There are many women complaining if their relationships don’t go anywhere, maybe you are one of these women. By the time your friends are planning about marriage
and talking about the details of wedding, unfortunately your relationship is going nowhere.
You are waiting for months and even for years wishing that one day he will say “Will you marry me?” However that invitation never comes out from his mouth.
You feel that both of you have close and strong relationship, even he has been close to your friends and family. So what is the problem? Are you not appropriate enough to be his wife? Does he really love you?
C’mon … stop that negative thinking and don’t blame yourself. Actually he knows if you are feeling restless and looking for a long-term commitment with him. But the problem is man needs some preparations before saying his intention to marry a woman. The preparations will be different for each man, but some of them are:
1. Financial
This is a major reason for man when he postpones a marriage. For man, a marriage is not enough by proposing someone. It’s about how he can keep the commitment, maintain a harmonious relationship, and establish a good household with his partner.
We can’t deny if one of factors to support a family is financial matter. Man realizes that after married he will become the leader of family, and he is the person who should take responsible in fulfilling family’s needs.
Although you are working, but for a man, his wife’s income is an additional income for the family, he would be very distressed if he is not able to meet the family’s needs with his income.
According to man, he better postpones the marriage for several years until he is sure if his investments and income have been enough to support a family.
2. Mental
After getting married, of course there are some changes in life. His time to hang out with friends will be limited and he should be ready if one day he will become a father. These changes of course require mental readiness.
When he becomes a father, he should be able to give good examples for his children. He must also divide his time to take care of children although he has a hectic job schedule.
When a man is not ready to accept more responsibility in family, he will think that he better postpones the marriage until he is mature enough.
3. Heart Determination
He feels that there are still many differences between you and him. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you. However he needs more time to adapt himself and minimize the differences. He also wants to make sure that you are the right partner of life. When you are still moody and often disputing about small matters, he will be hesitant to bring you for the next level of life.
4. Ready to lose freedom as love adventurer
In general, man is an adventurer, including in love matter. When he decides to marry you it means that his adventure with girls should be ended. He can’t flirt with other girls and his freedom to stare at beautiful women will disappear. Marriage is not a game; he can not turn back when he has made a commitment. When a man is not ready to lose his freedom, he will not decide to marry a woman.
So dear Girls,please do not misunderstand guys and come to an immediate conclusion.....Think wise and have a happy life....Keep rocking.....!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
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