There might be any number of people offering you relationship advice to get back to an Ex but if your heart is not in the relationship and you are unsure if you can get to make the relationship work again probably getting back to your Ex is not the right thing to do. Especially when woman dump men they are still looked at with awe. Many girls go back to their miserable relationships because of pressures from the society, friends or family only to end up in a worse hurt later. The Christian community especially teaches that ‘what God has joined together, man must never separate.’ An acquaintance of mine was forced to go back to an abusive husband because of the family and church elders only to see her dead barely months after.
Do not get back to your Ex if you cannot resolve the issues or work on things which led to the break up at the first place.
Do not get back to an Ex if you are the only one who wants to make the relationship work. Is it worth going back to an Ex who does not want you back?
Do not get back to an Ex if he or she has moved on and have a new relationship already.
Getting back to a relationship for the wrong reasons may be a mistake because it may not last longer.
Especially when women get back to their husband or boyfriend after forgiving them for Infidelity it is normally seen that their partners end up doing the same mistakes again.
Never give someone who does not deserve a second chance another chance to ruin your life if you are not sure about that person. When you give someone a second chance to change you also need to weigh the pros and cons of doing so. Many times you may find the other person taking you for granted and doing the same mistakes over and over again. So if you decide to go back to an Ex make sure that you ask yourself again and again that if you really want that person back to your life and if you would be happy with that person before committing yourself again.
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