Saving a Marriage or Letting it Go

Many times after a break up, women get back to their men. There can be many reasons which may prompt a woman to get back to her spouse like an apology from the spouse and promise that the mistake would not be repeated, family pressures, low self esteem, financial security, society, children etc to name a few. Majority of times the women who got back to their husbands end up with an even bigger hurt or breakup. Some of the reasons for this can be

Many times women are not able to forgive and forget the infidelity of their spouses completely that many women mention about what happened in the past during even minor disagreements thereby opening the old wounds.

Once the trust is broken it is very difficult to have trust in the partner again. After having caught a man cheating, women tend to be more cautious and suspicious about the man causing more fights and disagreements.

Many men take women for granted and tend to think that their women would not leave them no matter what. They think that since she has forgiven the mistakes even if it is repeated she would forgive again. Also the normal tendency is ‘once a cheat, always a cheat’. Men who have got into the habit of cheating find it very difficult to be loyal to their spouses.

So before you get back to your spouse again think ‘Do I truly want to save my marriage?’ ‘Is going back to my husband the best thing for me to do?’ If you are getting back for the sake of your kids ask yourself ‘Am I willing to sacrifice my happiness for the sake of my kids for life long? Is my decision the best for my kids? These questions are vital to consider. Life is too short to spend in a miserable and unhappy marriage. Only after carefully considering the pros and cons of getting back into the relationship, make a decision on if you should go back to your husband or not.

Unhappy Marriage and the Astrological Connection

Unhappy Marriage? Delay in Marriage? Martial Infidelity? The Horoscope of the Individuals may have an answer to this. 

In India Hindus normally do an analysis of horoscopes using the Match Making system of Indian Vedic Astrology in detail to know the mutual compatibility of both the girl and boy before planning the marriage. This analysis considers factors like Longevity, Health, Nature and Character, Progeny and Sterility, Wealth Status, Profession Status and Sexual compatibility of both male and female. A reading of your horoscope and your partner's horoscope can tell what the fate of your marriage is. The positioning of Moon and Mars in the girls horoscope is very vital and the position of sun for the boy while looking into the horoscope. The 8 primary considerations made while comparing the horoscopes are Varna, Vasya, Dina, Yoni, Graha Mitra, Gana, Rasi and Nadi. There are points allocated to them which is the same as the numerical order in which they have been dealt with above like 1 point for Varna , 2 points for Vasya and so on down to Nadi with 8 points. The points of agreement between the horoscopes are then added together. If the total of points is found to be less than 18 out of the possible 36 the marriage should not take place for it would result in danger, disagreement or early death of the partners.

An Astrological analysis of some factors in the Horoscope can give indications of an unhappy marriage. They are

An analysis of the Placement and strength of the 7th lord and its relationship with other planets.

The 7th house denoting the spouse and the relationship between the lords of 1st and 7th houses. 

Position and strength of Venus in the Horoscope.

Position of Mars in the birth chart.

The 2nd, 5th and 12th houses in the Horoscope Chart and their lords.

If your marriage is in trouble then doing a Horoscope Analysis by a Qualified Astrologer can help you find what is wrong and do remedies prescribed by Astrology to set things right.

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