How do I know that he is the one for me?

How do I know that he is the one for me? That is a question many of us seek an answer to.

Many women in love are interested to know if the person they love is really the one for them. There is nothing wrong in looking for 'the one' or 'Mr. Right' to share your life with because there can be nothing worse than getting married to the wrong man. You think with your heart and not with your head. But, how do we know that he is the one?

Love is a wonderful feeling where everything appears rosy and lovey-dovey for you. However, the following tips may help one to determine if he is 'the one' for you.

He listens to you: He listens to you when you talk and genuinely takes an interest in things you say. When you need guidance or support he is there for you. He is also comfortable talking to you about everything.

No need to compromise or change: You do not need to compromise or change for him. He accepts you as you are and you can be yourself with him.

You are comfortable with him: He knows each and every aspect of your personality and still loves you with all your negatives and positives.You feel comfortable being with him and you can be yourself without pretences. He makes you feel good about yourself.You can discuss things about your past and also about your future with him and you can visualize a future with him. You can visualize getting older with him.

You trust him: You trust him with your life and know that you would be safe with him. You share a natural chemistry with him that the people around can see it clearly.

He remembers all the special moments: He never forgets days important to you. He also has a good memory when it comes to your memorable moments together like your first date, when you first met or your first kiss.

You love him the way you are: Whether is perfectly groomed or does not look him you love him the way he is and your admiration never ceases. You are comfortable talking about things he does with your close pals and family.

He Enriches Your Life: He enhances the quality of your life. His support and encouragement makes you a better person. He has your best interests in mind.

He Pampers You: He pampers you and shows his love and caring in a several ways that you are special to him. You can feel it in his eyes and the way he looks at you.

He would be there for you even if you would not be in a relationship: He would be your true friend even if he is not your boyfriend or fiance.

You share a common ground and interests mostly.

You are Part of His World: His family, friends and co-workers know you.

He Sacrifices or take troubles for you without considering it as a burden and without complaining.

Many times when we meet women in successful marriages we often hear that they just knew that 'he is the one'. Finally, If you follow your instincts then you are likely to know if he is the one or not for you.

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How to know if your Guy is serious about you

When you are in a Dating you would want to know if the Guy is serious about you or if your relationship may lead to marriage. How to know if that person is the one for you? How to know that he is as committed to you as you are with him? You may get some hints or signs of seriousness or dedication often if you keep a watch on him. Given below are some signs of seriousness or dedication from the Guy.

He uses ‘we’ when referring to each other instead of ‘I’ or ‘you’.

He spends a lot of quality time with you. He may even cancel meetings with his friends to be with you. If he is unable to meet you due to something he would always call you in advance to let you know or even fix a next date with you.

He always makes efforts to please you. He picks the places you like to go or even do things which you like to when you are together. He may even go out of his way to make you happy or take an interest in your interests.

He calls you often to check how you are and what you are doing. He may even call you for no reason or just because he wanted to hear your voice.

He speaks of long time plans with you like retirements, goals in life, building a home together, having children etc.

He does not see you different from and treats your problems like his own and when ever you need he is always there for you.

He makes efforts to get to know your friends and family and also introduces him to his family and close friends.

He likes showing you off and your time together is not just restricted to indoors.

If he is serious about you it can be seen in his eyes, the way her looks.

He is not scared of admitting that the two of you are dating or you are his girlfriend without any hesitation.

He may ask your opinion or discuss about any major decisions he wants to take.

His friends treat you nice and even his secretary puts your call through immediately when you call and is extra friendly with you.

He talks about his ex only in casual terms which is an indication that he has moved on already from his earlier relationship.

He may hide his troubles and problems from you, not because he does not trust you, but he does not want you to be worried.

You may notice his jealousy streak when you deliberately comment on a hot guy on the street or even in a movie.

Your gifts are his cherished possessions and you see him using the thing you complimented on very often.

He keeps his promises to you.

Finally if he is the one, your heart would say so too.

If you are seeing each other for a long time and find that your relationship is not going anywhere and you are wasting your time with a guy who is not serious enough to commit it makes sense to dump him and find someone who will give you the respect and commitment you deserve. If you are lucky maybe he would realize your worth and come back to you.