Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Signs That You May Be Losing Your Husband

There are many Husbands who after a few years of Marriage divorce their wives or leave them because of their lack of interest in them. This is because after some time the excitement fades away and the partner may end up looking for more green pastures if nothing is done about tackling marital boredom in relationships. It is really a sad situation for Women to find that the husband is no longer interested in her as a woman leaves her parents to join her husband and handles a lot of responsibilities like managing the husbands household, taking care of his parents as own and even bear children for him.

Whether you accept it or not when a marriage breaks up a woman stand to lose a lot more emotionally than the man. The society is also not very kind to such woman. Even now a Divorced Man may get a virgin wife but for a divorced woman very few would come forward to marry her. Many times such women are seen settling for men much older than them or staying unmarried because of the scars left by the first marriage. Unfortunately when Marriages break down because of serious reasons like infidelity of the spouse as a result of lack of interest in wife it is difficult to retrieve the relationship.

How to know that you may be losing your Husband? How to tell if the Husband is no longer interested in you? How to know if your Husband or Boyfriend loves you or not? There are some sure signs you can watch out for in your husband to know if the husband is not interested in you anymore. Though most women in troubled relationships identify these signs many refuse to acknowledge it or do nothing to repair the relationship ultimately resulting in a marriage to break up. Given are some signs to tell or know that your husband is no longer interested in you or may be involved with another woman.

He spends too much time Outside: Men may use many excuses like the pressure of work, meeting his guy friends, outstation trip for work and so on to either come home late or avoid you. When this pattern of behavior gets regular beware that your relationship may be in serious trouble.
Lack of Communication and Excuses: Communication is lacking in the relationship. He has excuses for not spending time with you or not being able to sit down and talk to you. Many times he may not even talk to you over phone like he used to earlier or hang up soon. If you earlier use to have great conversations or use to spend a lot of time together then this is a sure sign that something is now wrong in the relationship.
Love is lost: The man who uses to show his love to you by words and actions now do not take many efforts to please you. He even forgets important dates in your life and may even forget to get a present for you on even important events like a wedding anniversary or your birthday.
Sex life is suffering: When a spouse distances himself both emotionally and physically it can be a huge sign of his lack of interest in you or an indication that he has someone else providing those needs.
Frequent Quarrels and Accusations: The Husband who use to find as perfect and was always full of praises for you now have started blaming and accusing you for even petty mistakes.

Is there a solution to this problem? Probably the solution to this problem is being a good wife to your husband so that he cannot resist you or be away from you and never let marital boredom creep into the relationship. A Marriage or relationship needs consistent work to keep it alive. If one or both the partners do not take any interest in maintaining the relationship it can fail causing a break up between couples. So if you see any sign that you may be losing your husband try to mend it before it is too late. 

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