Suggestion by myself...!
Firstly let me tell you what is the meaning of the phrase that you have sent to me......That every girl commonly uses when something unexpected happens and when she sees you facing a lot of troubles that involve her presence.....
"If i were not in ur life then you wouldnt have faced all these problems..."
"If i move away from your life,probably you wil be much happier..?"
These two lines dont mean that she is ready to loose you but it is a fact that she is the only wellwisher of yours at that instant of time,feeling that if she wasnt there in your life....then this problem wouldnt have come to you and you wouldnt have felt bad at that situation.....And think about her LOVE when she says the second sentence...Though she is not at all ready to loose you,she says that sentence only because she couldnt bear you facing that problems and she is wishing for your happiness...Look Rakesh,a girls mind is as vast as an Ocean...Very difficult to understand completely...When ever she utters that words,you are feeling that she isnt interested any more in you.....Am I Right...?I want to ask you a simple question here....Can u really stay happier without her...?Can u stay cool and calm without thinking of her..?? I guess the answer is NO cause you said you love her....Never ask your mind about the solution regarding your problems because mind always thinks about that particular instant of time...Rather its far better to consult your heart which thinks far beyond its ability to think...I'ld bet you,if you really love her from the bottom of your heart then you cannot stay(without her thoughts)without her upto the maximum extent.....I think if ur stubborn at your heart,you would try to be calm for a couple of days but after that you will surely landup with her thoughts again..Think buddy think...She is the one who is ready to waste her life(by leaving you)just by thinking of a simple matter that you are facing some problems because of her...U can never find such a nice girl other than her who can understand you like what she has been doing,less probabilty(may be nil chances..?)for another girl who loves u FOR WHAT YOU ARE..Never take your friends advice in this matter coz its your life and they cant decide or rule your life...Ask your heart and decide what you wanna do...But as of my view she is perfect to u and that she is obeying the concept of LOVE...Have you ever come accross the concept of LOVe...? It is to respect the interests,happiness of the other lover and acceptance of his/her mistakes as ur life...She felt really bad for you coz u have been facing many problems and she wished you were happy and thats the reason she wanted to leave u feeling that you might live happily...But i think u can never live in happiness after leaving her...i would like to share a small story with you in this time.....
A student asked a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat
field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn
back
to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big
wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger
one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he starts
to realise that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he
knew he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher
told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for better ones, but
when later you realise,
*you have already missed the person*
NEVER MISS YOUR LOVED ONEZ-SRIRAM MALLIK
So dear brother,she seems to be innocent and a nice girl..Indeed you seem the same too but please dont listen to what your friends say...Just do two things...Motivate yourself and try to motivate her towards yourself...You have already won her and now please dont loose her...Listen to what your heart says and try to dedicate the rest of your life to her....Thats what i have to say....For further assistance please feel free to reply me by email...
Wish you both stick together in LOVE and enjoy the fruit of life...Wishing you all the very best and hope to hear something gud from you both...
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
I have discussed the same problem with a friend of mine by name Sampath......He wanted to convey his feelings in this way....check it out
Suggestion by SampathRaj Kumar...!
Hi Rakesh,
Sam here....
Boss, I feel you need to know her inner feelings first......
First take her to some pleasing location..... (i mean it...pleasing)
Cool her.....just ask her true feelings towards you......
say that just be open....so that we can decide our future together for good or bad....say plz be open now atleast....
Just give her some time 15 min like that...you just move away from her not too far...just observe her...
If she says that I want to part from you....dont ask her the reason just ask her are you sure.......just say remind her to be truthful and loyal..give time...If she says the same thing again....have a good farewell for your feelings but have her as your well wisher...no hard feelings naa....Now if she says that your facing problems bcoz of her.........then say that you are just making me learn how to fight in life...you are making me better...you are just building me up....you are just making me strong enough to prosper in this world....in this way you need to cool ger back....just say for good or bad....we need to be together...just end it....take her close...say it again...thats it...girl needs some motivation...
Suggestion by H.K.Raju annaya...!
she is an apt choice for Rakesh. She is the one who is ready to waste her life by leaving Rakesh just by thinking of a simple matter that he is facing some problems because of her...He can never find such a nice girl. Friends maata vinakunda unte his life will b Golden Chariot. Ram ur solution terrific. gr8 going buddy. ATB Rakesh and ur loved one.
Suggestion by Gayathri...!
hello!!!after reading your mail i just understood a famous telugu saying " aalu ledhu soolu ledhu koduku peru somalingam"ani!!!!
sorry to say this rakesh!!!! but i have to.
asalu what kind of problems...ante education,property,family,etc.,etc.,without disclosing any of these things how can u expect someone to suggest u anything?
Moreover first thing u should do immediately do is to stop discussing about her with ur friends!!!
Suggestion by Monica:
Sriram... i understand this it is tough for Rakesh to understand...but its a girls psychology to think that way.....she is just worried about him...that shows care!
-All i can say is that she's worried about him and wants him to be happy...thats it...nothing to think about!
-Girls love to take everything seriously even the slightest thing, trust me its coming from a girl! I think a lot about the slightest thing and make a big deal about it....so Rakesh (Sriram please tell him) don't worry! Everything will be okay!
Thanks a lot friends,I can help to guide him with the suggestions that you all gave...Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
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