Are you in a Rebound Relationship? Signs that you are Dating a Rebounder

A Rebound relationship is one where a person is too quick to get into a new relationship after the breakup of a long term relationship. People get into these sorts of relationships as a distraction to forget the hurt, emotional pain and loneliness after the break up and fill the void left from another. For many people such relationships act as a quick fix or like a band aid and once the purpose is over the rebounder is likely to abandon you and leave you hurt. So, How to know if you are in a relationship with a re bounder? What are some signs to identify if a person is a Rebounder? How can you protect yourself and determine if the new guy you are dating is on the rebound? A rebounder is a person who uses another person to help mend the broken heart.Most rebound relationships are only short term as it is normally not based on love. So How to know if you’re a Rebound? There are some common signs you can observe in order to know if you are Dating a Re bounder or not.

Was your Girl/Guy too fast in getting into a relationship with you after the breakup of the long term relationship? If yes, then probably she/he got into a relationship as a quick fix or out of need to prove to themselves or their ex that they are worthy of love and affection.

Does your Partner mostly talk about his /her Ex… likes, dislikes, the things they did together etc? If the answer is Yes then Beware!

Does your Partner share a mental compatibility with you and share with you his feelings, beliefs and the direction of the relationship? If the answer is No then be careful.

Do you see signs of embitterment, negativity or generalizations with regards to your gender? Then it is a sign that he/she has serious hang ups and not ready to be in a relationship.

Does he/she compare you often with Ex? If yes…There is definitely a problem. She/he may be looking out for Qualities of Ex in you.

Does he still talk to his ex, her family and her friends and try to know what is happening in her life through text, email, phone or Facebook? If that is the case, he still nurtures feelings for her and if she is willing to get back to him, he would dump you.

Does he Keep photos or other reminders of her? This means he has still not moved on from his previous relationship and needs to remove the relationship clutter from his life.

If you find yourself in relationship with a rebounder the wisest course of action would be to let the relationship develop slowly and not allow your new partner to set the pace fast or rush into emotional or physical intimacy with him lest you may end up with a broken heart.

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