ide naa life.


Tollywood film idustry ki Shiva movie trend setter kada. madya lo Shiva topic
enduku vachindante shiva ki mundu industry ela undi shiva tharvatha ela
undo manaku thelsinde.

alage naa life aug 8 2005 ki mundu,aa tharvatha ani cheppukovali.. aa roju
naa life ne marchesthunadani expect cheyaledu...

----<@ Ashok Reddy <----


Asalu aa roju eam jarigindo telusukovalante,wait for the next part...
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Comment on this soon.. Waiting for all your response...!!

Friends,here is a mail that i got just now..A friend needs help from all of us.. So please read it and respond with your suggestions..!!


Here goes the mail that i recieved...!!


hey sriram ..
once small problem .. need ur help .. i could solve this problem but sme kinda personal to me ... so, i cant take risk in it .. so, askin ur help
here i go . neeku simple ga chepesta..
na frnd okadu ma clsmate ammai ki propose chesadu .. she s frm kshatriya's .. intlo inter cast marriage's e chestaru anta .. she has a difftnt wrld totally ...
engg join ayindi kani tana interest's anni economics meede .. she wont be comin to clz regularly also .. matladadam anna no time asalu .. feelings express cheyali anna no time .. kani veedi tanu ante chala istam .. oka roju teginchesi chepisadu .. propose cheyale but direct marriage proposal chesadu .. adi em matladale .. she went away ... veedu response imani adigadu ... apdu adi em annadi ante .. tana life lo decisions anni vala parents ki vadilesindi anta ... she wont take any chance in lovin someone ani annadi .. enta matladina asalu convince avatle .. no response ... phone chesina lift cheyadu .. msg ki response undadu .. enni tyms call chesina no response . chala patience tho call chestadu epduuu .. max oka 2 or 3 tyms call lift chesindi emo ... tht to she wnt talk more thn 5 min .. kani veedki alanti ammai malli dorakadu ani feel avtunadu ... chala istam veedki .. nenu em gurantee ivagalanu ante.. veedu matram asalu vadaladu danini .. ah type ee kadu asalu ..
valla parents ki adagadame last chance veedki migilndi ... kani adi impossible .. rajulu asalu opkoru ..paruvu mukhyam vallaki family lo ..
ipdu chala critical position veedidi .. em cheyamantav nuvvu aite ?? oka sari mee frnds tho discuss chesi edo solution chepava .. plz .. nenu deal cheste ekadaina vadki against ga cheptanemo .. ala chepte maku malli problem vastundi .. for ga chepte malli expectations ekuvavtai .. malli last ki opkokapote vadi life waste avtundi .. neeku enduku adugutunanu ante.. inkokalu chepte kanisam aalochistadu ane opinion tho adugutunna ..
plz do reply ... :)
thanks :)


So friends,Please respond with your valuable comments.. Lets help this one side lover win his love/atleast understand with the present scenario..!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

NIRUP's own LOVE STORY(In telugu version with his own narration)

Hey friends,here is a very heart touching,original love story of one of our blog friends Munigada Nirup. Entho feel tho rasaadu.. Kasta peddadi ga untundi but please try to read it with patience untill the last line..!! Click read more..!!




My Love Never Ends…..Nirup’s Story …
Na peru nirup.Chudadaniki peddaga attractive undanu. Inka cheppalante konchem blackga ..inka konchem lavuga unta …

Naaku chinnappati nundi ammayilu ante nacharu. Inka cheppalante Love ane word ante chiraku. Maa school days lo okariki okaru love ani chepthunte nalo nenu navvkunevadni.Antha maturega alochinchevadni. And Oka seniorla behave chesevadni. Maa class lo naakantu oka manchi impression undedhi. Assalu evvaritho ekkuva matladevadni kadhu. Naa pani nenu cheskunevadni. Inka ammayilatho assal matladevadni kadhu. Ammayilatho matladalanta chala bayam vesedi.Maa friends andharu ammyilu antunte…… nenu matram ammayilu waste ane vadni. Even maa Class girls natho matladadniki intrest pette vallu. But nenu asslu samadaname cheppevadni kadhu.

Ala naa school days gadichipoyayi.Appati varaku nenoka raayi type. Evvaitho matladevadni kadhu and chala innocent and bright student.
Tarwata nannu Inter hostel lo vesaru.akkada prabhavam valla nenu chala change ayyanu. Andharitho kalsipoyevadni.Tega allari chesevadni.Chala bubblyga undevadni.Nannu chusi maa parents shock tinnaru. Veedenti ila aayyadu ani. Off course results kuda shock itchai. Naa eamcet rank vini intlo vallu murcha poyyaru. Tarwata nenu engineering chennai lo chestha ani Intlo vallani oopincha. Kaani last momentlo Maa mummy edvadam valla cancel cheskoni councilling vellalsi vachindi. Councilling lo Naaku hyderabad ki 30 kms duram unna oka chetta college vachindi. Sarle edo oka college ani nen adjust aypoya. Maa college oka village lo untundi. Ma parents naaku ibbandi kalagakudadhani village lo oka room tiskoni naaku Vanta undadaniki maa amammani petti vellaru. A chinna palleturulo naaku chala chiraku puttedhi Daniki thodu maa college chendalanga undadam inka assal tattukolekapoya.

Maa Classlo 9 girls. 1st year mottam anni bunk’s.College antene nachedhi kadhu.Appudappudu velli vachevadni. Maa friends naa name gurthunchukolekha Pandu ani pettaru. Appati nundi andharu pandu ani pilichevaru. Ila first year ending ki vatchesindi.

Maa class mate peru Satya .Nenu ela attract ayyano naake gurthu ledhu. Classki vachinapudu chuse vadni. Nijam cheppalante thanu mari antha andhagatte em kadhu. Kaani naaku nachesindi .em nachindi ?eppudu nachindi ?ela nachindi ?ante matram …naaku telidhu.endhukante thana mayalo ela paddano kuda naaku gurthu ledhu.Chala maturega alochinche nenu edhi just oka attraction ani fix aypoyi Lite tiskunna. Cut chesthe 2nd year start ayyindi.Malli Nenu bunk’s start chesa.But vachina prathi sari a ammayini chusi vellipoyevadni. Anthaku minchi nenem cheyyalenu kada :P .

Satya chala manchi ammayi.inka chaduvu paranga naakante konchem better. Boys lo kondarithone matladuthundi.adi kuda chala limitga.Iddaru mugguru prapose chesina no ani cheppindi.thanu konchem laavuga untundi.But thana eyes and smile chuse nenu padipoya ankuntunna.
2-1 exams mundhu attendance lekha daily oka one month ravalsi vachindi. So ala roju vachi aa ammayini chusi fullaga Love lo padipoya.ala nenu a ammayini love chesthunna ane feeling naalo start ayyindi.Inka amani eppudu chudala ane excitementtho collegeki vellevadni.E matter gurinchi maa Gangki cheppalanukunna Kaani ikkada inko twist adi entante nenu chala lavuga unta then thanu lavuga untundi. So nenu e matter chepthe nannu comment chestharani Cheppaaledhu. Ala thanani moogaga aradhinchevadni.Kaani vere group friends sayayamtho tana phone num kaukkunna. Phonelo parichayam cheskundamanukunna but naa name cheppadame thanu reply ivvadam manesindi.Then ventane I LIKE YOU ani cheppa. Thanu intrest ledani simplega cheppesindi.Then Holidays…….

2-2 sem strated.Maa gang vallaki konchem konchemga nenu try chesthunna vishayam telsi comments start chesaru.Classlo okka gangtho matrame matladevadni. So nenu class andhariki daggara avvalane uddeshamtho Vere gangloki Jump ayya. Vallantha Racha gang.nenu valla gang lo easyga duresa.Ika appati nundi classlo Naanaa hungama chesevadni.Naaku fullga following perigipoyindi.nen class lo enter avvagane pandu…paNDU ani arichi gola chersevaaru. Inka mana level perigindi kada ani manam inka collegeki bike meeda vachevadni.

Oka fineday diryam techukoni thanani pilichi sorry ani cheppa. Maa friends andhru endhukura sorry annaru. Nenu thana numki msg chesa lera ani cheppa. Msg endhuku chesav ra ante..nenu thanani love chesthunna mama..ani cheppa… Inka appati nundi thanu lechina , kurchunna …Class andharu pandu ani arichevaaru.Nenu vaddura ala pilavoddu HOD ki complaint chesthundi ani entha cheppina vinaledhu.Maa kotha gang …Maa patha gang rendu kalsi Poti pettukoni mari aarichevallu.Thanu chinnaga nannu chusi navvedhi.maa friends andharu…chudu mama memu gola chesthunnam kabatti ammayi ninnu chusthundi anevallu.nenu matram eppudu vallani encourage chesevadni kadhu. Nenu b.tech joining lo naa weight 98kgs Than kosam tindi manesi. Jimki velli.Inka evado maa friend Rum tagithe taggutharu ante…adi kuda alavaatu cheskunna.Chala Side effects ..vachai naa Health antha padyipoyindi,then.Lastki 81kgs ki vatchesa.Nannu chusi maa parents kuda shock tinnaru. Ala a debbatho mana Facelo oka kala vachindi.Inka cheppalante full confidence vachindi.Inka appati nundi naalo oka kotta utsaham vachesindi anthe …thanatho three times exam ela raasav ? ani adiga …Thanu navvuthu baagane raasa ani cheppedhi.Ayna Manaki matladentha diryam ekkada sachindani :p e moodu mukkale ekkuva …. Ilage 2-2 kuda finish ..

Inka assalu gattam vachesindi.3-1 sem started.Inka nenu a ammayini chudakunda okka roju kuda undalekapothunna. Thana bus lo praveen ani maa friend vatchevaadu.vaadi num tiskoni thanu clgki vasthunda ravatledha ani kanukkoni mari vellevadni.Maa friends gola common thana smile common.Nenu common.

Oka fine day maa frinds andharu naa love story meeda chiraku puttindi. Inka yenni rojulu chusthav Velli prapose cheyara ani godava pettesaru.Inka thana venta Bus ekki mari bus stop lo face to face I LOVE You ani cheppesa.Thanu seriousga chusi am not Intrested ani cheppindhi.Nenu dissipointed Kaani maa firnds andhru arey lite mama girls andharu first ilane antaru ani nacha chepparu.Tarwaata oka one week thanani marchipodamanukunna…kaani kudarle.Inka appti nundi tha bus venakale velladam strat chesa.Okasari valla inti varaku follow ayyi vella.Than apartement chusi vatcha. Inka Holidays lo kuda nenu a aprtement chuttu tirigevadni.kaani eppudu thanu naaku kanipichedhi kadhu.Nenu eppudu thanani follow avvadam start chesano appude thanu naa vaipu ekkuva chusi navvedhi. Inka manam endhuku aagutham class antha rache.Malli naaku kotha asahalu chigurinchai.

But e lope Bad news …nenu drink chesthunna ani intlo telsindi.appude exams start avvabothunnai. Maa mom xamski nenu hydki vatchestha ani ikkadi vatchesindi.Maa dad and mom lanti parents inka evvariki undaru ani naa feeling.antha Baaga chuskuntaaru.Alanti vallani mosam cheyadam naaku badaga anipichindi.Mummy hydki vacharu kaani nannu emi analedhu.kaani nenu matram mummy ni kshaminchamani adiga .ippati nundi drink cheyanu amma ani bathimalada.Maa Mummy nannu excuse chesi inka eppudu ilantivi cheyyoddu ani edchukuntu chepparu.Even a scene naa kalla munde unnatlundi naaku.

So naa love story valla nenu chesina tappulento okkakkati naaku ardham avuthundi.Results nil. Maa frinds eppudu nenu chesedi tappu analedhu. Annitini encourage chesaaru.Frinds ante anthe ga mari.So nenu naa love storyki end pettadalchukunna…Thanani seriousga adagali love chesthunnava ? cheyyatledha ?? ani…
E vishayam telchadaniki eppati laane exam aypogaane thana bus venaka follow ayya …But thanatho matladalekapoya…
Next examki alane vella….e sari miss avvoddu anukunna.thanani follow avuthu vella suddenga vere apartementloki vellindi.Akkade wait chesthu kurchundi poya.Bike meeda oka abbayi And uncle vatcharu.ravadame maa bike keys lagesaaru.Evadra nuvvu ikkadem chesthunnav ani niladesaru.nenu alane chusthu undi poya.Maa friend edo covering chesthunnadu.e lopu thanu bayatiki vatchindi.a uncle e abbayena ani adigau ? thanu avunu andi.ventane….akkadiki police bike meeda vatchi mammlni tskelladu.Inka thanu and valla parents kuda PS ki vatcharu. Inka akkda naa gurinchi cheppindi chudandi

Veedu nannu 3yrs nundi naa venta paduthunnadu.
Eppudu classlo naa meeda gola chesi comment chesthu untadu
Pedda rowdy sir veedu…
Nenu roju clgki vasthunnano ledho praveen ani maa friend ni adigi mari clgki vasthadu…
Enni sarlu naa venta padoddu ani cheppina vinadu.
Nannu edipisthuntadu sir …

Ventane valla pedananna anukunta nannu bedirinchadu.nenu matram okka mukka kuda matladale.Inspecter nannu chempa chellumanipichadu.Daniki nenu feel avvale…kaani bike meeda vachina maa frndni matram chala darunanga kottaru.Thanu oka complaint raasi …vellipoyindi. Inka appati nundi..Tarwaata mammalni kottina constable vachi sorry babu mimmalni ila kottakapothe vallu mee meeda case pedatharu. Andhuke kottam ani challaga chepparu.

Inka nenu ela bayatapadalo ardham kale.Vachina prathi policeki naa story cheppadam vallu hyd porilu anthe babu..ani vellipovadam ..okkadu mammalni vadilipettaledhu.afternoon 2 nunchi evng 7 ayyindi.naa phoneki ma mummy phone chesi ekkada unnav ra….ani aduguthunnaru.nijam chepthe tattukoleru ani friend intlo ani cheppa.lastki main inspector vachi mee family nundi evvaru vachi sign pettina vadilestha annaru. Nenu maa frinds ki appudu phone chesi maa mummyki teliyakunda maa thammudni tiskocharu.kaani vaadu mammlni vadilipettale.Maa dad tho matladi vadilipedatha anaru.Maa dad ki phone chesi itcha.Maa daddy ni ela tittaro gurthu cheskunte…naaku ippatiki edupu vasthundi.A roju stationlo vinna titlu boothulu gurtechukunte naaku chachipovalani pisthundi.Last ki nannu vadilipettaru.
Roomki vellina nenu ma mummyki em cheppalo ardham kaledhu.Maa daddy next day vacharu hydki. appatiki maa dad emaindi ? ela jarigindi ani adagaledhu .Simplega collegeki vellaku ippati nundi only exams ee raayi annaru.Nenu maa dadni bathimilaadi oopincha clgki.
Next day a ammayi nannu collegelo kuda vadilipettaldhu.Principalki complaint chesindi.Then nenu diryange maa daddytho matladukomandi ani dircetga cheppesa.then maa dad and valla daddy kalsi agreement raskoni evari dhari vallu vellipoyaru.

Inka e vishayamlo naadhe tappu ani nenu anukuntunna.kaani maa frnds thande tappu antaru. Edhi emaina nannu konni vishayalu assalu ardham kaledhu .

Nenu thana venta 1 yr ee padda.E one yearlo nenu matldindhe 4 or 5 times.nenu eppudu comments cheyaledhu.Thanu eppudu nannu kopanga chudaledhu. And thanu emi innocent and siggu pade ammayi kadhu.

Okkasarina Nirup naa venta padoddu nenu maa parentski cheptha ani anochuga ??
Nuvvu ila gola cheyadam assalu baaledhu ani cheppochuga ??
Naa gurinchi oka rowdy la cheppi irikinchadam valla thanaki em labham ???

But nenu inka a ammayini marchipolekapothunna. May be thanu naaku first love kabatti emo…

Thanu chesina e adbhutham valla Turn avvalsina naa life Burn ayyindi..

Intlo naaku value lekunda poyindi.Naa meedha nammakam poyindi,Naa meeda oka rupai karchupettadaniki kuda intlo alochisthunnaru.Maa frinds nannu marchepoyaru. Naatho tirigina frinds naatho matladdame gaganam aypoyindi.Maa clglo nenoka road side romeo ga migilipoya.Maa college Girls drushtilo oka Physco laaga migilipoya.

E madhye naa valla intlo maa parents ki godavalu jaruguthunte …
Iddaru kalsi endhuku ila chesav ani nannu kottina bagundedhi kaani maa amma nanna nee valle ila ayyadu ante nee valle ila ayyadu ani kottukunnaru .Chusi tattukolekhapoya …Kattitho chey koskoni suscide attempt chesa…By luck bathiki ila naa story ni post chesthunna….

Enti Naa storylo comedy ledhu ani feel avuthunnaru kada andhuke oka comedy vishayam chepthunna …
Nenu a ammayini try chesthunnapudu maa friends andharu…adem nachindira dhani kante..nuvve baguntav ane vallu…Friends kada andhuke ala antunnaru…ani lite tiskunna…
Kaani Nenu Police stationlo paddapudu…naatho matladina prathi okka police…okate annaru …

“ ayna nuvvu a ammayi venakala ela paddav thammudu ?? adem nachindi neeku …e ammayi complaint itchindante navvosthundi . assalu neeku a ammayi lo em nachindi cheppu ??“
Ayna nenu ammayini chusana …thana kallani matrame chusa….Andhuke prema guddidhi antaru….


Enti naa meedha jali paduthunnara ??? vaddu ……..Naa story lo tappu naade kabatti shiksha naake padindi anukuntunna…Maari meerem antaru ?



MY LOVE NEVER ENDS
NIRUP,
With love :)

MY solution for Bhavana garu's frnds problem

Hello friends,
Here is my suggestion or opinion regarding Bhavana garu's friend... Actually i took a lot of time to write something regarding this problem cozz if i say something tat might be a bit wrong to others,their relation might be much ruined..So please forgive me if i write something wrong..I jus wrote wat i felt...!!

Life lo adjustments anevi chala important.. Adjustment leni chota relation sariga undadu.. True love exist aye chance undadu..Konni special factors induku sahaaya padatayi... Vatilo naku telisinavi nenu pedutunna.. Tappuga matladite kshaminchandi..Idi kevalam na knowledge varake...!!




Trust: The key role in a relation is trust.Its like heartbeat in a relation.If trust is lost,it can never be gained.For example if in a relation,the guy committed some mistake which made his gal loose trust on him..Even after sometime in future,they tend to be a couple,she can never be as she was..She cant give her 100% love to him..It might be jus 99%. So trust once lost cant be won back completely..Its like a glass article broken.If a glass article is broken,it can jus be stuck by assembling the glass pieces but the cracks will remain for ever.. So never loose trust.. Be true always :)


Respect n compromise: Compromising is the key factor of maintaining a relation in the way we like..Its a common factor in a relation where either of the husband or wife may tend to become serious or may try to act as if you became serious on the other and would jus pretend to stop talking with them..But if this condition gets worse,it may lead to worst results like seperation..So either of the couple must compromise jus to maintain a smooth relation..If an argument is started,then either of the husband or wife should compromise else the situation may get worsen..!!


Unable to express: It might be in any matter,where you fail to express what you actually feel..this might lead to formation of gap at hearts.. A relation is something where it exactly needs true opinion about the other..For example she bought a new dress and you didnt like the way it looked...I mean it may have some flaw..You recognize that earlier itself but you didnt want her to feel for that by expressing it..Later it hurts her more when someone else points it out..!! There might be many other examples like this but feel free to express something before her..It might be hurting for some time but later when she realises the truth,she will feel happier..


Habbits: For example if the husband had the habbit of smoking/drinking or chitchatting with friends for late nights...it would be good before marriage bt after marriage,he should understand the situation and should try to adjust..same is the case with women where if they have the habbit of chatting with their friends,outing with her friends and all..even she should adjust according to the situation after marriage..Some couples have the feeling of over possessiveness...Like when they both are working,they should adjust to the situation where in they keep interacting with people of their opposite gender..So some situations are to be handled lite bt with proper care so as to make your relation a longlasting one


Income factor: A relation would last much longer with much sweetness when both feel that the income they have earned individually is combined and none think in an individualistic manner.. They should discuss now and then regarding the income,expenditure and the ways to save money for their future.. In such cases a relation would be just sweet and long lasting :)


Lack of sexual knowledge: Some people might be having unnecessary fears regarding their personal life where in they might have read something in books thatzz partially un true or might have heard somethings from friends that might be jus a rumour.. In such cases relationships tend to cease back its fragrance... When therezz mutual understanding between the couple,when there is a chance for both of them sharing their views regarding what actually the truth is,a relation would be much bounded.Else that would lead a very long distance seperation gap in between the couple




Egoistic Attitude: Its a common nature of a human to have some ego in his/her mind.But this ego will ruin the fragrance of your relation.So to have a smooth relation you should surely remove the egoistic nature at your heart and should be truthfully good to your loved ones.

Ivi kaakunda chala factors unnayi.Jus for time being ivi cheppa...So take care regarding these points and make your relation a happier one...!!

Keep rocking.,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Problem for which you should respond with a suggestion

Friends,here is a small problem that one of my blog friends Bhavana garu has posted.. Please respond it soon with your valuable comments..!!

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Hello Sriram

I'm Bhavana frm Vizag.. I've been following your blog articles since 5 months and am very glad to say that I became your big follower..Mainly for the articles tat you write..

With that leniance i am asking your help today.. To solve my friends personal life problem..
She lives in kolkata.. Telugu brahmins vallu..She is married to a guy recently but right from first day she isnt happy with her relation.. Some disturbances..But shezz nt clear about those..What and why anedi teliyatledu.. So can you tell me how to maintain a simple and cool smooth going relation..?? What are the necessary tips tat one should take in that..??

Asalu problem eantante she is unable to adjust with him nor he...Chinna disturbances anni pedda pedda godavala tho end avtunnai...Marriage ayina six months nundi vallu vidipodam ane chustunaru...Naaku emo vallani kalapaalane undi but eam cheyalo teliyatledu...
aa godavalu lekunda undali ante vellu teskovalsina jagrattalu eanti..??Vellani eam cheyamantaru..?Meerey eado okati cheyandi eadina chesi iddari madhya understanding ochela cheyandi please...!!Mee friends tho matladi ayina sare help cheyandi..!

Please friends eado okati suggest cheyandi...!!


Regards,
Bhavana



So friends,hope you try yyour best to suggest her the most possible ways to maintain a gud relation..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Article dedicated to girls/women who brokeup with their lover

In the recent days,there are many cases of breakups...There might be various reasons for this but later on i felt that girls,women and ladies are having the maximum pain in such issues.. So keeping them in mind,i just wanted to write something for them..To all the female readers of my blog,here is a small article dedicated to you... Click read more...!!


Most people know that unexplored emotional package of feelings carried over from a prior relationship often immediately avoid even the best of new love interests. The problem is that most people don’t know how to leave it behind, get clear, and move forward--so we get right back into the same crappy relationship that we just got out of.

1. The Embrace change
Start by embracing change. Inevitably, the good, bad, and in-between times of relationships are made up of experiences that change your world. The reason men and women bounce between relationship failures is a result of an inability to embrace change. Maybe they’ll come back? Maybe they are just not ready? The situation doesn’t matter. Life is different now. Life will be different in the future. It is a good thing. Embrace it. Every second spend dwelling in the “what ifs'” of the past are moments not experienced in your spectacular new life. Life is always more thoroughly enjoyed from front seat of the locomotive than standing in the caboose. Find a way to face forward.

2. The Urge to get rid of him/her
Initiate change in simple ways. Start by rearranging your furniture and cleaning the clutter. Switch out some old picture frames. Find a new shower curtain. Look for a shiny new coffee maker. Even subtle shifts can make you feel more alive. The true root of past relationship discontent and resentment is actually not from your ex’s hours on the couch watching football, but from the stagnation that it represents. Changing things up will give a feeling of movement and growth. Even more, it will give you a clean home to come back to if emotional fireworks erupt on your dinner date with your new prospective partner.

Then on to your closet. Everything that has not been warn in the last 6 months goes in the donation pile. Bringing a friend who supports you is always a good idea. The process is much easier with a good girlfriend to set you straight when you start to get sentimental about the dress worn on your first date with the guy who left you 6 months ago... Trust me, there is a woman at Goodwill right now just waiting to give it a whirl on another first date. Get rid of it. Physical liberation results in mental liberation. Let your past self make room for who you’ve become.

Streamline your finances. Take the time and go online and find a site that allows you to pay all your bills in one place at one time. Envelopes and stamps are a pain in the ass anyway. Knowing exactly where you stand financially makes you appear empowered rather than needy. Especially in today’s economy, guys are looking for a financial partner, not a financial liability.

3. The Check In
Get clear on what happened in the last relationship that caused it to fail. This process is not at all about blaming yourself or your partner; it’s about education. If you were too overbearing or pushed too hard for commitment, take note and ease up a bit on the next guy. No problem. No blame. Men find an independent woman sexy--as long as they still want a man from time to time.

When the last guy had issues he needed to deal with, leave it at that. It’s much like my favorite Seinfeld episode where George goes into a fit when his girlfriend turns the tables and exits the relationship with the standard male exit strategy, “It’s not about you. It’s me” For men, this is often times actually true. It takes us a little longer to make sense of emotionally charged situations and sometimes retreat is the only way we know to make sense of it all. Let it go and move on. It is his loss. 9 out of 10 guys who say it’s over really mean it’s over. Then if he actually comes back after retreat, he’ll have to grovel back to a whole new woman who knows exactly what she wants.

4. The Declare & Have Faith
Then Declare your desires to the Universe. They can be spoken aloud, or just in your own head. The important part is just putting them out there.

Focus in detail on what you want. His laugh. The way he looks at you from across the room. The smell of his cologne. Then imagine how great it will feel to finally share the love that you’ve always wanted, forget about it, and go about your day.

Think of all the things you want in a man for a few minutes each day and then trust that your intention will be fulfilled. Modern men are drawn to women who know what they want and have the conviction to make it a reality. Knowing what you want doesn’t make you a bitch, it makes you rich with self love. Often misinterpreted; desire, faith, and persistence are the backbone to any successful match. Without them, you are at the mercy of the wants and desires of everyone else, whose desires obviously may not be the same as yours. There is nothing wrong with taking control of your destiny. In fact, it is the only way.

5. Opposites Attract, then Always Re-tract
Ever met a guy who seemed mysterious and attractive because his occupation or hobbies were the extreme opposite of yours? His intriguing conversation about things you’ve never discussed before made you feel alive and left you wanting more? You realized you are complete opposites in every way, but can’t help but want to feel the romanticism of Jerry Maguire as he whispered to Rene Zellweger.

Complete bullshit.
Relationships built around opposite lifestyles burn bright and burn fast, yet leave everyone in the darkness before long.
I realize there is about .001% of the population who have actually found a way to make an ‘opposite attraction’ last the test of time, however, for the rest of use rookies in love, it is a disaster waiting to happen.
Men do not change. So be sure that his life as a traveling comedian is something that you can endure even after you’ve memorized all of his punch lines.
Focus on what really matters to you and leave the intrigue of an opposite lifestyle in the friendship zone.

6. Reverse the Curse of the involvment
It has long been argued that the problem between men and women can be summarized by the following statements,
Women get involved with men with the subconscious understanding that their man will change over time...
Men get involved with women with the subconscious understanding that their woman won’t ever change...
And in the end, both sides are left disappointed.
Why?
It is because we all try to be something that we are not in the courting phase and then slide into ‘who we really are’ over time. Why not just stop the charade and get real?

As a generalization, I have observed that in the relationship arena, most women are fueled by emotion, driven by love, and exalted by romance.
While generally men on the other hand, are fueled by a physical urge, driven by lust, and exalted by a beer and roll in the hay.
Yet, just because we seem to want different things, in the end it is all about feeling loved.

So...just love.
It’s not that simple you say?

Sure it is. If you are honest and forthright about who you are, where you are going, and what you expect from a relationship, what can go wrong? No games. No lies. No waiting five days before returning a phone call. Just be real. Modern movies and media have glamorized a ‘player’ type approach to relationships that is part of the reason half of us end up in divorce court. It is not working. Stop the games and get back to the simple desire of every human being...to love and be loved.

The worst case scenario is that you will find out sooner than later that it won’t work and move on. What’s wrong with that?

Declare your desire in love, have faith, be real, and if what you see isn’t what you want, move on and love yourself enough to hold out for the real thing.

So dear women readers,please dont take anything to heart....Just recover from the incidents that have happened and lead a normal life..Keep rocking..!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Friends,please respond to this love problem that a frnd has requested for your all solutions...seeing the way you all have responded earlier,he has requested us...so please do respond...!!Click read more..!



hi dude.this is akshay.from last 3 years i lve a girl.its one sided.we were in same school bt now in diferent.she was ma junior.i nvr talked her in school coz of some reasons.now tat day i msged her on facebook.we chated a bit then i told her everything....she said i respect your love...bt she cnt have boyfriend till she becomes 21.so i said i ill w8.we chated a lot n then she stopped talking with me.she also said tat she was proposed by many ppl so she cnt guarantee tat she ill pick me up....
..wat should i do now?reply soon.........



My solution :

Hi Akshay,
What ever might happen,being a guy having loads of love,dont give up.....
I believe that loving someone is not just for living with them..........love means accepting them for what they are,having a desire to see them happy,in whatever state of life they are and with whom ever they wish..........
Let me explain.....You are loving that girl since three years.....it is upto her whether to accept you or not...dont force her at any instant of time.....you continue your love...dnt let love leave ur mind...even if she doesnt accpt you,you keep loving....untill she realises that none can love her as u love...
Let me give you a practical example of what true love is.......
I know a person,very familiar to everyone...a normal guy,nothing special to say abt him...he is just like all others...he is in love with a gal since 4years....knw what...that girl has been physically molested by her relative,nt jus once..bt for three months...she has lost the desire to live...but this guy has promised her to takecare of her and he is doing the same....at one instant of time,she introduced him to her frnd who was very gud,and he used to care for the girl as her lover does...everytime she used to boast about his frnd while she was having time to have a chat wid her lover....so her lover asked her,do u like that guy..?are u sure he will take a gud care of you..??he started enquiring....the girl asked him why the hell is he asking such questions...then her lover said,if anyone loves and cares u morethan what i do,and if u really like that person i will be the first one to help you in uniting both of you..he then said love means having a desire to see our loved ones happy forever no matter where they are and with whom they live...And knw what...the girl has doubled the affection towards her lover after listening to this....!She began trusting him very much...she felt that none can love her as he did..!
So why cant you do the same??

Do see that this letter that i give you nw reaches her...by anymeans..!
what ever might happen,keep loving...dnt try impressing her...jus make her feel that you love her verymuch,you care her like no other person does....jus make it sure that ths msg reaches her
HONEY,WHERE EVER YOU ARE,WHATEVER YOU DO,HOW EVER YOU WANNA BE IN YOUR LIFE,DO AS YOU WISH,I ONLY NEED YOUR HAPPINESS...LOVE IS WHAT I HAVE IN MY MIND REGARDING YOU..I WOULD NEVER GIVEUP THIS LOVE,EVEN IF U ACCEPT ANYOTHER..UNTILL I DIE,YOU WIL BE IN MY LAST BREATH...I CAN NEVER FORGET YOU,YOUR CARE,YOUR AFFECTION AND YOUR SMILE...I WILL BE THE LUCKIEST IF U ALLOW ME IN YOUR LIFE BUT WILL BE THE SAME EVEN IF U WONT,BUT ON A CONDITION THAT THE PERSON WHO COMES IN YOUR LIFE WILL TAKECARE OF U LIKE A PRINCESS...IF I WERE TO TAKECARE OF YOU IN MY LIFE,I WOULD NEVER GIVE A CHANCE FOR YOU TO FEEL DISHEARTENED..YOU ARE SO PRECIOUS TO ME...PLEASE DONT KEEP ME AT A DISTANCE...IT HURTS WHEN YOU DO THAT...I WISH I COULD BE WITH YOU TOGETHER..
YOURZ EVERLOVING,
Akki..!!
Dont force her to love you,at the same time dont pressurise yourself to love her......Be contented with whatever happens...Leave this matter for the time and get adjusted with whatever happens...First plz do concentrate on your career cozz its time to get settled first..later on you can convince her if u get a very gud job..Be practical sometimes dude...!!
At the same time love her so much that none in the world would love her like you.......anymore help,do contact me
keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
www.loveguru-srm.blogspot.com

My Suggestion for Pradeep for his problem posted earlier

Dear friends,thanks a lot for posting your valuable suggestions for Pradeep's problem...Finally after thinking all these days,I have come to some part of the conclusion and i am posting here..Click read more...!



Hai pradeep....Sorry baga late ga na opinion post chestunna..Took lots of time to think what to say....Chala alochincha...Firstly cheppestunna,na opinion few sectors ga divide chestunna kindly check it out...Hurting ga unte plzz forgive me...

First Category : Ladies first antaru kada,so let me start thinking from the Girl's side...!

8th class lo love anagane matladatam manesindi ani cheppav kada,naku telisi nekanna tana mind chala matured ga alochistondi ani cheppali...ila antuna ani hurt avvaku but tanu future ni foresee chesindi aa age lo ne but aa vishayam lo nuvvu fail ayav ane cheppali...8th ending daka nuvvu duram ga unnav,nuvekkada hurt avutavo ani alochinchi tane netho matladindi avuna??So as a wellwisher ne gurinchi alochinchindi aa time ki..propose chesindi mottaniki,so chance kottav, bagane undi..And generally ammayilu lo konta mandi BBC la untaru(BBC ante generally British broadcasting corporation or something like dat..But kontamandi Bharat broadcasting corporation la spread chestu untaru..idi evarini uddesinchi ee mata anatledu but 30%ammayilu matram untaru ee category lo :D ) and the rest of them expect secracy in some matters,mainly love matter ante kasta jagratta padataru...alantidi nuvu valla akka ki ala cheppeyatam emina bagunda..?Mari hurt avvada cheppu??Andulo just 10th class lo family lo ilanti vishayalu teliste emina unda??Think from her point of view..enta badha padi untundo...family indirect torture tattukovatam kashtam..But ivanni overcome chesi nee meeda ishtam toh tane oka greeting pampindi..Malla ekkada feel ayipoyi leniponi feelings toh mind paducheskuntavo ani name rayaledu..family situations telisayi kabatte inka nuvvu propose chesina oppukoledu...Okasari alochinchu tana frnds entaga aatapattistaro,nalugurilo tanu ela normal ga untundo..just think of her once..

Well ippatidaka ne mail chadivi reply chesa line to line...Now thinking abt the indepth matter,aa ammayiki nuvventa ishtam ayina tanani entagano support chestu,chadivistu penchutunna parents meeda inkentha ishtam undali..??Vallani hurt chese uddesam tanaki leka neto ala cheppindi...But ne medaishtam ayite undi..!! As of now tana father mentality telisi inka committments oddu antondi..But who knows next minute lo eam avutundo ani..So payiki cheppakapoyina she needs you a lot..She expects you to be on top of everything anduke liquor tagaddu ani bratimaladi mari manpinchindi..she likes you to be the best...so win back her trust by proving yourself...! And obvious ga she needs her family more than what she needs you as of now..So tanaki alane undani konta kalam...Let her achieve her goals first..Dont disturb her again with the name of love..be friendly with her and i feel thats what shez expecting from you right nw..!



Second Category : Peddavallaki baga respect ivvali antaru kada...So valla dad view nundi alochinchudam...!

Ea father ayina tana daughter gurinchi chala goppaga alochinchatam common...general ga chinnappatinundi allarumudduga penchina ammayiki vallaki ishtam ayina vallake ivvali anedi oka father casual thought..alantidi atani thought ki reverse ga oka abbayivalla behave chestondi ani teliste ea father ki ayina kopam undadaa?so okarakam ga aayana bhayam and thoughts correct ea anali...Atani expectations ni reach ayite kanuka i think definite ga he will change...And valla ammayini baga chuskuntavu,ani aayana mental ga confirm ayite then defnite ga atane daggarundi mee idarni kaluputaru
Aayana expect chestunna situation ki baga chadivi reach avvu and approach him with all the humbleness you have..that too in the future and then i hope he himself would unite you both :D



Third Category : Let me think from your side and answer...!

Being a supporter of Love,i wouldnt oppose your thoughts but mari 8th class lo LOVE ani fix ayipovatam,thats really foolish...Infatuate ayina mata ni nuvvu accept cheyali...Somehow you tried to keep in contact wid her and thats very gud on your part..And nee side konni mistakes unnayi kada,avi nenu already cheppesa kada personal ga...So think out of the world and try to LOVE wid all your heart,not wid all your mind....Try not to repeat the same mistakes again in your relation...Manchi friend ga aa ammayi expectations ni complete cheyi...Dont loose her trust at the same time dont break her trust...Affectionate ga undu baga...Make her feel that you have immense love in your heart towards her....Dnt just tell her in words but try to make her feel your love...Friend ga daggara avvu,dnt cross your limits,remembr that you are her friend(only)and act according to that untill you encounter a stage where she would feel that none can love her as you do..!



My conclusion :

Well brother,ippatidaka andaru different suggestions icharu...Maximum people said that nuvvu career lo settle ayite kanuka everything will follow you ani...I agree with them...As of now give your complete concentration on your studies,career and try to get into one of the best jobs that you can get...Basing on your eamcet score and IIT entrances i easily conclude that you are really well talented so put your talent in practical usage and give your best to your parents..First parents ni proud ga feel ayela cheyi..later on when you get into a job and reach a perfect position,then her father would say that THIS GUY CAN TAKE CARE OF MY DAUGHTER VERY WELL...HE HAS A GUD JOB AND HE CAN LOOK AFTER MY DAUGHTER'S WISHES...EA LOTU RAKUNDA CHUSKUNTADU ani ataney feel avutaru...So give your best and reach the best position that your gal expects...Forget abt the caste system and all....They have nothing to do in these days,evo time being bhayapedataru but when you win their confidence,they doesnt matter at all..So dont give up...Try your best and win her by reaching your target...Dont get into serious commitment at mind..Prastutam eadi jarigina TAKE IT EASY POLICY alavatu chesko(Confined only to this matter)..Wish you great luck for your future as well as your personal life...!

Well if my words might be a bit hurting,but thats strictly my opinion..So neku help cheyalani ila alochinchi rastunna...
Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Please help Pradeep with his personal problem..Pass on your comments

Friends,I received this mail from one of our blog visitors seeking our help..So please read this patiently and post your valuable suggestions to him in the form of comments..Please help him with his personal problem...Click read more..!


This is the mail i got frm him...!

Hi bro..This is pradeep, presently studyin engg. 2nd yr in IIT Bombay. Comparing to other love stories my story usually normal but i faced many sweet problems in it. Actually nenu 8th class lo oka school lo join ayya akkada ma classmate oka ammayi ni chusi e ammayi ni pelli chesukunte i vl b happy anukunna. Endukante tanu antha manchidi,kind hearted inka... so i jst fell in love vth her on d first day of my class in dat school ,.. meeru cheppochchu aa age lo neeku love ki ardamaina telusa ani bt.. emo i seriously fell in love vth her.
Chala baaga matladedi ala ala mottaniki tanaki telisipoindi nenu tanani love chesthunani.. so war .. matladadam manesindi.. i felt very bad atleast frnds ga aina vundama anna (bt ala kuda nenu tanani love chesa... ela drop avvagalam bro) bt tanu antha free ga vundedi kaadu nenu matladina antha pattinchukonattu undedi.. so i decided tanaki natho matladadam e istam ledu inka manam balavanthama chesi badha pettakudadu ani nenu tanani disturb chese vadini kaadu..... 8 th class aipoindi.. madyalo summer holidays..

now we entered into 9 th class ...( i thought dat tan ippatiki alane matladadu anukunna) konni rojulu gadichayi tane vachchi natho matladindi enduku nuvvu natho matladadam ledani so everything normal malli mamulugane matladedi bt tanu ante nau inka istame bt emo tanato ela matladalo ardamayyedi kaadu.. ala malli natho baaga amtladedi ph chesukunevallam n one f9 day in early days of new year when v r talkin each othr in ph. she proposed me..

OMG I never expected tanu cheppadam n naa anandaniki haddulu levu... so everythin is goin in a good manner.. ee tym lo tanu valla akkani parichayam chesindi valla akka kuda chala frndly ga atladedi... naaku konchem noti D ekkuvale... abaddalu cheppanu.. na santoshanni andariki panchudamane type .. adey tym lo valla akka ki nenu me chelli lov chesukuntunnam ani cheppesa...
so ma gf na meeda fire enti nuvvu enduku ma akka ki enduku cheppav ani godava... bt naa daggara emi matalu levu so na answer mounam matrame.. n she said ma akka intlo bro ki amma ki cheppindi full tittaru andi inka ippati daka jarigindi chalu bye ani cheppi matladadam manesindi... idantha na 10 th class middle lo jarigindi....

antha aipoindi anukunna...

two nd half months matladale appudu new yr.. so tanu oka greetin ichchindi naaku ma frnd chetha vth out a name.. k i felt happy
malli 1 month gap bt tarvatha matladam bt i donno whether she is lovin me r not... adugudam anukunna bt ma frnds urey ippudu matladutundio santoshinchu mellaga tarvatha adugu ani aapesaru...
inter tanu vere col nenu vere col... timings diff n naaku extra class lu vundevi daily so kalavadaniki veelundedi kaadu ph kuda eppudo 1 month ki okasari chesevadini.. ala inter 2 nd yr dakka ayyindi appudu malli nenu ph. chesi propose chesa tanu ilantivi ma intlo istam vundavu n idi ganaka ma intlo sevalu lechipotayi andi... inka ededo chebutundi naku aa badha lo ph pettesa...
malli eppati laage war laane matladale kanipinchina matladale...
enterance exams aipoyayi
nenu parle konchem baane chaduvutha..
i jst want to get a seat in JNTU adi chalu anukunna manchi rank in eamcet vachndi n jee crack chesa n IIT lo chaduvuthunna ippudu..

bombay vachchi appudu ph chesa tanu matladindi bt konni incidents dwara malli matladadam aapesindi tattukoleka poya liquor ki baisa ayya ...

chala badha padevadini enduku tanu hate chesthundi...
monne summer lo 10th class frnds reunion appudu kalisam matladukunnam inka ala msgs lo mottam cheppindi
tanaki appatiki ippatiki istam i lov u bt ma dad ki caste feelin oppukoru n deeni valla manam iddaram badha padatham anduke ninnu hate chesthunattu natincha anthe kaani inkem kadu ra mandu aapu ani mottam cheppindi
nw everythin is good iddaram amtladukuntunnam n sms...
bt ippatiki inka caste feelin enti bro tanu rajulu anta nenu sc so wat ee kulam oka roju tindi kooda pettadu..
tanaki valla dad ante istam ma dad oppukokunda ninnu chesukolenu antundi
i jst said i need 3 yrs tym appudu naku job vasthadi den i vl come n i vl ask ur dad abt us antunna bt she is sayin oppukoru ra antundi.. and ippudu li8 ra avvadu atleast vunna konchem tym lo aina navuthu matladukundam and future gurinchi matladi badhapadadam enduku antundi..
ento naakem ardam avvatam le..... nenu 1 yr oka course chesi IIT ki vella thanu nw 3rd year nenu 2nd year (age okate iddaridi) thanu 2012 may ki thana engg. aipothadi n nadi 5yrs (dual degg.)(btech cum mtech 5yrs course) naadhi 2014 lo avuthadi. So thanu antundi eelogane na marriage aipothademo ani :(
wat i hav 2 do bro???
(ela cheppalo ardam kale anduke na love stry/badha mottam cheppa length ekkuvaiunte sry)
waitin 4 ur ans......


Please friends,tanaki ela ayina sare help chesi Friendship value ni chupinchandi...And meevanthu sayam tanaki chesinavallu avandi...Please pass on your suggestions and opinion in the form of Comments..Plzz reply..Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Please comment after reading this...Need your comments for sure

Hey friends,here is set of small questions for you all.......Naaku yeppatinundo unna questions lo idoka question set...I want to know all your opinions...So please answer this question with your whole hearted opinion in the form of comments...Of course i have my own answers....Will let you know in two days but after i get your comments....Click read more...!

Is LOVE the end of everything...??Love lo fail ayithe life lo fail ayinattena??Wat are the suggestions that you give to LOVE failures...??Why is it that difficult to handle that pain for a person who failed in love..??Is over possessiveness a part of Love or is that an in-ability developed by oneself??

So hope i get the best and the most frank replies from you...Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Suggetions to Rakesh by Myself & our readers too

Dear all,thankyou so much for your response...These are the suggestions that i got from our readers along with a solution of mine too..Now the choice is left to you Rakesh..Go through them and all the best..Click read more...!

Suggestion by myself...!

Firstly let me tell you what is the meaning of the phrase that you have sent to me......That every girl commonly uses when something unexpected happens and when she sees you facing a lot of troubles that involve her presence.....
"If i were not in ur life then you wouldnt have faced all these problems..."
"If i move away from your life,probably you wil be much happier..?"
These two lines dont mean that she is ready to loose you but it is a fact that she is the only wellwisher of yours at that instant of time,feeling that if she wasnt there in your life....then this problem wouldnt have come to you and you wouldnt have felt bad at that situation.....And think about her LOVE when she says the second sentence...Though she is not at all ready to loose you,she says that sentence only because she couldnt bear you facing that problems and she is wishing for your happiness...Look Rakesh,a girls mind is as vast as an Ocean...Very difficult to understand completely...When ever she utters that words,you are feeling that she isnt interested any more in you.....Am I Right...?I want to ask you a simple question here....Can u really stay happier without her...?Can u stay cool and calm without thinking of her..?? I guess the answer is NO cause you said you love her....Never ask your mind about the solution regarding your problems because mind always thinks about that particular instant of time...Rather its far better to consult your heart which thinks far beyond its ability to think...I'ld bet you,if you really love her from the bottom of your heart then you cannot stay(without her thoughts)without her upto the maximum extent.....I think if ur stubborn at your heart,you would try to be calm for a couple of days but after that you will surely landup with her thoughts again..Think buddy think...She is the one who is ready to waste her life(by leaving you)just by thinking of a simple matter that you are facing some problems because of her...U can never find such a nice girl other than her who can understand you like what she has been doing,less probabilty(may be nil chances..?)for another girl who loves u FOR WHAT YOU ARE..Never take your friends advice in this matter coz its your life and they cant decide or rule your life...Ask your heart and decide what you wanna do...But as of my view she is perfect to u and that she is obeying the concept of LOVE...Have you ever come accross the concept of LOVe...? It is to respect the interests,happiness of the other lover and acceptance of his/her mistakes as ur life...She felt really bad for you coz u have been facing many problems and she wished you were happy and thats the reason she wanted to leave u feeling that you might live happily...But i think u can never live in happiness after leaving her...i would like to share a small story with you in this time.....

A student asked a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat
field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn
back
to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big
wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger
one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he starts
to realise that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he
knew he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher
told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for better ones, but
when later you realise,
*you have already missed the person*
NEVER MISS YOUR LOVED ONEZ-SRIRAM MALLIK

So dear brother,she seems to be innocent and a nice girl..Indeed you seem the same too but please dont listen to what your friends say...Just do two things...Motivate yourself and try to motivate her towards yourself...You have already won her and now please dont loose her...Listen to what your heart says and try to dedicate the rest of your life to her....Thats what i have to say....For further assistance please feel free to reply me by email...
Wish you both stick together in LOVE and enjoy the fruit of life...Wishing you all the very best and hope to hear something gud from you both...

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

I have discussed the same problem with a friend of mine by name Sampath......He wanted to convey his feelings in this way....check it out

Suggestion by SampathRaj Kumar...!

Hi Rakesh,
Sam here....
Boss, I feel you need to know her inner feelings first......
First take her to some pleasing location..... (i mean it...pleasing)
Cool her.....just ask her true feelings towards you......
say that just be open....so that we can decide our future together for good or bad....say plz be open now atleast....
Just give her some time 15 min like that...you just move away from her not too far...just observe her...

If she says that I want to part from you....dont ask her the reason just ask her are you sure.......just say remind her to be truthful and loyal..give time...If she says the same thing again....have a good farewell for your feelings but have her as your well wisher...no hard feelings naa....Now if she says that your facing problems bcoz of her.........then say that you are just making me learn how to fight in life...you are making me better...you are just building me up....you are just making me strong enough to prosper in this world....in this way you need to cool ger back....just say for good or bad....we need to be together...just end it....take her close...say it again...thats it...girl needs some motivation...

Suggestion by H.K.Raju annaya...!

she is an apt choice for Rakesh. She is the one who is ready to waste her life by leaving Rakesh just by thinking of a simple matter that he is facing some problems because of her...He can never find such a nice girl. Friends maata vinakunda unte his life will b Golden Chariot. Ram ur solution terrific. gr8 going buddy. ATB Rakesh and ur loved one.


Suggestion by Gayathri...!

hello!!!after reading your mail i just understood a famous telugu saying " aalu ledhu soolu ledhu koduku peru somalingam"ani!!!!

sorry to say this rakesh!!!! but i have to.

asalu what kind of problems...ante education,property,family,etc.,etc.,without disclosing any of these things how can u expect someone to suggest u anything?

Moreover first thing u should do immediately do is to stop discussing about her with ur friends!!!


Suggestion by Monica:
Sriram... i understand this it is tough for Rakesh to understand...but its a girls psychology to think that way.....she is just worried about him...that shows care!

-All i can say is that she's worried about him and wants him to be happy...thats it...nothing to think about!


-Girls love to take everything seriously even the slightest thing, trust me its coming from a girl! I think a lot about the slightest thing and make a big deal about it....so Rakesh (Sriram please tell him) don't worry! Everything will be okay!



Thanks a lot friends,I can help to guide him with the suggestions that you all gave...Keep rocking...!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Love Problem of Rakesh ,Need ur Suggestions

Dear friends,we have a small problem that is to be cleared...I received a mail from Rakesh,a degree student from bheemavaram asking for your suggestions...Click read more to know what the problem is...!

Hey Ram garu,Happy to find you openly giving ur email id asking for any doubts in ur blog...Was in search of a person with whom i can share my problem and luckily could find your blog promising to solve the problems that we have been facing...So felt like writing to you sir...Let me tell you wat my problem is.

I'm K.Rakesh(22),from bheemavaram..Doing my degree final year...Since three years,I'm in a relation(may be love) with my childhood friend's cousin(same age)...Everything is fine except for few small problems due to which our relation is being disturbed everytime.....The actual problem is that when ever anything un expected happens and we were to face some difficult situations,she used to say that "If i were not in ur life then you wouldnt have faced all these problems..."
Thinking in this way,she would say "If i move away from your life,probably you wil be much happier..?"
To be frank Sriram,I am very happy with her despite of the fact that i really faced many problems with her...I never took them serious but why does she think like that...?? She always kept saying that she would move away frm my life even though it may be difficult for her...How awkward it is to listen...?? So i wanted to clear my doubt..Is it better to leave her or to stay with her..?I think she is only interested in our seperation so i wanna leave her...But before leaving i wanted to share my problem with anyone worthwhile......I told my friends and they said "Arey chodhna yaar,you have much more life,hundreds of girls will come for you if u think in that way....Isko lite le kar life enjoy karlo mamu"
Hope you understand HINDI....What they say is that if i think in that way,many girls would be ready to come into my life and they asked me to forget abt her and take her lite......I felt this is not the appropriate answer so i request you to think once regarding this problem and give me a perfect solution that would help me out to be fit mentally...Will be waiting for your reply...And wish you would keep this in your blog cause i feel many would be there with the same problem..Waiting for your reply,
K.Rakesh.


So friends,please feel free to respond to this problem...Post ur opinions on this in the form of comments after reading this...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.