Showing posts with label marrying older men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marrying older men. Show all posts

Friday, November 5, 2010

Top Reasons why Younger Women fancy Older Men for Dating and Marriage

There are many women who marry Older Men old enough to be their Dads. Why do Women go for Older Men for love and marriage? What makes an Older Man attractive to them? What are the reasons behind this attraction of Younger Woman and Older Man?

Given below are top four reasons why a Younger Women may prefer or fancy Older Men.

Looking for Fatherly Qualities: Fathers are normally known to be protective of their girl children and shower love and affection on them. Most women who adore or hero worship their fathers because of these Qualities look for a Man with these qualities knowingly or unknowingly as life partner.

Financial Prospects: An Older Man may be more financially settled and independent compared to their Younger counterparts because of his age. Many women consider it better to marry someone who is already well off than someone who has just begun or struggling with his Career.

Experience: Many Women consider the Sexual expertise an Older Man may have as a plus point in choosing them. Women like Men who can please them in bed and who can be better than someone with experience? Other than that Older Men seem to have the experience in handling all kinds of situations and problems because of his age which attracts younger women to them.

Love: It could be Love too. Whoever said that an younger woman cannot fall in love with an Older man?

However, there are many reasons why marrying Older Man may be a mistake or wrong choice. Whatever the reasons why a younger woman may choose an Older man for Marriage or love I would advice one to be exercise great caution and analyze things carefully before taking such a decision.

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Wednesday, July 7, 2010

5 Things you should consider before marrying an Older Man

Personally I have never been someone who preferred an older man for even friendship. I have always been surrounded by younger men both for friendship and dating ever since my college days. I am also married to a younger man and have been happy with my life. Though I am not experienced enough to talk of an older man and younger woman relationship as I never had one personally, I have a few friends who are married to guys older than them at least by 15 years many of whom have regretted doing so. Given below is a Pre marriage checklist or 5 things you should consider before marrying an Older Man.

Conservative Outlook:
We can’t change the society. Even if you are married out of love, the society may brand you as a Gold Digger if your man is rich and established.

Children: The older man may already have children from his previous relationship and may not want one from his younger woman. There is also a probability that he might already have done a vasectomy.

Debts: It may be true that the older man would have got more time to get settled in his career or business and therefore might be well off financially. But there is also a probability that he may already have some debts you are not aware off.

Health Issues: The older a person is the more are the chances for illness and Diseases. So there is a chance that your older man is as fit as you may think.

Habits and Addictions: The older a person is the more are the chances that a person may have certain habits or addictions he may not be able to give up.

So I would say that if you are a Younger Woman looking to marry an Older man, Beware!