Friday, September 10, 2010

Two big festivals on a single day..Here is my hearty wishes :)

Its a great auspicious occasion that two of our big Indian festivals are being celebrated on a single day...We may be one of the rare people to have such an occasion..Eid(Ramzan)Mubarak and wish you all a very happy Ganesh Chaturthi...!

It feels great to celebrate two awesome festivals on a single day.....This occasion proves the unity in diversity of the Indian culture...We should be united forever just like the festivals that coincidentally fell on a single day...Hope this is what God wanted everyone to know and hence made the festivals appear on a single day :)


Well,Ramzan....A prominent festival of the Muslims...Which shares the love,care and relationship between any two individuals..That is what they believe regarding this festival...


Vinayaka chavithi,also known as Ganesh Chaturthi in the north...A celebration as a mark of rebirth of Lord Ganesh...Also celebrated as his birthday :)


It really feels great to be a part of both the celebrations because,am gonna meet my close friend,Irfan and wish him and his family regarding his festival....!


Hope you have great times ahead..! May the blessings of Lord Ganesh and Allah be wid u forever..Let me pray to God to keep showering his blessings on everyone equally and let all our frndshp continue like this...Keep rocking..!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik



P.S: For everyone here,am posting a video regarding vinayakachavithi special photos...See that video for wonderful pics of Lord Ganesh :)

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Thursday, September 9, 2010

Secrets of some successful relationships

What are the secrets of a successful relationship..??To know those click read more...!



Human Relationships can be enlightening and supporting but can also cause drama and trauma. This is also and especially the case of male-female relationships. You can see such a relationship as a special kind of interaction where two different physiologies and two different biological strategies meet. They come from a different origin and they aim at a different target but meet at a crossroad. When they meet the same nature of their biology dictates union.

A union between male and female biology can generate a state of enthusiasm, joy passion and relaxation that no other relation could instil. This is probably due to the biological prospect for a new life that can be born from this bond. The union of what the Chinese philosophers were calling “Yin” and “Yang” is creating harmony and wellbeing.

A fully opened and relaxed state exists when one can let go of all social, psychological and emotional restraints and is generally associated with specific hormones released in the body. In order to reach this condition, it is necessary for the regions of the brain associated with behavioral control and anxiety to be deactivated, thus leaving the person in a state of blissful affective drive for life.

Many studies have already shown a correlation between oxytocin plasma levels and affective social bonding which increased trust and decreased fear. In many mammals oxytocin evokes feelings of affection, reduces anxiety and increases feelings of security. Studies also confirmed a positive relation between oxytocin plasma levels and adult romantic attachment.

A long-lasting and meaningful relationship must therefore consider the biological and instinctive needs of the other in order to maintain continuous mental and physical aperture and a regular release of hormones, including oxytocin, that come from love and trust alone.

Because male and female biology provoke two very different survival needs, disregarding the necessities of the other can render a quarrelsome and unraveling relationship.

A man instinctively searches a source of stability in a woman, whereas a woman biologically seeks security in a man. When the searched values are not found or found and later lost a deep discontentment can arise in a couple.

Ultimately, any miscommunication or quarrel that may arise in a couple is a basic attempt to expose the original lack of the fundamental biological prerogatives mentioned above. It all comes down to: is he man enough and is she woman enough?

Male biology developed through the ages engaging into activities that focus on locomotion, hunting, attacking and defending, thus basically magnifying the natural fight or flight instinct with the activation of specific areas such as the amygdala. For thousands of years, male bodies have been exposed to the rule win or die that still lies harbored deeply within their instincts.

To better understand a man, a woman should consider this biological tendency in a man and comprehend that rushed instinctual decisions, stubbornness, intense activity alternated with complete relaxation is part of male natural makeup. What made a male a male through the ages was the ability to locate sources of survival and defend them. It was the mono-tasking ability to concentrate on one goal, save all energy for it and achieve it at all costs.

Female biology developed through the ages in challenging and rough environments in a very different way: using the tend and befriend instinct. It adapted to threats and dangers developing diplomatic behavior, esthetical desirability, emotional recognition through facial expressions, healing abilities, gathering and nurturing abilities, territorial mapping, multi-tasking managing and educating. It thus activates other specific brain areas such as the hippocampus, related with short term memory.

To better understand a woman, a man should consider that appearances and pleasant environments are highly desirable to females and loud noises, violent reactions, and illogical behavior are seen as threats to a woman, leaving them less kind and mostly anxious. Moreover, the mono-tasking tendencies of a man to concentrate obsessively on their goals to achieve might put a female partner into a state of disheartening dissatisfaction, thus causing a drop in oxytocin levels.

Due to a different stress managing system males can often minimize events that are significant and important to women, while a woman can appear often using an apprehensive and anxious conduct to a man. Males and females vary greatly in behavior and reaction to stress but follow general biological guidelines based neither on culture nor education but on genetics.

A male biology would have a general tendency to function hierarchically, just like a military system whereas a female one would rather operate like a political system, considering more points of view and always weighing the best option out of a collection of possibilities.

In evaluating a possible partner a man would be overwhelmed by an indefinite state of attraction with an intense physical drive to be with the chosen person, while a woman will often ponder factors as physical attraction, age, social status, geographical location, language, dressing style before accepting to engage into a partnership. Male mentality would often operate on a binary base of yes or no, whereas a female mind would rather find many grey areas in between.

A typical male problem-solving approach would try to find the quickest and most effective solution to a problem regardless of the effort, pain and damage involved. This is also indicated in male suicide rates being extremely more frequent in many countries than female, according to statistics provided by the WHO. Female mentality, on the other hand, would tend to compromise and to politically adapt to requests, necessities and points of views, trying to find a common goal and a conflict-less solution to a problem.

Should the individuals in the relationship fail to meet the instinctive needs in the other, they usually result in a growth apart, needing to take separate paths in order to find a different suitor who can provide the biological needs sought for. This is often associated with the feeling of having “outgrown” the other and needing to go “separate ways”.

In the end it is important to remember that in all relationships, especially between men and women, a general biologically-based behavior is dictated. No culture or social rule can completely over-ride this conduct, no matter how modernized and civilized a society may be.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Monday, September 6, 2010

Valentines Day Gifts For Him

No soft Valentines day gifts for him

Choosing the best Valentines day gifts for him to someone you can be a Valentines Day Gifts For Himdaunting task, because many men are proud of not sentimental. General Valentine's Day gifts for women, like flowers and chocolate is something that does not work for men.


So take your time and think about what he wanted and what she wants. Before you decide on a gift, you must first know the recipients and the likes and dislikes. This may seem obvious and simple. But not only is the most important aspect, but often the most neglected one.


To make sure you get the best gift for your man, make sure you start your preferences and interests and favorite things months in advance. Valentines Day Gifts For HimAlso note that the things that you like in a man. Reflect on the good moments that you spent time together with memorable moments that you know, dear to him. You prepare a list of more detailed, the more confident you can find the perfect gift for him.


Gift Baskets


The list will be ready, you can create a gift basket for him. You can customize it to his list of things that you have made a note.


While this basket, select one topic of interest. Now that includes many elements that may be associated with the flower and add it to your cart. For example, if he is the one who loves football, then you can choose Valentines Day Gifts For Himfootball theme for the basket.


Thus, soccer theme gift basket, you can include such things as warm socks, his favorite team jersey and cap with the logo of the team. You can also include a mini-radio with headphones, which will help him catch the broadcast the match live. You can also get him a ticket to the game and put them together on Valentine's Day, that you bought it.


You can also gift him romantic gift sets, which may include various elements that will make for a special night together. For example, you can include things like candles, a bottle of something, thaValentines Day Gifts For Himt list shows that he likes, and two glasses for him, along with a small bag of rose petals in a shower. You can also add to his imagination, including a pair of silk pants with a ribbon tied to it.


Romantic gestures


This is another way to make sure that your gift is that he loves. You can plan your day together for a special occasion. You can get tickets for the two of you for type of sports, movie or concert that you feel he really likes and will enjoy. By Gopi Kisan




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Sunday, September 5, 2010

Hurt your loved ones by saying the truth rather than making them happy by saying lies

Dear friends,sorry for not writing any article since a week days...Its due to my hectic schedule and also a fewer problems that have contributed for this delay..Click read more...!

Hai friends,chala days ga ea article upload cheyalekapoyanu...Due to few reasons and hectic schedule ila jarigindi..Am xtremely sorry for that...!
Recent ga naku ochina thought ni ikada upload chestunna....


Ee sandharbham ga oka chinna proverb share cheskovalani undi...

HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH RATHER THAN MAKING ME CONTENTED WITH THE LIES THAT YOU TELL...cOZ THE LIES THAT YOU TELL WILL MAKE ME HAPPY AND CONTENTED FOR A FEW MINUTES ONLY BUT THE PAIN THAT I WOULD FEEL AFTER KNOWING THE TRUTH IS ENORMOUS AND NOTHING CAN LESSEN THAT PAIN...SO PLEASE DONT MAKE ME HAPPY BY TELLING LIES BUT HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH,THAT HURTED FEELING WILL LAST ONLY FOR A FEW DAYS...!

Usually LOVER ni happy ga unchatam kosam manam chala abaddhalu cheptu untam..."Idi nenu oppukonu","nenu abaddham cheppaledu okkasarina na lover toh" ani anukunevallu asalu undaru...Unna ippudu oppukokapote ippudu kuda abadham cheptunaru anukondi chaalu :D

Konnisarlu ila abadham cheppi temporary ga vallani happy ga unchachu anukondi but eado okaroju nijam bayata padutundi kada....aaroju evaru alochincharu....abaddham cheppi vallani mosam chesam ane antaru tappa vallu aa time ki enta happy ga feel ayyaro ane thought mind lo undadu appudu...Chala guilty ga feel avutaru...So here is my sincere advice...Rather than abaddham cheppi happy ga unchatam kanna try to search for other alternative ways to make them happy...!

So friends,be frank in every matters...no matter what others feel...If the other person truely loves you,he/she would keep loving no matter what flaws that you have...No matter how bad they would feel when you speak frankly instead of telling lies...They will understand you for sure...

Keep rocking..Have a great time...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Valentines Day Ideas

Low Cost Valentines Day Ideas
In Valentine's Day approaching, the pressure to invent the perfect way to Valentines Day Ideascelebrate this event. We all know that flowers and chocolates make great gifts, but if you're like many people out there might be a little tighter budget this year, and you will find other ways to express their feelings, that will not burn a hole in your wallet. This article discusses some of the Valentines day ideas objective is to maximize the impact, but at minimum cost.


1. A handwritten letter of love may seem old fashioned, but still the best way to say "I love you", especially if you do not know to express their thoughts on paper. Send a letter to your partner on Valentine's Day, to show that your mind is not something at the last minute. Or leave a series of love notes in places where they will be easy to find a partner, such as lunch boxes, or use makeup.Valentines Day Ideas


2. Put a small gift or a love note of a few translucent balls. Inflate them with a surprise inside, and tie them in a bouquet to give your date.


3. Preparation of the Day Valentine's theme meal. You can use a heart-shaped molds for baking cakes and biscuits from the heart, or just cut some food products in the form of the heart. Decorate the table in red, in addition to the topic.



4. Make a collage of photos with you two. Select the photos that have special meaning and write their thoughts on them. Cut some pictures in the collage form of heart and is present in the frame.




5. Make a gift voucher "that your spouse may be waived at any time. Maybe massage from you, the choice of partner, movie nights or even a candlelight dinner at home, make gift.



Valentines Day Ideas6. If you are the type of music, so you can serenade your partner with your favorite songs of love. If not, then assemble a collection of romantic songs of their favorite CDs to add to the atmosphere that night.




7. Cut a series of hearts from red and white paper and each wrote a few thoughts about what your partner means to you. Their heart strings together and hung on the ceiling as decorations. With Baker Janeene




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