Diagnosis of Relationships

Some important points to be noticed in your relationships...Click read more...!

Over the course of my blogging, It seems that all the problems, or at least a good portion of problems that couples have, are not new in the scheme of relationships. I’d like to try and expand and refine one of the consistent ideas that I’ve said in reply to comments and advice given.
Before looking for a serious relationship, take a moment to think about what I’m saying here in this tenant. It may just solve some heartache before it ever has a chance to happen.

The tenants of relationships:

1. Know who you are and what you want for yourself

2. Know who they are and what they want for themselves

3. Communicate openly and honestly with each other.

Know who you are and what you want for yourself.

This one should be the easiest because who knows us better than ourselves? If we are not sure who we are, then it’s time for some soul searching. What we want can change over time, but being honest with ourselves should keep this somewhat simple to recognize.

Know who they are and what they want for themselves.

We are not mind readers and can only hope that the other person knows themselves and what they want. More importantly, that they communicate that with us openly and honestly. Time is the key element here and most times we have plenty of it, so take your time in finding out who that person is and if they are what we are looking for.

Communicate openly and honestly with each other.

If both people do this, then wasted time will be cut down to a minimum. Unfortunately, in a world full of players, liars and phonies, we don’t always have this benefit. I can only say see number 1 above and take your time.

Communication and honesty are so important to relationships that they both need to be defined, expanded and sincerely evaluated in each of us. I’ll hopefully be dealing with these two shortly.Keep rocking...!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.