101% Love.. A story which is really worth reading..Unexpected Love

Hi friends, today am gonna post you a story that i was sent my one of my friendz Ammaji.. Its quite a long story but still a bit heart touching.. I hope you should surely like it cause i felt tat i had a heavy heart at the end..
Please read it with patience,till the end..!!!






Unexpected love
That is the Final year of the college. There is a gang with some guys and girls. In that gang only a guy and a girl are not committed. Their college life comes to an end.
The gang finished their final exams and they’re enjoying the holidays with their pairs………..
Hang outs will occur frequently in that gang. One day they went to a park.
After sometime all pairs went separately. The guy and a girl who’re single sit together. Guy started talking to the girl.
He: hi
She: hiiii
He: all our friends are committed except us
She: yeah
He: it is so boring to live single rite…? That too in holidays
She: yeah I too think so… All of my friends have boy friend and we are only the two persons left in this world without any special persons in our life (the girl has a crush on that guy. She want that guy to propose her….)
He: We want to do something…..
She: yeah…. We want to think about that….
He: but next month I’m going to US for my higher studies… Before that I want to find a girl….practically it is tough to find a girl within a month and to make her love me……( the guy is an orphan… he suffered a lot in his past life for coming to this position…. So, he won’t trust in love…. He jus want a girl to make him happy for a month)
She: (Inside her: I don’t want to miss this chance) Yeah … I’m having one idea… (With hesitation she told)
HE: oh gr8… Tell me yaar
She: we’ll play a game…
He: what??? Tell me clearly yaar….
She: I’ll be ur girl friend for 30days and you’ll be my boy friend…. (inside her: This is the chance to show my Love, care on him, which he didn’t get in his past life….. God he wants to tell k for this game…. plzzzzzzz)
He: hmmm… That’s a great plan yaar…in fact I don’t have anything to do for the following weeks
She: From tomorrow we’ll start our game…. (Inside her: from tomorrow you’ll see true love from me which you didn’t see in ur past life….. God after 30 days or b4 it, he wants to propose me……..)
HE: Sure yaar……..
Then he and she put some plans for next 30days….
DAY1: They watch their first movie “Vinnaithandi varuvaya” and they got touched by that romantic film…..
DAY 4:
They went to the beach and have their quality time together…..
DAY 12: He invited her to a circus and they ride on a horror house… she was scared and she wanted to touch his hand but she touched someone else’s hand and they both laughed….
(Like this many small incidences happen in their hang outs….. She showed her love and care on him every second…..
Her crush turned into a serious Love on him…. She came to stage that she can’t able to live without him…..)
DAY 15:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and they asked for their future advice. They asked individually For he the fortune teller said: “One girl is going to take care of ur life…. She’ll dedicate her life for you…” and for she the fortune teller told “ur life is going to change in short time…. May be it’ll be within a month or b4 it….”
Both got confused and went from there…..
DAY 20:
She invited him to go to the hill and they saw a shooting star there….
She: hey see the shooting star…
He: yeah… it’s going there….
She: Tell some of ur wishes by seeing that…. It’ll come true one day…
He: Oh k…. Shooting star show me the girl who is going takes care of my life….
She: (inside her: I’m here man… why you’re asking that shooting star stupid….:( )
He: Tell ur wish yaar…
She: Mumbled something
He didn’t hear anything what she told to shooting star….
DAY 28:
They sat on the bus and because of a bumpy road she gave kiss to him by accident…. Both laughed at each other….. She smiled with a shy….
DAY 29:
After finishing their hangouts they both decided to go to that same park….
11.37pmHe and she sat in the park where they first decided to play this game.
He: I’m tired…. I’m want to eat something….Do you want anything to eat?
She: hmmm k… Dairy milk SILK is enough for me… but where is the shop here…?
HE: I’ll just go down the road and buy…. Wait for me…
She: k… come soon….
11.55pm
A stranger approached her….
Stranger: you’re the girl came with that guy ah…?
She: yeah what happened….?
Stranger: a reckless drunk driver ran over him and he is critical in the hospital….
(She started crying and went to the hospital
11.58pm
The doctor came out of the emergency room

Doctor: who is the person came with that guy….?

She: yeah it’s me sir…. (She is crying badly)
Doctor handed out a dairy milk SILK and a letter.
Doctor: We found this in his pocket
(The letter is written by him. He wants to give that letter to her b4 game ends)
She reads the letter and it says:
Hi… Don’t get angry on me after reading this letter….. I want to tell you what I felt while playing this game…. This is not a game…. This is the lesson for me to realize the true love….Daily I’ll pray god that I don’t want to die as a orphan…. I’ll ask him to give some relationships in my life….I think he heard my prayer and sent you… yeah, these past few days, I realized what is the true love…..I realized the care showed by you for the last 29 days which I didn’t get in my past life…… I realized you’re really a cute girl and I’m really falling for you…. Ur cherished smile, ur everything when we played this game….. Before this game ends, I would like you to be my girl friend, my mom, my wife… (all the relations in this world) for the rest of my life…. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
After reading this, she crumples the paper and shouted…..
She: God I don’t want him to die…. I should propose him earlier itself….
She went near to him…. She can’t able to see him also…. Doctors are trying their best to save his life….
(She is crying very badly…. Doctors asked her to get out from ICU
Standing near to the door with tears she told)
She: Hey idiot I Love you da….Remember that night when we saw a shooting star, I mumbled something…. I mumbled that we want to be together forever and never end this game… Please don’t leave me da…. I Love you…. I want you in my life….
Clock strikes at 12…. This is the 30th day doctors came out from ICU….
Doctor: We tried our level best…Anything can happen ….All in god’s hand….
(With tears she told)
She: I don’t let him to die…. If that is his fate… then I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
(Suddenly she called her parents and explained the situation…. She told that she wants to marry him but her parents didn’t accept it… she told if you’re not accepting also I’ll marry him….Her parents told if you marry him then forget us….. She replied one day you’ll understand me and you’ll see ur daughter in a higher position…..Her parents cut the call…)
(She is confused…. She wants to take a decision….)
She is confused…. But no other way to go….she takes the decision to marry him….
She: Doctor Plzzzzz help me… In my dad’s position, You should conduct this marriage… plzzzzz…..
Doctor: Jus think of ur future….
She: I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
Doctor: anyway ur wish……
She: K thank you very much…. I’ll call my friends and they’ll make arrangements for this….
(She called her friends but all refused to come by thinking some problem will come to them……)
She: its k…. No one wants to come… I’ll marry him…. (She shouted in the hospital….)
(By seeing her true love the hospital staffs decided to make arrangements for marriage)
(Jus imagine how the marriage is!!!!!!!!!!…..)
(Doctor as a dad.. hospital staffs as audience… Glucose drops, blood drops from blood bag, Heart pump as the musical instruments….noise by other patients in pain as Mantra, blood drops from him as Atchadai… ICU as the marriage hall……they both got married…..)
She: God I don’t know whether I took a right decision or not…. But you want to save him…. Plzzz… He didn’t see any true love and care in his life… but now I’m there to show all this to him…. Don’t take him away from me…. Doctor’s are doing there best to save him…. God save him Plzzzz ….. (She cried and prayed to god)
After some time a stranger approached her…
Stranger: sorry for incident madam, I’m the owner of the car which hit ur friend…. It is my driver who drunk and hit ur friend… I put case on him… don’t worry I’ll do any help for you and ur friend….
She: He is not my friend…. He is my husband…. He is in death-bed now…. I don’t want anything….(She shouted)
While the stranger talking to her, doctor comes out of the ICU and told…
She: What happened doctor…..?
Doctor: Silence….
She: plzzzz tell something…. What happened….?
Doctor: again silence…
She: plzzz tell something….
Doctor: I’m sorry…..
She: What happened…? (She is crying so badly)
Doctor: we saved him…. But
She: but what happened doctor…..?
Doctor: He is in Coma stage…. Sorry we can’t able to do anything….
She: oh god what is this L…. Anyway I’ll take care of him… doctor when he’ll come to normal…
Doctor: It may happen in 1 month or it may not be happen also…. We can’t able to tell anything…
She: I’ll take care of him doctor…. I’ll take care of him…
(The stranger approached doctor….)
Stranger: what happened doctor… I want to do something for him…..
(Doctor told all things to the stranger. The Stranger felt very bad and went near to the girl)
Stranger: Sorry…. Treat me as ur dad…. Don’t hesitate to ask help… I’m the MD of this company… keep my visiting card… any help jus give me a call….
She: silence
(The stranger decides to give the financial support for them…. But she refused….. The stranger forced her…..)
She: I don’t want anybody’s money for free….
Stranger: Don’t take it as free… If you want I’ll give a job in my company…. Take it as salary…I’m not forcing to join now…. When you’re feeling better you can join…. Please accept this… I’ll be some what happy….
She: Silence….
Stanger: You can also bring ur husband to office and take care of him…. I’ll make all arrangements for that…
She: hmmm k… I jus think that if go to job, who’ll take care of my husband but now I got ans for that….
Stranger: thx for accepting madam….
She: I only want to say thx to you sir….Thank you so much…..When my husband’s injuries are cured I’ll join…
Stranger: Sure…. Ok after discharging from hospital, my company’s guest house is there you both can stay there….
She: Hmmm k thank you sir….
(After some days she joined in the company and also she took care of her husband)
(She will feed him, clean him, brush his teeth,… She dedicated her life to him…. She will take care of him like a born baby…..)
(She also concentrates on her work and come to an higher position….. After 3 years she bought a house for them…. Now she got all basic needs for running their life…. She achieved this bcoz of her True Love and confidence….)
(One day she went to a doctor)
She: Doctor I want to give birth to his baby…. Is there any possibilities…
Doctor: k… may I know the reason for this sudden decision…
She: If anything happens to me… Then he’ll be an orphan…. I don’t want him to become orphan again… I want to fulfill his wish…. If anything happens to me also my child will be there for him…. I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
Doctor: yeah now the technology is improved very much…. So you can give birth to his baby….
She: k doctor…. (Happily she went to her home)
(She enters the home very happily and went near to him)
She: Hey do you know within some months you’re going to become Dad…. I’m very happy today darling…..
(He is not in the position to understand this….)
(After some months she gave birth to a baby… The baby is boy)
One day He comes to normal from coma……
He wake up from his bed and saw a baby playing near to him…..
He don’t know where he is… what happen to him these days…. After some minutes he thought about that game and cried very badly….
He: God where is she….
He: How many days I’m like this…. (He shouted)
He turned and saw a photo hanged in the wall… He started crying… In that photo He and She is posing near “TAJ MAHAL”…. He is sitting in a wheel chair…. Then he remembered, One day while playing that game he told that definitely I’ll go “TAJ MAHAL” once in my life with my lovable wife… She noted that and took him there… Suddenly a girl came to his room and called her husband….
Girl: Hubby see ur father came to normal… I think he is cured… (That is his daughter in law)
Son: dad… dad…. Are you k…?
He: Who r you….?
Son: dad I’m ur son….
(Son introduced all persons to him)
Son: Dad she is ur daughter-in-law…. He is ur grandson and she is ur granddaughter…..
(Son told all the things which happened… and he gave a diary written by mom to his dad)
(After finish reading diary he asked)
(He was in coma for 40 years)
He: Where is ur mom….? I want to see her….. I want to see her… (He shouted)
Son: K dad…. Come with me…..
(He eagerly went with his son to see her)
Son: (Son lifted his hand and showed) See there dad….
He: Yeah she is sitting there… (He ran towards her)
Son: Dad…. Dad… wait….
Son: That is the wax model of mom…. It’s a statue dad….
(He suddenly stops and come back to his son)
He: Where is ur mom…. Where is ur mom…. (He cried and shouted)
Son: Dad….. come with me I’ll tell you
(Son takes him near to the statue and said)
Son: 2 years back mom died… when she is in death bed , she called me and told ur wish…
He: what r you saying….?(He cried very badly)
(when they played game, once she asked what is ur last wish when you’re in death bed… For that he told I want see my girl’s face when I die….)
Son: Mom noted all ur wishes and made it true dad….. (son cries)
(He went near to the statue…. He saw a CD in the hand of the statue…)
He: What is that CD…?
Son: that is mom’s speech dad… She want to tell you something… When she is death bed we recorded this….
(When he went to take the CD he saw a heart placed in the statue….)
He: what is this son….
Son: That is the heart which lived for you for the last 38 years…. Which beats for you only… Where ur love is placed…. Mom heart dad…..(Son cried)
(By seeing that He cried very badly)
(He played that CD)
She: Hi darling…. How r you…? I know you’ll be normal one day and will see this… I think I fulfilled some of ur wishes… Do you know I’m a lucky person in this world…. God gave chances to show my love to you…. God Gave chances to fulfill ur wishes…. I’m very happy to die… but the only sad thing is I can’t able to say “I Love You” when you’re normal…. “I LOVE YOU” darling…..
(Her heart waits for her to finish “I Love You” and its stops….. she died)
(He cried very badly while seeing this video…..)
He: You gave me all the things…. You gave me a family…. B4 I Saw you, No one is there to take care of me… but now, there is my son, daughter in law, grandson, granddaughter….. all r there.. But without you now I’m feeling like an orphan… you’re a very lucky person showed all ur love, care on me…. But me I didn’t do anything for you…. Without you this is like a hell for me…..
( He cried very badly….)
(After that he lived with his family…. But always he’ll think about her and the game played with her… One day he was serious due to some health problem. He knows that, he is going to die in some minutes…. He slowly moves to her statue)
He: Hi darling… I’m very happy now….In some minutes I’ll come to you… I’m going to see you after a long time… I want to say one thing darling….. I lOVE YOU…. I LOVE You darling ( By seeing her heart in that statue he told)
(This is the first time he is saying that to her… Her heart is waiting for this word only till now….After hearing that her heart starts to beat… yeah that is the power of love…. He took that heart in his hand…. He can able to feel, that heart is beating for his words… after some minutes he died… Both heart beats stopped at same time….. )
Last word spoken by both of them is “I LOVE YOU”…
Their true love still exist in this world….
In ur life also whatever happened to ur loved ones… Don’t leave them or break with them…. Take it as the chance given by the god to show ur love on them….
Love – a nice feeling in this world… Don’t spoil that feeling by ur lust…..
THERE IS NO PAIN IN TRUE LOVE!!!!
Feel it and Live for it!!!!
*****THE END*****


Hope you might have like it.. Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Rest in peace Sandeep :( We miss u :(

Its really disheartening or rather shocking news for me... My friend D.Sandeep,who has been suffering with blood cancer and has been getting treated for the same along with dialysis for his kidneys has expired two days back... It took me a lot of pain to digest this news and finally i'm left out in a shocked state with the pics that i had with him two days back...
Dedicating a poem on his loss...!!
P.S. In the pics inside,it is my cousin Praveen with me and sandeep.

Like a sea-bird I’m leaving all flying on the sea,
I will fly and fly till I blend into the far horizon,
It aches to leave you all but death hugged me,
From now I’ll live alone in the sky, sleep on stars,
I hate this life I want to die than flying life alone,
But your tears remind me that I’m already dead.

Thnxx for Suman bro.for sending me this poem.
Miss u Sandeep... U will be always in our hearts....May ur soul rest in peace...!!
With a heavy heart and water filled eyes,
Sriram Mallik.

Cute story-The meaning of true love

A small story depicting the meaning of true love.. Awesome meaning,perfectly written..And overall..you will enjoy reading this post. Click read more..!!



Perfect Meaning of love :

[Kid]: Daddy Daddy...

[Dad]:Yes Timmy !

[Timmy] : Daddy, I've got an assignment to write for school. Will you help me? Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[Dad]: Oh ! Okay !! What's yr assignment on?

[Timmy] :Love !

[Dad] :Wow ! You have an assignment on it ? In my days, the teachers were against our er... assignments ;)

[Timmy] :No Dad, we are supposed to write something on the meaning of love...its Valentines day, na !

[Dad] :Love...hmm lemme see !

[Timmy] :wait. Wait... Lemme write it down... :)

[Dad] :Love... Love is about Lies !

[Timmy]: Lies ???

[Dad] :You see, Timmy... All my life, i have said lies in love & i've found it to be the best gift you can give a person.

[Timmy] :How, Dad?

[Dad] :Well, the first time i met yr mom for a Valentines day 7 yrs ago. She was not the hottest of chicks in college, if you know wt i mean...

[Timmy] :Hot chick ?

[Dad] :You get it in due time, son... ;)

Anyways... i saw this cute girl standing at a corner of the dance floor. I heard one of my friends say that she couldn't get any date for the party.

So here i was, cursing my luck as my date's grandmom expired n that left me in the same predicament ?

[Timmy] :Pedica ??

[Dad] :Predicament...means..eh, problem !

[Timmy] :Oh...

[Dad] :So i went up to yr Mom n told her.."Hey, How come such a beautiful lady like you does not have all the guys crooning over you?"

Now, i knew very well that even i wouldn't have asked her to dance if i had a choice, but it was that one little lie that got us together !

[Timmy]: But Dad, aint it bad to lie ?

[Dad] :Son, sometimes you have to lie to make the ppl you love happy !

Every Valentines day after that, i used to tell yr mom that she was the most beautiful girl in the whole world.

Now yes, i think she's cute & pretty in a special kind of way, but you tell me...Do you think she has the legs of Sharon Stone and the figure of Alicia Silverstone ?

[Timmy] :Eh... I dont know any of these stones, dad !

[Dad] :Hmm.. ok...Lets just say that yr mom was just an ordinary Wilma from the Flintstones !

[Timmy] :I know Wilma ! I know Wilma !!

[Dad] :Hehe... & then again...

When yr mom was pregnant with you... she used to ask me every day how she looked ? Did she look fat ?

Now frankly, she had gained about 30-40 pounds... & was always in one of her moods..

But i'd tell her.."Nooooooooooooo Honey, you are glowing ! You look fabulous !!

Now if i told her she looked like a fat cow, it would have hurt her !

[Timmy] :Ya...

[Dad] :So you see son...Love is when you say those little lies to keep someone happy !

ok... i've gotta go now... All the best with yr assignment...

[Timmy] :Bye Dad !

............................

[Timmy] :Love means lying ??? Maybe i'll ask Mom

Mommyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?yyy...

[Timmy] :Mom..Mom... i have an assignment for school...you will help me, na !

[Mom] :Timmy, you know i'v to go out with daddy in another 1/2 hr

[Timmy] :Pleaseeeeeeeee Mommy !

[Mom]: ok...Timmy. wts the topic ?

[Timmy]: Eh... Love !

[Mom] :Love...Love is about knowing the goodness of a person's heart, honey !

[Timmy] :Goodness of heart ? huh ?

[Mom] :It’s like this...

When i was in college, yr Dad used to tell me i should be in hollywood. Now i knew he was just lying, but i also knew that he dint want me in hollywood, but rt next to him!

& when i was pregnant, i used to look so fat i looked like Santa Claus ! But yr Dad would say i was looked weak n would feed me everything he could find !

His lies were so dumb, i even thought i had married a stupid...but the truth is that this stupid cared enough to lie...just to make me happy !

[Timmy] :But... he was lying, rt ?

[Mom] :Well honey...he was just being a guy !

& i knew everytime that he was lying to me... but every single time, i also knew that he said those lies coz he loved me !

[Timmy] :Hmm...

[Mom] :Ok honey... i'v to go get ready now. byeeeee

........................

Assignment

Topic : Love

Author : Timmy

Love... When someone lies to you n you smile... coz you know the person cares enough for ur happiness to lie to you !!!

The End..........

Hope you liked it...
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

The Beauty of Rain (Not jus to be read,but also to be experienced by everyone)

Its rainy season right ???
Have you ever wondered how good it will be if you have the first few rain droplets on yourself ??
Awesome isnt it ??
So collecting all such sweet and sensitive expressions,we have a wonderful article related to the beauty of rain :)



The bloated clouds came like dancing angels,
These angels darkened like graphite sheets,
Robe of darkness spread over within moments,
The fragrance of humid earth fused in the air,
The trees looked like kids waiting for parents,
Fierce thunders cracked ablaze like silver strings,
The first drops of untainted water fell to earth,
The dust on trees flowed down glittering green,
Puddles of dark water started off into rivulets,
Wind blew so hard like drizzling chill icicles,
Fields started swaying on the waves of wind,
Peacocks opened their gorgeous bright plumes,
Flowers glowed like scented and painted pearls,
Huts bright like castles tinted in bubbling gold,
Sweltering lands turned flowering fields with rain,
The barren lands started sprouting green shoots,
Frogs threw slogans flicking in the brown ponds,
Rain brought the beauty, paradise down to earth.

Special thanks to a friend of mine,a very nice blogger,photographer and a multi talented person Suman (http://silverquiver.blogspot.com/) for such a nice collection.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Friendship days for the next decade

Do you want to know when is the friendship day in the next few years to come.. ??
Here is the info regarding the dates of friendship days for the next decade that is from 2011-2020 :)

P.S.: Special thanks to Swaroop for keeping this info.. And thnx for permitting me to share this info in my blog too :D



When Is Friendship Day?

2011---August 7
2012---August 5
2013---August 4
2014---August 3
2015---August 2
2016---August 7
2017---August 6
2018---August 5
2019---August 4
2020---August 2

Poem dedicating to all my friends regarding Friendship week

A small poem that i found while surfing on the net.. Dedicating this to all my dear friends :)
Wish you all a very happy friendship week :)




Friendship week comes but once a year,
It is nice to remember my friend's I hold most dear, and I want to give them all a very loud cheer.

It is a time to tell my friends I love them and cherish them and to have them near, also that I hold them very close and near they are most dear.

Friends that I love and cherish forgive my mistakes that I may make, they will never judge me or make me feel bad because loyalty and trust is what we sure have.

Friends I can trust with all my heart also I can share my hopes and dreams that I hope to realise soon.

Friend's I never doubt also friend's can help me grow throughout the years and they do beleive in me.

Friends are angels in disguise and they help to dry those tears from my eyes they help me to keep sane with that smile on my face.

Friends support and encourage me through when my life is being rough and tough on me.


Friends they give me so much inspiration, they lift my spirits up when I am feeling down they help to lift those big dark daunting black clouds.

Friends are like shining star's that shines so bright at night they always try and bring me happiness and such delight..!!!

Happy friendship week :D
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Crossed 1 lakh hits from 2010 May till today.. Thanks everyone

Hey friends,thanks a lot for all your loving support.. My blog has crossed 1 lakh visits..This wouldnt have happened without your valuable support..
2010 May nundi na blog statistics ni and pages ni link cheyatam start chesa.. Till then i didnt know about tracking the pages.. So from 2010 May till today,our blog has crossed 1 lakh hits :D

Some stats regarding our blog :
Total Hits:1,03,132
Unique Visitors crossed 62,500
No.of posts 238
No of Followers 69
Seriously I felt tat my blog is basically a conceptual blog that might be a big failure.. But you have made it a big success...
Thanks a lot each and everyone who visited my blog till now :)
Hope you would encourage me like this forever :)
Love you all from the bottom of my heart :D
P.S: Design is by HKR(HARI KRISHNA RAJU) annaya from Bangalore,our blog regular visitor,my well wisher..HKR annayi Love you loads annaya:)
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Do's and Don'ts in LOVE. RULES for a perfect relationship

In love,we certainly need to follow somethings to have a better relation.. Thr are not exactly a set of rules but some certain things we should know exactly.. Thnx for Ammu for the mail..Remembering those and executing them would make your relation a wonderful one.. Keep reading about them :D



There are no set rules for love. Only certain things to be understood!!
* Never allow your partner or yourself to denigrate the other.

* You must have personal respect and consideration for yourself.

* Everyone deserves respect and love, but you can't expect to get it unless you give it.

* If you allow your partner to disparage you, expect to hear other damaging words.

* Whatever you are willing to accept is exactly what you're going to get.

* Be compassionate, understanding, forgiving and merciful.

* Patience, kindness, consideration and thoughtfulness can never be in short demand.

* Never let a person use names or words to hurt or degrade you or your partner.

* Vow to protect yourself from thoughtless, rude, mean or punishing behavior.

* If destructive words are being used, for whatever the reason, it must Stop. If not, a relationship can't survive.

* Once you've reacted you can then be proactive.

* A controlled mouth shows a controlled mind. Use words for empowerment, encouragement and positive recognition.

* Ask for respect. Quietly demand it. If your lover, partner, parent or friend can't exhibit self control over their mouth, seriously consider looking elsewhere for a relationship.

* Pick an appropriate time to discuss important issues. This is particularly true if there is an emotional charge where feelings of anger or vexation need to be vented.

* Never enter into discussion of personal, private or intimate issues in public. Wait until you have privacy and the time to tackle issues.

* If a person makes a mistake, or does something that disappoints or angers you, belittlement or badmouthing them in front of others will only lead to further resentment, anger and frustration.

* Trying to discuss anything when the other person won't cooperate or take the time to talk is a waste of time.

* If necessary make a date to talk.

* If the person keeps on delaying or avoiding conversation or discussion on issues that are important or significant to you, you may need to put it in writing and place it in their hands.

* Talking is good for closure of some issues. And, unless allowed, will create a wound that won't close.

* You can never truly waste your thoughts and words on the separated or departed. Life and thought continues.

* Romance doesn't just exist, you must make it happen. You must make a sincere effort to keep it alive to help your relationship flourish.

* Little things count, it doesn't have to be a dozen roses and champagne all the time. A favorite piece of candy in a pocket or a little note can mean a lot.

* Commit yourself to do something romantic every day. Show it. Demonstrate it. It's the accumulative total of all the little things that in end adds up to a super special love and romance.

LOVE LETTER of a TEEN AGE guy(In Q/A format).... TIT for TAT reply by the GIRL

A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate. Read the complete thing and see how the girl answers him in the same format..!!
Thnxx Ammu for such hilarious mail :D




A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate.

My Dearest Reshma,
Please answer the following questionnaire. Select (a), (b) or (c)

1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:

(a) of love
(b) you couldn’t control seeing me
(c) really … am I doing it?

2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:

(a) you always like to see me smiling
(b) you are testing whether I like jokes
(c) you are attracted by my smile

3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:

(a) you are so coy to sing before me
(b) my presence influenced you
(c) you feared that whether I’ll like your song

4) When you were showing your childhood photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:

(a) you felt ashamed
(b) you felt uneasy
(c) you don’t know

5) During trekking, myself and my friend gave you hand for lifting you and you took only my friend’s because:

(a) you enjoyed my disappointment
(b) you won’t feel leaving my hand after grabbing
(c) you don’t know

6) You were waiting yesterday for bus and didn’t get into your bus…

(a) you were waiting for me
(b) you were dreaming about me and didn’t notice the bus
(c) that bus was crowded

7) You introduced me to your parents when they came to college because:

(a) I am going to be your groom
(b) you just want to know what your parents think about me
(c) just you felt like introducing me to them

8) I told that I like girls wearing roses. Next day, you came with a rose on your head because:

(a) to fulfill my wish
(b) you like roses
(c) by chance you got a rose

9) On that day, it was my birthday. you too came to temple early at 6:00 A.M because:

(a) you want to pray along with me
(b) you want to meet me before any one could meet on my birthday
(c) you want to wish me at temple because you are spiritual.

Your score:
For Options
(A) 10 marks,
(b) 5marks and
(c) 3 marks.
If you have scored more than 40, then you are loving me. Don’t delay in expressing it.

If you have scored between 30 and 40, love is budding in your heart and it’s getting ready to bloom. If you have scored less than 30, you are in confusion whether to love me or not.

Eagerly awaiting your reply..

Love, Aakash


Reshma’s reply letter was also in Q/A format……

Aakash,
Please answer the following Yes/No questionnaire.

1) If somebody sits in the first row, normally people entering the class, sees them.

(a) Yes (b) No

2) If a girl laughs and looks anyone, is it love?

(a) Yes (b) No

3) While singing, if somebody forgets lines of the songs, will he/she stop singing or not?

(a) Yes (b) No

4) I was showing to my friends (who are all girls) my childhood photo.

You poked your nose inside….. right ?

(a) Yes (b) No

5) I avoided to hold your hand during trekking. Couldn’t you understand yet?

(a) Yes (b) No

6) Should I not wait for my best friend (Anjali) at the bus stand?

(a)Yes (b) No

7) Shouldn’t I introduce you to my parents as a friend?

(a) Yes (b) No

8) You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana’s flower. Is it true ?

(a) Yes (b) No

9) Oh was that your birthday. That’s why I could see you in temple. I come daily to Temple. Do you know ?

(a) Yes (b) No

If you have answered “Yes” to any of the question, then I am not loving you. If you have answered “No”, then you don’t know the meaning of Love.

Hope everything is clear to you!







Hahahaha jus loved this mail... Hope you all have enjoyed it too...
Thnx once again to my frnd Ammu(Ammajee) for sharing this with us..
Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

The power of RESPONSE in a relationship..An article shared by MEGHANA

Response is a great weapon/a thing that is very important in the present day world in building great relationships.. The way we respond itself decides how good or how strong the relationship is going to be.. To know about them check out the article that is shared by one of our blog friend MEGHANA..Thnx a lot MEGHANA for sharing this with us :)
Click read more..!!





Do Not Respond Defensively

Rather than trying to avoid criticism, expert performers welcome it. They seek out coaches and advisors who can give them constructive, sometimes even painful feedback. They then use this feedback as a guide for steady improvement. Here are some steps you can take to handle criticism effectively:

1. Acknowledge Your Error

Acknowledging a mistake is not the same as acknowledging that you are an inferior person/a failure. If you believe the criticism is accurate, take full responsibility. Don't blame something or someone else and don't make excuses. If appropriate, offer a diplomatic apology: I'm sorry that my actions led to that result. It certainly was not my intention. Again, if appropriate, ask for suggestions on how you can improve your performance the next time.

2. Take Corrective Action

After you ve heard the other person out completely, and listened to any suggestions for improvement, state/communicate your eagerness to improve in the future. If appropriate, describe any actions you will take at his time to counterbalance your previous error.

3. Acknowledge the other persons motive

Thank the other person for the feedback and make sure to state how valuable you consider it. This demonstrates your ability to use criticism as a way to improve an essential quality of a leader. In addition, let the other person know that you are open to receiving his or her feedback in the future.
Even when you don't care for the style in which criticism is presented, be thankful that the other person is willing to give you feedback, and along with it, an opportunity to improve.


Thnx a lot Meghana once again for sharing such a nice article.. Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

NIRUP's own LOVE STORY(In telugu version with his own narration)

Hey friends,here is a very heart touching,original love story of one of our blog friends Munigada Nirup. Entho feel tho rasaadu.. Kasta peddadi ga untundi but please try to read it with patience untill the last line..!! Click read more..!!




My Love Never Ends…..Nirup’s Story …
Na peru nirup.Chudadaniki peddaga attractive undanu. Inka cheppalante konchem blackga ..inka konchem lavuga unta …

Naaku chinnappati nundi ammayilu ante nacharu. Inka cheppalante Love ane word ante chiraku. Maa school days lo okariki okaru love ani chepthunte nalo nenu navvkunevadni.Antha maturega alochinchevadni. And Oka seniorla behave chesevadni. Maa class lo naakantu oka manchi impression undedhi. Assalu evvaritho ekkuva matladevadni kadhu. Naa pani nenu cheskunevadni. Inka ammayilatho assal matladevadni kadhu. Ammayilatho matladalanta chala bayam vesedi.Maa friends andharu ammyilu antunte…… nenu matram ammayilu waste ane vadni. Even maa Class girls natho matladadniki intrest pette vallu. But nenu asslu samadaname cheppevadni kadhu.

Ala naa school days gadichipoyayi.Appati varaku nenoka raayi type. Evvaitho matladevadni kadhu and chala innocent and bright student.
Tarwata nannu Inter hostel lo vesaru.akkada prabhavam valla nenu chala change ayyanu. Andharitho kalsipoyevadni.Tega allari chesevadni.Chala bubblyga undevadni.Nannu chusi maa parents shock tinnaru. Veedenti ila aayyadu ani. Off course results kuda shock itchai. Naa eamcet rank vini intlo vallu murcha poyyaru. Tarwata nenu engineering chennai lo chestha ani Intlo vallani oopincha. Kaani last momentlo Maa mummy edvadam valla cancel cheskoni councilling vellalsi vachindi. Councilling lo Naaku hyderabad ki 30 kms duram unna oka chetta college vachindi. Sarle edo oka college ani nen adjust aypoya. Maa college oka village lo untundi. Ma parents naaku ibbandi kalagakudadhani village lo oka room tiskoni naaku Vanta undadaniki maa amammani petti vellaru. A chinna palleturulo naaku chala chiraku puttedhi Daniki thodu maa college chendalanga undadam inka assal tattukolekapoya.

Maa Classlo 9 girls. 1st year mottam anni bunk’s.College antene nachedhi kadhu.Appudappudu velli vachevadni. Maa friends naa name gurthunchukolekha Pandu ani pettaru. Appati nundi andharu pandu ani pilichevaru. Ila first year ending ki vatchesindi.

Maa class mate peru Satya .Nenu ela attract ayyano naake gurthu ledhu. Classki vachinapudu chuse vadni. Nijam cheppalante thanu mari antha andhagatte em kadhu. Kaani naaku nachesindi .em nachindi ?eppudu nachindi ?ela nachindi ?ante matram …naaku telidhu.endhukante thana mayalo ela paddano kuda naaku gurthu ledhu.Chala maturega alochinche nenu edhi just oka attraction ani fix aypoyi Lite tiskunna. Cut chesthe 2nd year start ayyindi.Malli Nenu bunk’s start chesa.But vachina prathi sari a ammayini chusi vellipoyevadni. Anthaku minchi nenem cheyyalenu kada :P .

Satya chala manchi ammayi.inka chaduvu paranga naakante konchem better. Boys lo kondarithone matladuthundi.adi kuda chala limitga.Iddaru mugguru prapose chesina no ani cheppindi.thanu konchem laavuga untundi.But thana eyes and smile chuse nenu padipoya ankuntunna.
2-1 exams mundhu attendance lekha daily oka one month ravalsi vachindi. So ala roju vachi aa ammayini chusi fullaga Love lo padipoya.ala nenu a ammayini love chesthunna ane feeling naalo start ayyindi.Inka amani eppudu chudala ane excitementtho collegeki vellevadni.E matter gurinchi maa Gangki cheppalanukunna Kaani ikkada inko twist adi entante nenu chala lavuga unta then thanu lavuga untundi. So nenu e matter chepthe nannu comment chestharani Cheppaaledhu. Ala thanani moogaga aradhinchevadni.Kaani vere group friends sayayamtho tana phone num kaukkunna. Phonelo parichayam cheskundamanukunna but naa name cheppadame thanu reply ivvadam manesindi.Then ventane I LIKE YOU ani cheppa. Thanu intrest ledani simplega cheppesindi.Then Holidays…….

2-2 sem strated.Maa gang vallaki konchem konchemga nenu try chesthunna vishayam telsi comments start chesaru.Classlo okka gangtho matrame matladevadni. So nenu class andhariki daggara avvalane uddeshamtho Vere gangloki Jump ayya. Vallantha Racha gang.nenu valla gang lo easyga duresa.Ika appati nundi classlo Naanaa hungama chesevadni.Naaku fullga following perigipoyindi.nen class lo enter avvagane pandu…paNDU ani arichi gola chersevaaru. Inka mana level perigindi kada ani manam inka collegeki bike meeda vachevadni.

Oka fineday diryam techukoni thanani pilichi sorry ani cheppa. Maa friends andhru endhukura sorry annaru. Nenu thana numki msg chesa lera ani cheppa. Msg endhuku chesav ra ante..nenu thanani love chesthunna mama..ani cheppa… Inka appati nundi thanu lechina , kurchunna …Class andharu pandu ani arichevaaru.Nenu vaddura ala pilavoddu HOD ki complaint chesthundi ani entha cheppina vinaledhu.Maa kotha gang …Maa patha gang rendu kalsi Poti pettukoni mari aarichevallu.Thanu chinnaga nannu chusi navvedhi.maa friends andharu…chudu mama memu gola chesthunnam kabatti ammayi ninnu chusthundi anevallu.nenu matram eppudu vallani encourage chesevadni kadhu. Nenu b.tech joining lo naa weight 98kgs Than kosam tindi manesi. Jimki velli.Inka evado maa friend Rum tagithe taggutharu ante…adi kuda alavaatu cheskunna.Chala Side effects ..vachai naa Health antha padyipoyindi,then.Lastki 81kgs ki vatchesa.Nannu chusi maa parents kuda shock tinnaru. Ala a debbatho mana Facelo oka kala vachindi.Inka cheppalante full confidence vachindi.Inka appati nundi naalo oka kotta utsaham vachesindi anthe …thanatho three times exam ela raasav ? ani adiga …Thanu navvuthu baagane raasa ani cheppedhi.Ayna Manaki matladentha diryam ekkada sachindani :p e moodu mukkale ekkuva …. Ilage 2-2 kuda finish ..

Inka assalu gattam vachesindi.3-1 sem started.Inka nenu a ammayini chudakunda okka roju kuda undalekapothunna. Thana bus lo praveen ani maa friend vatchevaadu.vaadi num tiskoni thanu clgki vasthunda ravatledha ani kanukkoni mari vellevadni.Maa friends gola common thana smile common.Nenu common.

Oka fine day maa frinds andharu naa love story meeda chiraku puttindi. Inka yenni rojulu chusthav Velli prapose cheyara ani godava pettesaru.Inka thana venta Bus ekki mari bus stop lo face to face I LOVE You ani cheppesa.Thanu seriousga chusi am not Intrested ani cheppindhi.Nenu dissipointed Kaani maa firnds andhru arey lite mama girls andharu first ilane antaru ani nacha chepparu.Tarwaata oka one week thanani marchipodamanukunna…kaani kudarle.Inka appti nundi tha bus venakale velladam strat chesa.Okasari valla inti varaku follow ayyi vella.Than apartement chusi vatcha. Inka Holidays lo kuda nenu a aprtement chuttu tirigevadni.kaani eppudu thanu naaku kanipichedhi kadhu.Nenu eppudu thanani follow avvadam start chesano appude thanu naa vaipu ekkuva chusi navvedhi. Inka manam endhuku aagutham class antha rache.Malli naaku kotha asahalu chigurinchai.

But e lope Bad news …nenu drink chesthunna ani intlo telsindi.appude exams start avvabothunnai. Maa mom xamski nenu hydki vatchestha ani ikkadi vatchesindi.Maa dad and mom lanti parents inka evvariki undaru ani naa feeling.antha Baaga chuskuntaaru.Alanti vallani mosam cheyadam naaku badaga anipichindi.Mummy hydki vacharu kaani nannu emi analedhu.kaani nenu matram mummy ni kshaminchamani adiga .ippati nundi drink cheyanu amma ani bathimalada.Maa Mummy nannu excuse chesi inka eppudu ilantivi cheyyoddu ani edchukuntu chepparu.Even a scene naa kalla munde unnatlundi naaku.

So naa love story valla nenu chesina tappulento okkakkati naaku ardham avuthundi.Results nil. Maa frinds eppudu nenu chesedi tappu analedhu. Annitini encourage chesaaru.Frinds ante anthe ga mari.So nenu naa love storyki end pettadalchukunna…Thanani seriousga adagali love chesthunnava ? cheyyatledha ?? ani…
E vishayam telchadaniki eppati laane exam aypogaane thana bus venaka follow ayya …But thanatho matladalekapoya…
Next examki alane vella….e sari miss avvoddu anukunna.thanani follow avuthu vella suddenga vere apartementloki vellindi.Akkade wait chesthu kurchundi poya.Bike meeda oka abbayi And uncle vatcharu.ravadame maa bike keys lagesaaru.Evadra nuvvu ikkadem chesthunnav ani niladesaru.nenu alane chusthu undi poya.Maa friend edo covering chesthunnadu.e lopu thanu bayatiki vatchindi.a uncle e abbayena ani adigau ? thanu avunu andi.ventane….akkadiki police bike meeda vatchi mammlni tskelladu.Inka thanu and valla parents kuda PS ki vatcharu. Inka akkda naa gurinchi cheppindi chudandi

Veedu nannu 3yrs nundi naa venta paduthunnadu.
Eppudu classlo naa meeda gola chesi comment chesthu untadu
Pedda rowdy sir veedu…
Nenu roju clgki vasthunnano ledho praveen ani maa friend ni adigi mari clgki vasthadu…
Enni sarlu naa venta padoddu ani cheppina vinadu.
Nannu edipisthuntadu sir …

Ventane valla pedananna anukunta nannu bedirinchadu.nenu matram okka mukka kuda matladale.Inspecter nannu chempa chellumanipichadu.Daniki nenu feel avvale…kaani bike meeda vachina maa frndni matram chala darunanga kottaru.Thanu oka complaint raasi …vellipoyindi. Inka appati nundi..Tarwaata mammalni kottina constable vachi sorry babu mimmalni ila kottakapothe vallu mee meeda case pedatharu. Andhuke kottam ani challaga chepparu.

Inka nenu ela bayatapadalo ardham kale.Vachina prathi policeki naa story cheppadam vallu hyd porilu anthe babu..ani vellipovadam ..okkadu mammalni vadilipettaledhu.afternoon 2 nunchi evng 7 ayyindi.naa phoneki ma mummy phone chesi ekkada unnav ra….ani aduguthunnaru.nijam chepthe tattukoleru ani friend intlo ani cheppa.lastki main inspector vachi mee family nundi evvaru vachi sign pettina vadilestha annaru. Nenu maa frinds ki appudu phone chesi maa mummyki teliyakunda maa thammudni tiskocharu.kaani vaadu mammlni vadilipettale.Maa dad tho matladi vadilipedatha anaru.Maa dad ki phone chesi itcha.Maa daddy ni ela tittaro gurthu cheskunte…naaku ippatiki edupu vasthundi.A roju stationlo vinna titlu boothulu gurtechukunte naaku chachipovalani pisthundi.Last ki nannu vadilipettaru.
Roomki vellina nenu ma mummyki em cheppalo ardham kaledhu.Maa daddy next day vacharu hydki. appatiki maa dad emaindi ? ela jarigindi ani adagaledhu .Simplega collegeki vellaku ippati nundi only exams ee raayi annaru.Nenu maa dadni bathimilaadi oopincha clgki.
Next day a ammayi nannu collegelo kuda vadilipettaldhu.Principalki complaint chesindi.Then nenu diryange maa daddytho matladukomandi ani dircetga cheppesa.then maa dad and valla daddy kalsi agreement raskoni evari dhari vallu vellipoyaru.

Inka e vishayamlo naadhe tappu ani nenu anukuntunna.kaani maa frnds thande tappu antaru. Edhi emaina nannu konni vishayalu assalu ardham kaledhu .

Nenu thana venta 1 yr ee padda.E one yearlo nenu matldindhe 4 or 5 times.nenu eppudu comments cheyaledhu.Thanu eppudu nannu kopanga chudaledhu. And thanu emi innocent and siggu pade ammayi kadhu.

Okkasarina Nirup naa venta padoddu nenu maa parentski cheptha ani anochuga ??
Nuvvu ila gola cheyadam assalu baaledhu ani cheppochuga ??
Naa gurinchi oka rowdy la cheppi irikinchadam valla thanaki em labham ???

But nenu inka a ammayini marchipolekapothunna. May be thanu naaku first love kabatti emo…

Thanu chesina e adbhutham valla Turn avvalsina naa life Burn ayyindi..

Intlo naaku value lekunda poyindi.Naa meedha nammakam poyindi,Naa meeda oka rupai karchupettadaniki kuda intlo alochisthunnaru.Maa frinds nannu marchepoyaru. Naatho tirigina frinds naatho matladdame gaganam aypoyindi.Maa clglo nenoka road side romeo ga migilipoya.Maa college Girls drushtilo oka Physco laaga migilipoya.

E madhye naa valla intlo maa parents ki godavalu jaruguthunte …
Iddaru kalsi endhuku ila chesav ani nannu kottina bagundedhi kaani maa amma nanna nee valle ila ayyadu ante nee valle ila ayyadu ani kottukunnaru .Chusi tattukolekhapoya …Kattitho chey koskoni suscide attempt chesa…By luck bathiki ila naa story ni post chesthunna….

Enti Naa storylo comedy ledhu ani feel avuthunnaru kada andhuke oka comedy vishayam chepthunna …
Nenu a ammayini try chesthunnapudu maa friends andharu…adem nachindira dhani kante..nuvve baguntav ane vallu…Friends kada andhuke ala antunnaru…ani lite tiskunna…
Kaani Nenu Police stationlo paddapudu…naatho matladina prathi okka police…okate annaru …

“ ayna nuvvu a ammayi venakala ela paddav thammudu ?? adem nachindi neeku …e ammayi complaint itchindante navvosthundi . assalu neeku a ammayi lo em nachindi cheppu ??“
Ayna nenu ammayini chusana …thana kallani matrame chusa….Andhuke prema guddidhi antaru….


Enti naa meedha jali paduthunnara ??? vaddu ……..Naa story lo tappu naade kabatti shiksha naake padindi anukuntunna…Maari meerem antaru ?



MY LOVE NEVER ENDS
NIRUP,
With love :)

Hidden secrets.. Read carefully and notice them

Special thanks to my friend Joel Agassi for sharing this...!
These lines are some hidden secrets that one has to notice :D
Click read more..!!



Wen sum1 laughs too much,even on stupid things,B sure dat person is sad deep inside.
Wen sum1 sleeps a lot,B sure dat person is lonely.
Wen sum1 doesn't talk much,n if he talks,he talks fast,B sure d person keeps secrets.
n finally
wen sum1 asks abt u,although dat person may b busy,B sure dat person loves u so much

Thnxx ra Joel for such lovely lines :)

Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Recharge your mobile every month for free..!!

Recharge ur phone every month freely by following this process:

Its a little length but its worth it.. waste of few seconds but saves loads of money.. trust me.. i tried it this month an it works....Click read more...!!

Please follow the instruction & you can recharge your SIM card absolutely free. Yes it is possible, see how technology can be used to make technicians fool.

I just got a mail from a friend of mine, whose friend is B.Tech.(ETC) from IIT Powai, teaching me how to reload my hand set every month for free. Engineered by a group of rebel programmers. I am going to share this to all for you.

Please follow the instructions as stated below before you start it:

Applicable for ORANGE (HUTCH),AIRTEL, Spice & BSNL users only,sorry for idea,BPL and reliance users and is done illegally of course. But there are many things that are illegal , who cares. Don't worry nobody can trap you. No legal action can be taken on you for this. So go ahead without worrying.

You can only do this every 15th & 16th of the month as the network system is under upgrade.

1.) ** Dial "1415007" using your h/phone and wait for 5 second

2.) ** after 5 second, you will hear some funny noise (like sound from
TV when the station is finish)

3.) ** Once the noise stop, immediately dial 9151 follow by your phone number

4.) ** A recorded message "please insert your pin number" will follow


5.) ** punch in the pin number "011785 45227 00734" and wait for the
operator finish repeating the above pin number.



6.) ** After the pin number has been repeat,
dial "0405-for AIRTEL,

404-for ORANGE (HUTCH)" .

404 for Spice

404-for BSNL" .

7.) ** you will hear a message "for air time top-up press 1723" you just have to follow the instruction



8.) ** After you follow the instruction, the noisy sound will re-appear for about 5 second


9.) ** once the noise stop, dial "4455147" follow by "146"



10.) ** after about 5 second, dial "1918" after 3 second dial "4451"


11.) ** after you done that, punch in the serial number "01174452271145527" you will hear dial tone.



12.) ** once the dialing tone stop, dial "55524785933" you will hear "
please key in your password"



13.) ** the password is " ****2+253+7891*+546322 " wait for the
message "your password accepted"



14.) ** you will hear " please insert your emey number " now you have to be fast to dial your own h/phone number



15.) ** you will hear a dialing tone, when the call is answered, dial "1566" and you will hear "re-confirm emey number"



16.) ** once you hear that message, dial "6011556 2245334 follow by your h/phone number"



17.) ** after a while, you will hear a message "your pin number is accepted" you have to dial "1007"



18.) ** after you done that you will hear "your emey number is accepted"



19.) ** continue dial "4566" you will hear "your password is accepted"


20.) ** once the second message finish, immediately dial your own h/phone number


21.) ** Now you will receive a message saying


............

22.) "NOTHING IS FREE IN THIS WORLD, . SO, GET BACK TO WORK AND DON'T WASTE TIME !!"

Now Get back to your work,or make others smile by passing this message :D

Hope you laughed for a while and nw dont look for me....I was effected like this toooooooo ;)

Keep rocking,

Regards,

Sriram Mallik.

Are you really HAPPY...??Check this article to know true facts

Hey friends,Are you really Happy?? Just ask this question to yourself....What ever might be the answer,Just go through this article and at the end,check out if the first answer you have made for the question at the starting matches with the answer at the end of teh article..Click read more...!



Do you remember some of your beautiful childhood memories? Do you remember the joy you felt all the times you played with your friends? Do you remember how fast you used to become angry, and how fast you forgot what you were angry about? OK, one more… Do you remember how happy you were when you ate candy? When we were kids being happy came easy. What about now? Are you happy? As children we could have answered this question without hesitation. What happened to us?

I shared the same question with a friend who seems to have it all. He answered with great enthusiasm, "Of course I'm happy, I have everything I always dreamed of having." Few seconds later he said, "but I believe I could be truly happy if only I had a better wife ..." Well, psychologist’s philosophers, parents, poets, and many others have tried answering this question, since it is a simple yet complex question. But to me, happiness is something different for each individual. Happiness can be something uncertain or difficult to achieve, but overall, it is attainable.

I cannot remember how many times I was asked this question. Neither do I remember how many times I asked myself the same question. "Are you happy?" The truth is that nobody can answer that question better than you, yourself, can. Don’t be a pessimist! Did you think I would give you the answer so easily? Allow me to ask a question: Why do you wake up each morning? (Money, love, health, obligation, fame, family, ect.)

A man of 43 years of age, with a family, and good job, but he was always sad. Yet no one understood the reason for his sadness. In prayers he asked God to send him lots of money, to enjoy when he became old. Early Sunday morning, he went into the forest to pray. On his return home, he found a small old chest in the bushes. Once he opened the small old chest, he noticed it was full of gold coins. Overwhelmingly happy, he placed the box inside his jacket, and with great excitement he ran home. After digging a deep hole behind his house —not sharing his discovery with anyone— he buried the chest. That afternoon his wife and children saw the new happiness in his face and even though they didn’t understand it, they welcome his positive change.

Yet, that evening robbers who followed him that morning, dug up the small old chest that was buried. Then the robbers quickly covered the hole, exactly as the man himself had previously left it. Months passed and the man was much happier everyday, leaving everyone to wonder the reason for his change. Later, due to his dedication and skills he became the boss of bosses. Everyday he thought of his wealth, while enjoying his family, his job, and his friendships. Without noticing that the small old chest was gone, every day he gave thanks to God for his blessings. As years went by he grew older, and continued to enjoy the blessings in his life. Then one Sunday morning, he passed away in his sleep.

You can choose to be the small chest, the robber, or the happy man. You can always choose to be happy or unhappy. You can choose to enjoy today, complain about the life which you live now, or change your life to what you want it to be. Whether you wish to exercise your happiness or not, the final decision is yours. To take this a little further, here are three questions you should ask yourself:

1 - What happiness means to me? To be happy, you have to define it and understand what it means to you. 2 - Do I enjoy the person I am today? Do you respect or like the person you see in front of your mirror? Learn to forgive and accept what you are today, if you haven’t yet. 3 - Do I give thanks for the things I already have? Be thankful for all you already have in your life (health, life, love, etc.).

If you try to blame the past, destiny, the universe, God, or others for the lack of happiness you have experience now, you will not find true happiness. If you are now happy or unhappy, this is because you decided it. Let me give you an example: If I offer you candy, and you do not accept it, you are the one who chooses not to enjoy the delicious candy. However, if you accept the candy, and you do not thank me, I may not feel the desire to offer you more of my delicious candy in the future. Happiness works likewise. If you stop for a moment and make calculations regarding the decisions you've made, you may realize that they have brought you exactly where you are today. It is all based on your actions, thoughts, and words.

"Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present." (Jim Rohn)

Therefore, everything you think, speak, or practice in the present affects your future. The good news is that if you're not happy now, you can change it. Be happy by changing the way you think, and act towards your own life. Your destiny is in your hands, not in the hands of your significant other, your parents, your boss, or your friends. God, the universe, your divine creator, is ready to give you everything you desire, and even more than you can imagine. But it's your choice to accept the candy called happiness if you want it, and when you want it.

If you are about to cross a bridge, do not think about the gap underneath the bridge; Think about what you will feel after crossing that bridge. Decide to be happy, and always be honest with yourself. Give thanks for what you already have today, and tomorrow you may have much more to be thankful for. Always remember, you deserve to be happy!

SO guys and galzz....Friends and folks.....Just rock your life...Live as if there is no tomorrow...Enjoy every moment of life...Be happy and make others happy...Keep rocking...!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Everybody needs true love...How true is this fact...?

Everybody needs true love...Isn't it true?? Aa fact gurinchi inkasta detailed ga explain chesedey ee article...Click read more...!



What’s a fairytale without a prince charming, a princess in distress and true love? It’ll probably be just another old story that will somehow fade into obscurity as time goes by. But, the element of true love is what made fairy tales into all-time blockbusters. Yes, everybody wants it so bad, even those princesses who did nothing but wait for their courageous knight in shining armour atop his mighty steed. Even today, everybody wants a taste of true love no matter how elusive it is. Some are lucky to have stumbled upon it, while a lot have simply given up in the unending quest for it.

So, they find someone that they could somehow tolerate, put up with them so they don’t have to feel the loneliness of being single ever again, and then marry just because it’s what everyone expects them to do. Quite a lot of people have gone this way, but only a few have escaped from the challenges and veer from the all-too-often divorce. But what is it really? Is it a cruel myth, a fleeting insanity, or is it something real and tangible, like crow's feet and potbellies? How can anybody know if the right person is already in front of him/her? While it is easier to be dreamy-eyed and romantic, it is important to understand and remember that to find love isn’t as simple as going out there and putting a tag on someone who seems to be THE one.

Often, it’s more of a case of waiting for THE one, instead of finding him/her in an instant. The harsh realities of everyday life render a vast majority of people to be pretty cynical, and it can be rather mindboggling when one somehow ends up with a wonderful person. Some take it as some sort of pure luck, but time and again it’s the concerted effort from two people who wants to make the relationship last. It is likewise essential to have a clear picture of one’s own self-worth: every person must be capable of self-love, for how can anybody else love you if you can’t even love yourself in the first place? When meeting someone and the relationship somehow clicks, the important thing isn’t how many hobbies or interests you share with the person.

It’s the similar deep-seated core values that makes you both yearn for the same things from life. The initial fluttery sensation and feeling of heightened anticipation will always be there when meeting someone new and exciting. Although, this stage rarely lasts long—a lot of people get disenchanted upon returning to their senses only to discover that the seemingly perfect partner is just as flawed as all the others. But, this doesn’t make loving the person an impossibility. What makes a relationship work is not finding the person with a hundred good points that can make everything wonderful. The “happy ever afters” only exist in fairytales, not in real life.

A relationship is a process, and the couple must grow together with each other, able to weather any storm or the big changes in life. True love calls for hard work and give and take from each person to last...Special thankz for my sis puja for sharing this...

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik

10 things that a girl might not be knowing in her life about a guy

Hey friends,herez an article to describe the nature of a guy...Actually got it in the form of a message in my mobile from my childhood friend,Mrudula..Thankzz Mrudula for sharing such a nice message...Click read more...!



10 things that a girl probably mightnot be knowing in her life...They are....,

1) Guys are more emotional than they think,if they loved them truely...!

2) Guys may be flirting but before they go to sleep,they always think about the girl they truely care about...!

3) Guys go crazy over a girl's smile...!

4) A guy who likes a girl wants to be the only guy they talk to...!

5) Girls are guys weakness...!

6) If a guy tells you about his problems,he just needs someone to listen to him...!

7) When a guy asks a girl to leave him alone,he is just saying,"Please come and sit with me"...!

8) No guy can handle all his problem on is own..He is just stubborn to admit it...!

9) When a guy sacrifices his sleep,wealth and health just to be with a gal,he really likes that girl and wants to be with her forever

10) A guy loves a girl more than what she loves him...!

Hey all girls,try to email this article to all the guys to make them happier and all guys,try forwarding this mail for all the girls to make them understand about guys...!

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

How to Help Someone With a Broken Heart

How to Help Someone With a Broken Heart....?A special article sent by my cousin Pujitha...Thankyou puja for such a wonderful mail..
You know someone that has had their heart broken and they are so hurt that they seem to withdraw from everyone and everything. You want to help, but you just don't know what to do. Read on for a few suggestions and tips..Click read more...!




Now if you did the heart breaking, that would be an altogether different situation. If you broke someone's heart accidentally, you can probably help the healing process with a heartfelt apology and doing everything in your power to make up for the wrong. If you did it intentionally, for whatever reason, the odds are unless you think you made a mistake and try to fix it, everything you do will only add to the other person's pain.

But if you are a friend, relative, or bystander who knows of someone who has had their heart broken by someone else, there are some things you can do to help.

DON'T LET HIM ISOLATE HIMSELF

You need to get him to get involved with life again. Don't let him wallow in self pity for very long. The more he isolates himself, the more walls he will build between him and every other relationship he has. It is very dangerous.

He needs to get involved with life again. He needs to interact with people. Get him involved in activities and clean social events. I pastor many people who have a broken heart in our Church and I've learned that people need to get involved in life again. They need to invest in other's lives in some way. I never recommend to a broken hearted person just to lie low. Get him involved.

You may need to be a bit blunt about it. You may need to say things like this: "Don't let what that other person did keep you from living! You're hurt, very hurt. I know you wouldn't want to wish that pain on anyone else, but staying here, doing nothing, is hurting those that do care about you. Come on. Let's get out of here."

Do whatever you need to, within reason, to get him involved in life again.

TRY TO GET HIM TO OPEN UP AND TALK ABOUT IT

So much pain is released when people are able to talk about their broken heart. If you can get him to talk, he will find a release for a lot of his pain. The problem is getting him to talk at all. He may want to so withdraw in himself that he has no interest in conversation. Or, more likely, he may fear reliving the pain if he talks about it.

He still needs to talk about it. You don't necessarily have to agree with his viewpoints, anger, or reaction, but being sympathetic is important. Allow yourself to sympathize with his pain. Tell him so. Tell him he needs to talk about it just to help rid himself of some of the pain. Explain that talking about it will help. Most likely you've suffered a broken heart yourself. Tell him about that time. Let him know that he isn't the only one that has ever suffered.

When he does start talking, you need to be a good listener. Don't interrupt, don't do the talking yourself. Learn to listen. Your thoughts, suggestions, and solutions are not relevant at this moment. Let him flush some of the pain out of his system. You don't have to have a solution; you just need to be a shock absorber.

USE HUMOR TO DRAW HIM OUT

This is something that I always try to do when I counsel a person with a broken heart. I try to get him to laugh. I may make a crack about getting a six pack of root beer, or making a run for the most broken heart award. If I can get a person to laugh, chuckle, or grin I will have broken past the pain for just a moment.

Having breeched the barrier of his pain, you are now in a unique position to help. Not only is he more apt to listen to you, but he has found a moment's relief from his pain and that is invaluable to him.

POINT HIM TO GOD

You or he may not be necessarily a Christian as I am, but having a God who loves you, a Saviour who cares for you is very comforting. Having a faith that is greater than the sum of all our lives brings tremendous hope and provides a solid rock on which to stand when the storms of life rage around you.

The great tragedy of life is having no hope. Give a person hope and he will find strength and reason to heal his broken heart.

These are some things that you can do to help someone with a broken heart..

True story of pain from my friend's friend...!

A true story of a friend of my friend.......He wants to dedicate this to all you readers....Click read more....!



I met this girl in 3rd year of engineering college.i met through one of my friends,on a bday party.we both talked a lot .then after few days i met her when i was thrown out of class and she was coming towards the canteen.we both sat and talked for some time. we exchanged numbers and then we started meeting more often.then she told me about her past relationship and how it ended, her secret crush in college,her daily activities and all.we were always in touch either through sms,calls or simply with each other. it took time 4 me to realise that i am in love with her.then finally a day came when i told her everything .i was shocked to listen that previous day her ex called up to patch things and she was interested ...i was hurt but couldnt do anything.then i was surprised to get a call from her and she was again goin the normal way. she told i am a very good friend of hers. i didnt want to break her trust. there was fights between them and she used to tell me everything. i tried to convince her that such fights are very common and thgs ll be fine.thngs used tp oatch up and she was happy again.then one day she told that she wanted to book a train ticket but couldnt go because her boyfriend gave her a surprise visit. i booked tickets 4 her.then while giving tickets she happily told me that she got her first kiss and her first make out.i was again hurt but couldnt let my emotions come to my face . things used to be like that for 3 months untill when i saw her boyfriend drunk and talking crap about her.i told it after proper confirmation .she was hurt and i felt bad.the next day she told that she has left him forever and she doesnt want to fall into relationship. i could understand what she was goin through .we used to meet as usual and i helped her whenever she needed me.things used to go like this for a year when another guy asked her out. she told no but since both were good friends since school days ,she talked to him too. untill one day when he came to the coll,he took her out for a movie where he gave her a gift, and she said yes to him . that was the end of my patience when i went to her and told her what i did 4 her and what she did 2 me...and since then she is not talking to me...

an advice to whole world: never be a support to any girl unless she is urs

true story from a friend my friend..........


Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Pain in love failure....!

An article that briefly tells you how a person failed in love feels.....Simply cute and had a lot of meaning in that...Thanks to Munna....Click read more...!



You see it started like this.Like every love story.It's the same over and over
again.About one girl and a guy and they both fall in love, they think everything will work out. And they will always be happy together. That love is unbreakable. But this is how they end. There not always eternal happiness. There's always a price to pay.
And at the end...
They always end up hurt and always at the end nothing will work out.
Well this is life.This has happened to me.
A failed love story not a fairytale.
To me love is something painful,something miserable.
Always being hurt at the end.
This is a true love story like all of them. Not a fairytale but a failed love story

Nice article by Munna...Thankyou munna...Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Small article,message delivering to all friends

A simple article,though looks small conveys a big message regarding whats friendship...
P.S.Special thanks to our blog reader HKRaju annaya..!

Click read more...!


I have learnt many things from my idiot friends............

They taught me the tricks for stupid activities.......

They gave me money when i was empty handed in the canteen.....

They taught me how to laugh without any reason.....

They showed me how to LOVE many at a time.....

They taught me the trick to pass without studying.....

They taught me how to stand smartly while being scolded.....

But still I have a complaint.....!

And you know what that is...??They didnt teach me how to live without them....Later on i came to know that

Some tough battles have to be fought alone,
Some paths have to be crossed alone.....
So never be emotionally attached to anyone because we never know when we have to walk alone...So felt like we must get ready to face anything and everything...........

Thanks for HKRaju bro for sharing this article...Keep rocking...!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.