Here is my suggestion or opinion regarding Bhavana garu's friend... Actually i took a lot of time to write something regarding this problem cozz if i say something tat might be a bit wrong to others,their relation might be much ruined..So please forgive me if i write something wrong..I jus wrote wat i felt...!!
Life lo adjustments anevi chala important.. Adjustment leni chota relation sariga undadu.. True love exist aye chance undadu..Konni special factors induku sahaaya padatayi... Vatilo naku telisinavi nenu pedutunna.. Tappuga matladite kshaminchandi..Idi kevalam na knowledge varake...!!
Trust: The key role in a relation is trust.Its like heartbeat in a relation.If trust is lost,it can never be gained.For example if in a relation,the guy committed some mistake which made his gal loose trust on him..Even after sometime in future,they tend to be a couple,she can never be as she was..She cant give her 100% love to him..It might be jus 99%. So trust once lost cant be won back completely..Its like a glass article broken.If a glass article is broken,it can jus be stuck by assembling the glass pieces but the cracks will remain for ever.. So never loose trust.. Be true always :)
Respect n compromise: Compromising is the key factor of maintaining a relation in the way we like..Its a common factor in a relation where either of the husband or wife may tend to become serious or may try to act as if you became serious on the other and would jus pretend to stop talking with them..But if this condition gets worse,it may lead to worst results like seperation..So either of the couple must compromise jus to maintain a smooth relation..If an argument is started,then either of the husband or wife should compromise else the situation may get worsen..!!
Unable to express: It might be in any matter,where you fail to express what you actually feel..this might lead to formation of gap at hearts.. A relation is something where it exactly needs true opinion about the other..For example she bought a new dress and you didnt like the way it looked...I mean it may have some flaw..You recognize that earlier itself but you didnt want her to feel for that by expressing it..Later it hurts her more when someone else points it out..!! There might be many other examples like this but feel free to express something before her..It might be hurting for some time but later when she realises the truth,she will feel happier..
Habbits: For example if the husband had the habbit of smoking/drinking or chitchatting with friends for late nights...it would be good before marriage bt after marriage,he should understand the situation and should try to adjust..same is the case with women where if they have the habbit of chatting with their friends,outing with her friends and all..even she should adjust according to the situation after marriage..Some couples have the feeling of over possessiveness...Like when they both are working,they should adjust to the situation where in they keep interacting with people of their opposite gender..So some situations are to be handled lite bt with proper care so as to make your relation a longlasting one
Income factor: A relation would last much longer with much sweetness when both feel that the income they have earned individually is combined and none think in an individualistic manner.. They should discuss now and then regarding the income,expenditure and the ways to save money for their future.. In such cases a relation would be just sweet and long lasting :)
Lack of sexual knowledge: Some people might be having unnecessary fears regarding their personal life where in they might have read something in books thatzz partially un true or might have heard somethings from friends that might be jus a rumour.. In such cases relationships tend to cease back its fragrance... When therezz mutual understanding between the couple,when there is a chance for both of them sharing their views regarding what actually the truth is,a relation would be much bounded.Else that would lead a very long distance seperation gap in between the couple
Egoistic Attitude: Its a common nature of a human to have some ego in his/her mind.But this ego will ruin the fragrance of your relation.So to have a smooth relation you should surely remove the egoistic nature at your heart and should be truthfully good to your loved ones.
Ivi kaakunda chala factors unnayi.Jus for time being ivi cheppa...So take care regarding these points and make your relation a happier one...!!
Keep rocking.,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
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