Are you an obsessive girlfriend?

Many girls in love chase their boyfriends away from them by being obsessive. What they do not realize is that a Guy needs his space too or also have a life apart from them. Obsessive behavior from a girlfriend can result in the guy abandoning her. Are you an obsessive girlfriend? 

You do not trust him completely.

You call him several times to find where he is.

You insist that he spend all his free time with you.

You keep on asking him if he loves you again and again.

You suspect that he may cheat on you if you leave him on his own.

You keep track of all his female friends.

You get upset or hurt if he is late for a date or cancels a date with you.

You insist on meeting him every day.

You feel insecure even when you see him looking or talking to other girls.

You hate it when you see him adding girls as friends in social networking Sites.

You hurt yourself when he does something you do not like.

You secretly check his mails, messages on social networking sites and even him mobile.

You try spending all your free time with him.

You feel that he is your only world.

You stalk your partner to see what he is up to.

You try changing the habits you do not like in him.

You aim at getting your guy committed to you by hook or crook even if you have just started dating.

You get angry when he makes plan so meet his friends and spend time with them even if they are guys.

You try to stop him from meeting people whom you do not like.

Does this sound like you? If yes, Stop right there. If you continue behaving the way you do he would run away from you. You cannot force someone to love you or be loyal to you. He is not your puppy or slave that you should expect him to follow you around. There is an age old saying ‘if you love someone set him free: If he comes back to you, he is yours. If he doesn't then he is not yours.’

 

Though it is perfectly natural that if you love someone you may think of him or long to be with him but if it is interrupting yours and his life then may be you are having what is called OCD or Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. In case of OCD one may move from phases of attraction and anxiousness to obsession and destructing behavior. And many people confuse love with obsession. There is nothing worse than an obsessive partner. So think again, Are you an obsessive girlfriend? If you are, then avoid being so.

 

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How to Chase a Guy away from you?

U may have hundreds of guys as friends but none becomes your lover

This is an article that i completely dedicate to all girls.....Click read more...!

There are many guy friends around you, they are nice and kind, they always give a hand when you need help, they protect you and they also care to you, you can be yourself when you are with them. In short, one of them can be a good boyfriend for you.

You believe if a good love relationship can be started from a good friendship, that’s why you always try to create good relationship with all of your guy friends, so if someday one of them becomes your boyfriend, your relationship with him will last long and more solid.

But the problem is … after many years together with them, none of your guy friends invites you to go out, even if you go out for dinner or watch cinema, you always go with the group of guys and not making a romantic date between two persons.

When you are ready to have a lover, your friendship doesn’t go anywhere. If you invite one of them to go out, you are not sure if he will take it as a date, maybe he will only see it as an ordinary dinner. Why do men only consider you as a friend? Why the friendship doesn’t turn into love relationship?

There are many reasons why friendship can’t change to be a love relationship, some of the reasons are:

a. He is afraid to ruin the friendship
You’ve been very close to him; you often spend time and hang out with him and also with the other guy friends. Your relationship is very solid and beautiful, that’s why he’s afraid to change the status of friendship becomes love relationship, he doesn’t want to make the other guy friends feel jealous, he also doesn’t want to make you feel awkward and make distant from him, as the result, he retains his status as a friend and doesn’t turn into lover.

b. Physical attraction disappears
It’s not a secret if men are visual creatures; they are easily aroused by women’s physical beauty. But when you are very close to him as friend, he will not care to your physical appearance, he accepts you the way you are, and even he considers you as one of his guy friends.

c. There is no challenge anymore
When a man approaches a woman, and then he is able to take her out for dinner, there is a proud of him because he can get a woman for dating. However when you are very close to man as a friend, going out for dinner or hang out with him is a usual thing, he doesn’t consider it as a challenge anymore.

d. You don’t know when should change the status
You’ve known him for years as a friend; you see him every day and feel comfortable with him. You think that he will always be with you and gives his shoulder to you. However one day he gets a new girlfriend, and suddenly you feel losing him, you are sorry for being late to say your love feeling to him. When you feel interested to one of your guy friends and want to be his girlfriend, you better tell him the truth, at least you will find out about his feeling to you, so you won’t regret whatever happens in the future.

e. He is not excited anymore
When a man is interested to a woman, he will feel excited every time he meets the woman, even when he is alone in his room, he will still imagine about that woman. When you are too close to a man and meet him everyday as a friend, the excitement begins to vanish, he will ignore the feeling, and it will be difficult to change the feeling of friend to be a lover.

So dear friends(mainly girls),everythingz in your hands....Decide everything properly.....Enjoy life......Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Deciding about Committment

Many men feel hard to answer the question about ‘making a commitment’, some of them will say that they are not afraid of committed but this is not the right time, they still want to pursue their career, they haven’t found the right woman etc. Actually what is the problem?Click read more to know that...!

He is nervous to face the word of ‘Forever’.
Generally, a couple wants to marry for good, you won’t find a promise of marriage which says ‘I promise to be your husband / wife only for two years’ :P . Whatever will happen in the marriage later, a couple will promise to live together ever after, or it means ‘Forever’.
Hmmm ‘Forever’? So it means that you will always see the same face everyday, you will sleep and wake-up with the same person for years, you can’t stare to other women anymore, and you will share all aspects of your life with only one woman.
According to Carl Weisman, the author of book entitled ‘So why you never have been married?, the sentence which says ‘live together ever after’ often makes man feels afraid to bring a relationship into a serious stage.
When the woman is falling in love and doesn’t think too much about the definition of ‘Forever’, in the other hand man will think the opposite. The tendency of thinking logically makes man defines the word ‘Forever’ into a count of year or

He is more afraid of divorce rather than marriage.
Why is he nervous with the word ‘Forever’? It’s because man realizes that marriage has a difficult risk, namely ‘divorce’. Divorce is one of the reasons why man is afraid to get married, so he is not afraid of the marriage itself.
He hasn’t tried it, then why is he afraid of divorce? Man thinks that everything will develop along with the time, of course this development will also make people change. Man is not sure if the changes that happen to him and his wife will still make him able to live together with the same person forever. Beside that, according to Weisman, the decision to marry or not, is also related with man’s success in career and financial. His success in career makes him feel more confident to face the next challenge, which is making a commitment with a woman. And his ability to make lot of money is also a guarantee that he is able to feed his family in the future.

Be patient and find the answer
According to the research that has been done by Weisman, the number of men who haven’t been married in the age of 40-44 years-old was only about 6% in 1980, but unfortunately this number increased till 17% in 2000. It means that women today have bigger challenge to ask a man to get married.
So how should you face a man who is reluctant to get married? You better be patient and try to ask him about his reason delaying the marriage. At least you can see this situation from the positive perspective; your couple is not easy to get married because he thinks that a marriage is an important and serious matter for his life.
Instead of feeling stress dealing with this situation, you better try to improve your quality as a woman, because if it’s not him who takes the opportunity to marry you, there must be a better man who wants to marry you. Patience is important, but you must also set the time tolerance. If he has exceeded your limit, you better move on and don’t waste your time for uncertain promise.
So dont worry buddies........Be patient and decide something...Keep rocking....!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik

Divorce of a Generation

No one gets married with the expectation that they will divorce. While overall divorce rates continue to drop, young marriage divorce rates are increasing.  For the fourth straight year, the 20-something demographic had the highest rate of divorce out of any other age group. There’s even a name for it – the “Starter Marriage.”

There is a trend of dismisiveness. High profile marriages of celebrities and their own dismissive attitudes contribute to the whole, certainly. Anyone, including those young twenty somethings, will come through divorce with scars. They represent the consequences of a young marriage ending. They carry that baggage throughout their life and future relationships. If there are children in the relationship, they now have to face single parenthood (as well as attempting to be role models for healthy relationships.) The social stigma of divorce has dissipated, but many of the young divorcees are reporting feeling shame.  Civitas, a think tank, took a survey that gauged young people’s attitudes and ideas towards marriage. They found that 76% of those aged 20 to 24 were strongly in favor of marriage.  Part of the pull of marriage is the fact that these people are a product of divorce. They idealize what could have been, but also see divorce as a way out, also exampled for them. Wanting to do things different than your parents could be a good thing, but it is not a reason to get married and it is not the way to stay married.  It sets a couple up for failed expectations, exacerbated by celebrity marriages, divorces, and attitudes.

When the parents and grandparents of these 20-somethings got married and created families, they had vast familial and societal networks. They had the support necessary to build relationships and sustain them. There was life experience in those networks, along with examples of what worked and didn’t.  Today, society is more fragmented, and those examples just aren’t there. What’s the answer?  Many of these 20-somethings just don’t have enough life experience to know what they want, much less how to sustain a we. Some young marriages do stay together, so that is only a part of the problem.  Certainly one answer would be premarital and marital counseling. That could take up where the lack societal examples leave off. Another solution may be a break period before a divorce can happen. Perhaps jumping into divorce is the problem and a cooling off period would be a relationship saver.

The truth is relationships and marriage are hard work. We need to teach the current (and future) generations how to do the work.

This is a Guest Post from Sarah Harris.Her Wedding Planning Advice is a blog for brides that helps them stress less and enjoy the planning process. If you are looking for the perfect wedding dress, or if you need advice on how to plan a bachelorette party, Wedding Planning Advice has you covered.

Is Marriage Toxic for Women?

Many are saying that marriage is toxic to the modern woman. Due to that general idea, many people are beginning to live together rather than marry. Elizabeth Gilbert, an author, claims that her research shows that marriage causes women to be less successful, less healthy, more depressed and more likely to die a violent death. She calls it the “Marriage Benefit Imbalance,” because men, on the other hand, benefit both physically and mentally from being married. This comes from the argument that women are not valued, like men, for their work inside the home. Men are valued for their paid work outside the home. Even Gilbert, however, ends up getting married. The “marriage Benefit Imbalance” idea was first introduced by Jessie Bernard in 1982 in The Future of Marriage. Did this book create a myth, or is it the truth? We know for sure that she thought marriage was great for men, awful for women.

Women are taking things into their own hands in response. Living together instead of marriage is one option women are choosing. Developing their “outside” careers is another. Promoting their own independence in terms of future planning and current finances. Women today are going so far as to have children via sperm donation or adoption in order to avoid the complications of  romantic relationships. All of this leads to “needing” marriage less.

Many women, however, still want to be married. They are, in general, waiting for an older age to marry. True, abusive marriages are wrong – but they are not the rule. True, many single women have wonderfully fulfilling lives. Is marriage a bad thing? Not if you know what you are getting when you marry. You need to know what marriage will and won’t do. You need to know, as a couple, what marriage will be like. What are the expectations in terms of housework, children, religion, and money? Both parties need to communicate what they want, and what they think they’re getting. If there are differences they must be worked through prior to the marriage. Getting married thinking “we’ll work it out later,” or “I can change his or her mind later,” just won’t fly. That is a recipe for disaster. A great idea would be premarital counseling to work through the issues. If you can’t agree on the issues, don’t get married.

Is marriage toxic for women? Possibly. It’s possible that it’s merely toxic for those who don’t prepare with their potential spouse properly.

This is a Guest Post from Sarah Harris. She is the Marketing Manager at Adiamor Engagement Rings. Adiamor offers a large selection of engagement ring settings, affinity diamonds and other fine diamond jewelry at affordable prices.

Suddenly if he disappears,how should girls react..?

You may be in love wid someone and one day all of sudden you find him ignoring you or you can feel his absence disturbing you all of sudden...Why and what should u do...?Click read more...!


For all this time you feel that you are in the most beautiful love story with a man that you really love, everything seems perfect. But one day, unexpectedly, he suddenly disappears without any reason. He doesn’t reply your sms, he doesn’t pick up the phone, and his friends seem reluctant to tell you where he is now. You begin to wonder, what’s wrong with this relationship?

Man needs space
John Gray, the author of the phenomenal book ‘Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus’, says that sometimes the Mars creature feels that he loses his identity when he has emotional closeness with a Venus creature. Man is like a rubber band, sometimes he stretches away, but one day he will return to his previous place.
However, in many cases woman often panics and thinks that the world will be ended when her dream man can’t be contacted. She will start to send hundreds of sms and call the man for many times. Well … actually if she could little bit calm down and stops to be a drama queen, she will get the answer why her boyfriend
stays away from her.
There are many reason why man wants to stay away from woman, such as he is really busy and doesn’t want to be disturbed, he is doing a long meeting, he forgets to bring his cell phone, or he needs time for himself etc. If you send many sms or call him for many times, he will feel being intimidated or becomes a suspect, and as a result, he will be reluctant to explain what actually happened when he was not with you. Rather than panic and stress, you better do some cool activities with your friends, choose activity that can be done together with friends, because friends can help to release your sadness, sometimes acting as if you were a single woman
will be fun too ;)

So how long should you wait?
You’ve tried to fill your spare time with various activities, but unfortunately he hasn’t come to you. Now the problem is, how long should you wait for him patiently? The answer is, it depends on your limit of tolerance and also your needs; it could be a day, a week, a month or even more than that. Every person has different character, there is a girl who wishes that her boyfriend should call her at least three times in a day, but in other hand, there’s a girl who doesn’t mind if her boyfriend calls her only at the weekend.
If your relationship is still new, it is possible if you’ve not had opportunity to talk about this matter with him, so no wonder if there’s misunderstanding between you and him. Maybe you wish that he wants to call you every day, while on the other hand he thinks that he doesn’t need to send ‘breaking news’ about his daily activities everyday.
If one day he comes back to you again, you better discuss about this matter to him, say honestly that you mind if he rarely contacts you. If he is really busy, ask him to send you sms at least once in a day, so you won’t feel worried about him. But if he feels objected to meet your request, it could be that you and he have different wish and expectation about love relationship.

Is he serious with this relationship?
You have waited for him for long time, but he still doesn’t come and explain about his absence from your life, even he is increasingly difficult to be reached. If this happens, maybe it’s time for you to review about your relationship with him. Does he have the same feeling with you? Does he consider you as a girlfriend? Do you both have conflicting expectations? For example: you want to get married as soon as possible, while he just wants to do casual relationship.

Ideally if one of the couple wants to end the relationship, he has to do it with ethic, he can’t ignore you just like that. But in the reality, there’s always someone who hasn’t grown-up enough and chooses to run away from his responsibility. If this happens to you, you do not need to spend a lot of time to analyze about what he has done to you and make you more miserable. Just believe if he is not the right guy and he doesn’t deserve to get your love. Your life is too precious to be given to someone who doesn’t have any responsibility. You will be fine without him :)
So keep rocking,Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Who are more often suspicious and spying on their couple, men or women?

Who are more often suspicious and spying on their couple, men or women?A recent survey result....Specially for couples..Click read more...!


It turned out that women were more often spying on their partner than men. A polling which’s followed by more than a thousand men and women, found that 28% or one of four women had ever entered their couple’s social networks to check his personal information. The women in the poll admitted that they entered their couple’s personal sites, such as Orkut,Facebook, Twitter, and Bebo, to find out whether their partner was faithful or not.

A study of online network, Virgin Media, showed that 88% of populations who used Internet every day were women. The women who also tended to spy their partner even two times higher than men.

According to the poll, there were only 16 % of men who admitted using the Internet to spy on their lovers. Women aged under 35 years were proven as the most ‘paranoid’ about their partner’s faithfulness, and 64 % of them spying on their partner’s online communications and internet networks.

Internet has changed the way of communication in this modern era. In few seconds people can communicate with someone else at the other part of the world. Many people use Internet to stay in touch with friends, and even some of them use internet to start a romantic relationship. But on the other side, the Internet is used to spy their partner’s life. Maybe this is the life’s trend in 21st century.


Have confidence abt your partner and stop spying on them cause this may surely mislead ur relationships which one day you will surely have to feel bad abt the after effects....Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Dont let your new boyfriend down at heart by saying these

Maybe you’re ready to move on and get a new boyfriend, but somehow the memory of your ex-boyfriend still stay in your mind, sometimes without realizing you’re still talking about him to others and even in front of your new boyfriend.On the other hand, although looks indifferent, a man secretly also wants to know about his girlfriend’s ex, usually this is done to learn about a man who is potentially becomes his rival, well … man’s life is never out of competition.Click read more for those tips...!

That’s why you should be able to choose what information is appropriate to say, you can say it if only your boyfriend ask about the matter. If you ignore it … it is possible if your relationship with the new boyfriend will not run well. Here are few things about ex-boyfriend that don’t need to be discussed with the new boyfriend:

1. My parents loved him like a son
A man always wants to be the best partner for his girlfriend, knowing that there was another man who had ever filled your heart has made him feel jealous, moreover if he knows if in fact your ex was able to approach your parents, then the burden on his shoulders will be heavier. Especially if you have never brought your boyfriend to your parents, this will make him more nervous if one day he should meet your parents.
Let’s just say if your parents were kind to all of your friends, including your ex-boyfriend. In this way your boyfriend will not feel nervous when one day you take him to your parents, because he has the same opportunity to get their hearts.

2. He is successful in career and has high income
Career and finance are two important things for a man because man wants to make sure that he could meet all the needs of his couple.
You don’t need to show off by saying that your ex-boyfriend is a successful executive who always gave expensive gifts to you. If you say this, then your boyfriend will think that you only aim to his money.
If he asks about your ex’s job, just say if he is a businessman, you don’t know exactly how much he earns and you don’t want to know about it, because money is not the most important thing in assessing man’s quality.

3. He made me broken heart
Perhaps you felt devastated when your boyfriend left you, but you don’t need to tell the details about how you were hurt and suffer because of him.
If you always talk about the sad story of your old love life, your boyfriend will assume that you are not ready to accept a new man in your life.
Just say if you and your ex boyfriend had many differences that couldn’t be compromised anymore, so finally both of you decided to split up. After that … close the story about your ex, don’t need to discuss it anymore.

4. We had a date here
When a man invites you to have a dinner at a romantic place, he will wish that it is a special moment and place for you and him.
Don’t spoil it by saying if the restaurant was the unforgettable place for you and your ex, it’s the same as you say if your boyfriend is not creative enough in finding a special place for a romantic dinner.
If he asks you whether you have ever come to that place, just say that you’ve been there before, but you don’t need to say that you came with someone special in your life.

5. We had ever planned to …
By the time you still had relationship with the former boyfriend, you would have lots of plans that want to be realized in the future, such as having vacation together, making a business together, or buying property together. But when the relationship broke up, there were some plans that you haven’t done yet.
Don’t use your new boyfriend to complete the plans in the past. Just make a new plan with your boyfriend. In this way he will feel more appreciated and not being exploited

6. Telling about your ex’s ‘Breaking News’
If a couple broke up in a good way, sometimes they are still in touch as friends even though they already have another partner. However you don’t need to tell about your ex’s ‘Breaking News’ to your boyfriend, moreover if the news is about his successful career or better financial condition. Your boyfriend will feel offended and think that you still wish to come back to your ex-boyfriend.

So dear friends,recognise the situations correctly and move accordingly......Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Be careful about your emotions

Here are some tips to make your relations a perfect one......This can be done by controlling your emotions.....To know them click read more..!

You love him, both of you have the same feelings. You like to be with him and feel comfortable to chat with him, and he also feels the same way. You like to tease and make some jokes with him. You always try to come up with the best fashion when having lunch with him, or hang out together at coffee shop. You often send messages to him just to ask what he is doing now.

‘But the problem is, he is not your husband’, and your husband doesn’t know about this man, whether he is your ex-boyfriend in college, facebook friend, or your colleague at the office. Everything starts from unpredictable meeting and warm chat as a friend, and finally it continue to be an affair.

Even though you are not physically involved with this man, but you have emotionally involved with him. Make no mistake, emotional relationship could be long lasting rather than physical relationships. According to Peggy Vuaghan, the author of Monogamy Myth, the emotional affair is a form where you have an emotional relationship with the opposite sex that you hide his existence from your couple.

Affair is a form of betrayal against someone even without sex involvement. Affair occurs when there is physical and emotional relationship between two persons, and there are times and attentions are given to the opposite sex who is not your spouse. But what makes it a problem, there’s no sexual involvement in it?
A marriage will be tarnished by a third person. Most people are able to recover from emotional affair, but a lie that you have done to your couple won’t be forgotten. Maybe your husband can forgive you, but certainly he will still remember your lies. Can you imagine what it would be if a marriage without trust?
On the other hand, you will ruin the friendship because you do many things together with him rather than with your other friends.

The temptation to call this ‘other man’ is also big, because some social networking sites will allow you to track him down. When you imagine your ex-boyfriend, you can simply find him through virtual world. You can click on facebook, twitter, or Friendster. Relationship through virtual world will be faster, more intense, and easier.

According to Jessica Leroy, the founder and director of the Center for Psychology for Women, people who are emotionally involved in affair often don’t feel guilty to their spouse. It understandably, because there is no physical or sexual relationship between those two persons, so they consider it as an ordinary friendship.

So is it the end of your marriage? Probably it’s not. But if you have created a strong emotional connection with another person, with or without sex, your spouse will be hurt. The Settlement will be more difficult when the relationship grows further.

So what is the solution? Step back slowly, don’t be too close to him just like before, you don’t need to answer all of his sms, email, or phone call. You should realize that you can’t have intense relationship with him because you have already had spouse. The deeper your have emotional relationship with him, the more difficult for you to stay away from him, so you should end it immediately.
So always keep your mind under ur control....Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik

Unmarried Couples living together before Marriage

Is the institution of Marriage under threat? Is marriage losing its sanctity and importance?  With the increasing popularity of Live in Relationships where unmarried couples live together under one roof there are reasons why one may think so. Live in Relationships are no more looked at with awe.

Marriage is an institution created by our forefathers where two adults of opposite sex get into a life time agreement which is socially and legally accepted. This arrangement fulfills the requirement of companionship, loyalty, children and even the sharing of responsibilities etc. Now with live in relationships becoming a popular trend many seem to wonder that when you can have almost everything without getting married in a living together relationship why bother with marriage at all.

I talked with a friend who got married after 2 years live in relationship with a guy who is 10 years younger to her because she was so hurt by her first marriage which ended in divorce and also unsure if a relationship with an younger guy would succeed. I hoped to hear that she is very happy with her marriage. But what I heard shocked me. She revealed that when they were in a live in relationship she would often have the guy springing surprises for her by way of surprise dates, gifts or gestures but after marriage she feels the romance is gone and that she is taken for granted. He also happily used to share the work at home and now he seems to have become a lazy bum making her struggle with both home and office work. Before marriage he used to make sure to please her sexual needs and never minded to perform an oral on her. Now he seems to have completely changed making her wonder if she did a mistake by getting married.

There are many reasons why live in relationships are getting more popular by day. Some of the advantages of unmarried couples living together are

Sex

Sharing of house hold chores and bills

No more loneliness

Romance is in the air

Support and Companionship

Freedom without surrendering rights or accepting obligations

Freedom to opt out if things are not working or you are no longer interested

No Financial Complications or Legal Hassles

While the live in arrangement clearly lacks the commitment and acceptability from society and a nurturing atmosphere for children it is ideal for people who want to know each other and experience how a future marriage partnership could be. It is like seeing the movie trailer before buying the movie ticket. And if in case the period of togetherness fails to deepen mutual love and signs of compatibility both will be free to go their own way without any bitterness and legal formalities. It is also popular with guys and girls who want to have their personal freedom without been chained in a relationship. But in many cases women are forced into a live in relationship with promise to marry only to be abandoned later after the man had his fill of her. Thankfully in India, women in live-in relationships were legally protected under the domestic violence act and in January 2008 the Supreme Court also has validated long-term live-in relationships as ‘marriages’ which has attracted a lot of controversy.

However, if two consenting unmarried adults find a live in arrangement happier, who are we to complain. After all, every individual has the right to choose his or her own happiness. 

Guess and Judge a Man's character by his behaviour

Girlz reading my blog...........Herez a small helpful tool for you.......Judge a man's character by his behaviour....Why late?? Just Click readmore...!

1. Shirtless
There’s man who likes to shirtless, even though many people around him, he wouldn’t hesitate to bare-chested. It’s said that if a man likes to shirtless, actually he wants to show that he is a macho man, brave, and super. He is very proud of himself and thinks that he is a true gentleman. He is very demonstrative when bringing his girlfriend in front of public. If he’s a single man, his confidence will rise if many beautiful women surrounded him. However this type of man is reluctant to apologize when he makes a mistake, even though his heart admits if it’s his fault.

2. Propped his chin with hand
If he is propping his chin while talking to you, it means that he gives full attention to you and listens to what you are talking about. If he is propping his chin and wrinkling his forehead, it means that he tries to understand your words, or there is something opposites with his thought.

3. Clenched hands
Maybe you’ve ever seen a man who likes to clench his hands when he is talking or when he is upset. It is an expression of his dynamic life. This man is tough, and he never gives up for the challenges of life. However, he is an impatient man and very sensitive; he is easily upset just because of small problem. This guy needs a patient and gentle woman who can comfort him when he is upset.

4. Folded arms across his chest
If a man likes to fold his arms across his chest when he is talking to someone or when he is watching something, it means that he likes to analyze everything, he is a serious man, and he has willpower. He is difficult to be influenced and he will always maintain his principle. In choosing a life-partner he doesn’t want to play around, and he is serious in establishing a relationship.

5. Touching nose
Touching nose for several times can indicate that someone does not say the truth. Unconsciously he touches his nose and he doesn’t dare to look at your eyes when he is talking with you. It’s possible that he is not ready to tell the truth.

6. Peers over his glasses
He peers over his glasses when he is talking to you, it means that he’s a caring person, smart, and he has high curiosity. He is a hard worker and always trying to get the best result.

7. A dandy man
He likes to caress his hair or wiping his lips with handkerchief when he is talking to others. This man has a soft feeling, sensitive, and easily offended. Maybe he is not full of muscles, but he has high sense of solidarity, besides that he can create full of joy atmosphere when he is gathering with others.

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LOVE THYSELF(oneself/yourself)

Love thyself.......The concept that gives you great strengths....Click read more..!

1. Stop criticizing yourself
One of bad things that could hinder someone to reach her dream is negative self-talk. Sometimes without realizing, you are the biggest bad commentator for yourself. When you see a beautiful woman who gets much attention from men, suddenly you say to yourself that you are an ugly woman who doesn’t deserve to be loved by any man. Or when someone can do a job better than you, you starts to be nervous and say to yourself that you are a fool who can’t do something well. From now stop giving bad comments to yourself; if you respect yourself then others will respect you too.

2. Discover your potential talent
Everyone has talent, including you. Find your potential talent that can’t be owned by other person. If you still can not find your talent, make a list of your interests. Choose one of them that you like the most, commit to yourself that you are willing to undergo your choice, whatever the risk you will face in the future. Sharpen an interest seriously and full of commitment will create a potential talent that’s difficult to be imitated by others.

3. Aware of your own capability
If recently some men are crazy about girl who is good in dancing, and lot of your friends take a dancing class, you do not need to panic and rush to apply for the same course. If you feel that you are not interested in dancing, and your body is too stiff to dance, you don’t have to force yourself to be a dancing expert. Maybe you are not a good dancer, but who knows if you can be a good writer who will release a bestseller novel. Identify your own capability, don’t just follow the trend.

4. Do simple things
Sometimes simple things you do can give big impact to other people. For example; smile to your colleagues in the office, give chocolates to your sister, or send funny sms to your lover etc, all that simple things can make other people happy and smile to you. If you can make other people feel happy with simple things that you have done to them, then why don’t you do it again tomorrow ;)

5. Enjoy your life
Give yourself a chance to breathe and take a break from all busyness. If you’ve been working too hard and neglect your health, it means you do not love yourself. Enjoy your life and do some favorite activities, hang out with friends, hear your favorite music, or traveling with your family. Happiness will shine from you and you will look more interesting ;)

6. Celebrate your success
In this life you must have some goals, no matter how small the goal that you can achieve, give yourself reward when you are able to achieve it. Celebrate your success by doing interesting things, such as going to spa, buy a box of chocolates, or go to a beauty center, you deserve to get that reward.

7. Fall in love with yourself
Every morning before you do your daily activities, try to stand in front of a mirror, smile, and then say positive things to yourself. Such as: “Hi sweetie … you look beautiful today”, “This beautiful eyes and smile will be able to make my sweetheart loves me for more”, or “You have studied hard yesterday, now you are ready to face every single test at school”. Fall in love with yourself will make your life more interesting and full of energy.

So friends,know your inner talents.......Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

The reason for loving/marrying Older women

We often come across people like Sachin,Kumble,Abhishek Bachan etc who married women older than their age...This concept is even seen in epics like Ramayana where Goddess Sitha is elder than Lord Sri Rama.....What is the reason for such attractions..??Click read more for the answers...!

1. More Independent
Usually an older woman won’t be mind if she has to enjoy the time without her boyfriend. She is also busy with her activities, she has many friends, and she is not a spoiled girl who needs to be accompanied by a boyfriend all day long. In this way, a man will feel more comfortable to undergo his activities, no one will complain if he is too busy with his job, and he doesn’t need to be ‘a driver’ for his girlfriend.

2. Mature friendships
A young woman usually has problem to choose between her boyfriend and her friends. Even sometimes she needs to ask her friends whether they like her boyfriend or not. No wonder if a man feels that he has to get approval from the girls’ friends just to get closer to her. In other hand, an adult woman has been able to trust her own decision. She doesn’t need to ask her friends’ opinion about the man who she likes. Adult woman is more confident and independent to make a decision; she also has an ability to choose the right friends to be listened. For her, she is better to have few friends but loyal, rather than lot of friends but can’t be trusted.

3. More Assertive
Generally, an adult woman has found her identity and known what she wants. She doesn’t feel shy to approach a man, and she doesn’t like to waste time and play around with uncertain feeling. Usually young woman in early 20’s still likes to play around with man’s feeling; she likes to make man jealous on her. Meanwhile an adult woman prefers to be honest to her feeling, if she likes a man, she will say it directly. For man, openness and honesty are pleasant things in relationship.

4. She has money
For man, this is not a prime thing, but quite important. Man likes independent woman who doesn’t always depend on him. He doesn’t need to feel responsible to the woman’s financial problem while he doesn’t have much money to spend.

5. Interesting conversation
Communication is one of important things in a relationship. An adult woman has more experience in life and she has broad knowledge, no wonder if she has many interesting things to talk about. Interesting conversation will help to maintain good relationship, even though in physically she is not as pretty as a young woman, but she is able to create good conversation that can make man spends much time with her.

6. She is not a drama queen
Young woman tends to be emotional, she lacks of experience because there are many new things in her life, such as first love, first broke up, first cheating, first dating etc, no wonder if she is more emotional in facing problems. Sometime young woman makes a simple problem looks bigger, no wonder if it feels like a heavy drama. In other hand, an adult woman can deal problem in better way; she can solve problems calmly and reduce the tension. Even an adult woman tends to solve her own problem without bothering her boyfriend.

7. More grateful and doesn’t like to waste time
An adult woman has more life-experiences; she knows which one is more important for her life and which one is less important. That’s why she doesn’t like to waste time for something useless. She sees a man from his personality, and when she has gotten the right man, she won’t waste time to search another man; she prefers to enjoy her time with the man who she loves and feels grateful with what she already had.

8. She has more experience in dealing problems
An adult woman has more experience in dealing problems in relationship. She knows how to face problem without involving too much emotion. This maturity makes her able to maintain better relationship with a man.

9. She has better taste
Older woman has better taste in spending time with her spouse. She has been through some teenage periods, and she doesn’t like to be center of attention anymore just like a young girl. She prefers to choose something calm, meaningful, romantic and more personal. In this way man feels closer to the woman who he loves.

Thankz to Turisuna for spending time on my request for writing this article..Thankz a lot buddy.......Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Boy friend Vs Best friend

This article is mainly for girls/ladies......Tat is to explain the importance of best frnds and boyfriends by removing the concept of prioritizing from your minds...Click read more..!

Have you ever felt that your best friend starts to walk away from you after you get a new boyfriend? Maybe you will begin to blame her and think that she is not a real best friend, because if she is a best-friend she will support you when you get a new boyfriend. Or maybe she’s jealous at you because you get a boyfriend while she doesn’t. I suggest you not to have negative thought about your best friend, maybe she walks away from you because you have changed since you get a new boyfriend. These following things are some reasons why you lose a best friend after you get a new boyfriend:

1. Cuddling in front of your friend
If you want to cuddle with your boyfriend, you better choose a time when your friend is not with you. Of course she will feel uncomfortable if you hug and kiss your boyfriend when three of you should complete the assignment from the office, or when three of you take lunch in coffee shop. Yes she is your best friend, but each person has their own tolerance limit, no one likes to be ignored while you are making out with your boyfriend.

2. You try to be a matchmaker
You try to match your best friend with your boyfriend’s friend. If indeed you want to help your friend to get a boyfriend, tell her frankly, don’t let her feel uncomfortable because you are trying to match her with a new man that she hasn’t known before. Choose a comfortable place to double date, don’t force your friend to love the man who you choose, because not everyone can fall in love at the first sight, let her decide whether she will continue this relationship or not.

3. You like to show off your dating moment
Every weekend you like to show off your dating moment without asking what she has done at the weekend. Everything is only about you, your boyfriend, and your romantic dating. You just want to be heard without giving a chance to your friend telling about her weekend. Maybe she feels lonely
, but you don’t care about her feeling because you are falling in love with your boyfriend. Then don’t be surprised if your best friend leaves you, she is also a human and she needs to be heard too.

4. You tell about her secret to your boyfriend
Perhaps you are trying to be honest with your boyfriend, but it doesn’t mean that you can tell him about your friend’s secret. It feels painful when your secret was opened by your own best friend, so don’t do it to her. You should be able to choose any topic that deserves to be discussed with your boyfriend, you better talk about your life than open your best friend’s secret.

5. You involve your boyfriend without asking your friend first
One day your friend asks for time to talk to you, but without asking her first, you also involve your boyfriend in that conversation. I bet your friend won’t tell about her problem to you, because not everyone can open up when there is a third person. After all he is your boyfriend not your friend’s boyfriend, so he doesn’t need to be involved in your friend’s problem.

So friends,never give full priority to a single person ie.either ur best frnd or your boyfrnd cause both are like your two eyes....If you give priority to only one then the other would certainly be hurt.....So take care of everyone equally......Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik..

Why do women change after marriage?

Why do women change so much after marriage? This is a question many guys would like an answer to. Men often complain that when a woman is a girlfriend she would accepts you the way you are including your friend's, your likes, your music, your gadgets etc. But after you get married the same woman tries to change every thing about you. But after few years of marriage she says “You know you are not the same guy I married to". I guess that is because love is blind and that reality was not as attractive as we thought. I remember reading an answer to this question at a forum that females try to change there husbands after marriage because they could not get the man they wanted so they were trying to make changes in the man they got to meet what they wanted. Well, it is sad but true to a greater extent with many women.

Marriage is a life changing event for Women. Girls move out of their parent’s house and move into the household of their husbands. The girl also become more mature, responsible and disciplined once she is married. A woman not only has to adjust with the life in the new household where ever it is but also lose her old identity. Not all Women get to keep their maiden name after marriage. They give up their maiden names and take their husbands' surname upon marriage because that is expected of a woman in our society.

For most women marriage is the end of a lot of things. Some of them are their own likes, friends and seeing their own parents. I have seen several females who transform themselves to fit into their husband’s household. A college friend of mine who was very modern and stylish is now married to a businessman in Surat and she now wears a Saree and even covers her head. I have seen women giving up their jobs because the husband or in-laws did not approve of their sons wife working. Many women give up eating non vegetarian when they are married into a vegetarian household. Apart from that many of us find it difficult to communicate or meet our old friends or our own parents because of our new priorities.

We also see the transformation of a proud Miss Perfect 10 to a careless Mrs. Fat Aunt with in few years of marriage. A few months back I have been to my cousin’s place at Pune and was surprised to see that my sister in law has become so fat I could barely recognize her.  She said that she is so busy with the household chores that she has no time for exercise. She also revealed to me that since she did not want the food to go waste she mostly consumed the leftovers. No doubt she became so fat. Many women like her also tend to think that “I have found a partner for life, now who else I need to attract?” In fact a woman becomes so comfortable with the fact that they do not have to leave your bed early in the morning for an exercise or sacrifice a favorite dessert to cut down calorie intake. Most women also do their best to impress their spouses with the cooking skills with foods that may taste good but make be unhealthy. Because of unhealthy life style most women also find it difficult to shed the weight they put on during pregnancy.

Ladies, you got married does not mean that you do not have to look attractive anymore. In fact, if you want to keep your man from going to another woman and stay glued to you then better take care of your looks and health. What do you say?

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Women's character based on her zodiac sign

Women's character based on her zodiac sign......A small gift to all the male readers of my blog :P ..........Click read more...!

Capricorn (December 22 to January 19)
Capricorn is not a type of woman who is easy to be seduced. She don’t like to waste time with other people. Her friends will probably call her as choosy, because she knows exactly what she wants and what she should do to get it. Capricorn’s woman is a patient person and doesn’t like to make many changes in life. She won’t mind to wait little bit longer to get the right man for her life.

Aquarius (January 20 to February 18)
She is little bit mysterious and likes to keep problems by herself, or in other words she is undemonstrative person. People who don’t know her will think that she is a cold woman. Sometimes Aquarius woman likes to withdraw herself from public because she needs a time to think by herself. It could mean two things: She is really good at solving problems calmly and rationally, or perhaps she is an indifferent person.

Pisces (February 19-March 20)
Pisces is a humble person and easy to make close relationship with many people. She is not selfish and loves to help other people; it makes her become a good friend for everyone. However, sometimes her kindness can cause problem for herself, because people like to ask for help without giving worthy reward, or in other words people like to use her kindness. Sometimes she needs to be firm; she should avoid people who want to take her help for granted.

Aries (March 21-April 19)
Aries woman is an independent person. It doesn’t matter for her to live as a single woman, although she feels something is missing, but it’s not a big deal for her. Aries woman used to defend her opinion; she is not kind of person who likes compromise. Aries likes confrontation and it could mean lot of drama.

Taurus (April 20-May 20)
When she is in a relationship, she tends to stick and hold the relationship the best she can. She will make sure that she won’t lose the one who she loves. Taurus woman always wants to be in relationship, she can be very dependent to her spouse. It will work if she gets a loving partner, but she has to be careful because not many men who could be patient to accompany his spouse at any time. However, her sensuality could attract man to get close to her.

Gemini (May 21-June 21)
Gemini woman is a sociable person; she could find fun way to begin a conversation with man. Unfortunately, Gemini likes to make conflict; she also likes to ask all things in detail. If her partner doesn’t understand this habit, he will get tired to answer her questions. The tendency to analyze everything in details will make her thinking something excessively and it could also make her partner stressful.

Cancer (June 22-July 22)
Cancer is a type of motherhood and sensitive woman. She likes to take care of others so man feels comfortable being close to her. However, Cancer woman tends to bring problems personally, although not all problems need to be thought in that way. For example; if her husband says that his mother’s cooking is very delicious, maybe the Cancer woman will think that her husband doesn’t like her cooking.

Leo (July 23 to August 22)
Leo woman likes to be center of attention. She has a high self-confident, even sometimes she is over-confident. She won’t be shy to express her feeling to a man who she loves. However, her over-confident often causes problems in her relationship with a man. Her interest toward dramatic things can cause quarrel between her and her partner.

Virgo (August 23 to September 22)
Virgo is not a type of woman who asks too much, which means she likes a casual relationship or easygoing. She is quite happy with simple things in her life, that’s why man doesn’t need to use super-duper technique to approach her. Virgo woman can see everything logically and not emotionally, it’s very helpful when she is arguing with her spouse. However Virgo woman is a shy person, it often becomes barrier for man to approach her.

Libra (September 23 to October 22)
Libra woman really likes to live in a relationship; it makes her become a good friend and a wonderful wife. However, Libra woman often avoids confrontation, so she tends to hide her feeling. This habit often creates passive-aggressive action, for example: If she’s upset because her husband didn’t contact her in a few days, Libra woman will show her upset by ignoring her husband and doesn’t want to pick up his call.

Scorpio (October 23 to November 21)
Scorpio woman is one of types who is difficult to be approached. She doesn’t easily trust others and often feels suspicious to other people, this type always wondering the intention behind someone’s behavior. This habit makes Scorpio woman gets difficulty to find Mr. Right and maintain a relationship. Even so, when she already has a relationship with someone, it’s not hard for her to solve problem in relationship. Scorpio woman likes to talk about everything and often sinks into a problem. When she faces a problem, she will make it as a mission to find an answer so she can fix the problem as soon as possible.

Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)
Sagittarius woman often makes man broken-heart, because she won’t hesitate to leave a man. Sagittarius woman really loves freedom and she has problem with making commitment. She needs a man who can give her space for adventure, exploration, and try new things.

Keep rocking...Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Signs of love-Easy recognising tips

Signs of love.......Try reading these and know if a person is in love with you or not..Click read more...!

1. He doesn’t hesitate to say ‘I love you’.
He doesn’t hesitate to say ‘I love you’, not only when he makes a date with you, but also in front of his friends and family.

2. He looks at you with admiration.
If you catch him looking at you for several times from across the room, and his eyes shining with full of admiration, it means that he loves you and admires your beauty.

3. He is not ashamed to show his love to you.
He shows his love in various ways, start from simple things in daily live, till romantic
things that he creates special for you. For example: He buys your favorite food from work even though he is very tired, at weekend he doesn’t mind to make breakfast for you, or he makes a special card which says that he loves you so much.

4. He likes to spend holiday with you.
Although his friends ask him to hang-out during the holiday, but he prefers to spend the holiday only with you. Even if just sit back at home with you, or make travel plans together with you.

5. He always misses you.
He feels something is missing if he hasn’t contacted you. He will send you sms every day even just to say Hi! How are you? How is your day? Or What are you doing now? Even he feels happy just by listening your voice from the phone. There is no day without your presence in his life.

6. You can beat his hobby.
Beforehand he always spent his time by doing his hobby, such as fishing, gaming, Xbox, browsing etc. But now he prefers to spend time with you, or occasionally he invites you to try his hobby.

7. He likes to make surprise.
He likes to give an unexpected surprise, such as pick you up from the office without telling you first, helping you to solve a problem, or giving your favorite book. Maybe he doesn’t do something big, but he makes a clear effort to do something special for you. When man does something good for you without being asked, it means that he’s trying to attract your sympathy.

8. He tells about you to his friends.
You meet his friends for the first time, but surprisingly they already know about you, such as about your favorite movie, favorite foods, or other special things about you. There’s possibility that he has talked about you to his friends, he is addicted to talk about you. He is in love with you, so no wonder he always talks about you.

9. He enjoys doing the most ridiculous activity with you.
He loves to joke with you, playing your favorite game like a child, or using the same colored clothes with you. Maybe other people think that both of you are a silly couple, but this unusual activity could indicate that there is special chemistry between you and him.

10. He involves you in his future.
He always says “We” not “I”, and he talks about his future activity together with you, such as “We should do something fun in summer holiday, next year”. Maybe he doesn’t mention about marriage or engagement, but he’s thinking about something in long term and he involves you in it.....Keep rocking....!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Always spare some space to be hated

Dear friends,this article is explicitly to differentiate between love and hatred...Many say Love and hatred are just opposites..But i say love and hatred go together..To know why,Click read more...!

Everyone wishes if the reality could be in line with the expectations; we always want to be happy, safe, and loved by everyone, there’s no hostility and hatred.

But unfortunately, hate and love will never be separated, if there are people who love us, certainly there are also people who hate us. Love and hate are born from many inevitable factors in life.

No one is perfect, everyone has flaws and weaknesses. If you see someone who looks perfect and has wonderful life, it may be because you don’t know him entirely. If you are given an opportunity to live and get close with him, certainly you will find some shortcomings that can’t be seen from outside.

And vice versa, if you hate someone and think that he has many shortcomings, maybe it’s because you haven’t known him further. Maybe he isn’t as bad as you think and even he has some specialties that you haven’t known yet.

The misunderstanding to evaluate others could be caused by many factors, and one of them is the mistake to understand someone’s background. In fact, someone’s background is an important factor to form his mindset, perspective, character, personality, and conviction.

The difference of background often makes people unable to accept each other. Different background can make a good intention defined as bad intention, and even the difference of background can cause the birth of hatred. If we are willing to understand it further, diversity actually is a beautiful thing, it’s like various flowers in garden that make the garden looks more beautiful.

Loved by many people is something fun, that’s why there’s one who tries hard to please everyone. But is it possible?
In real life pleasing everyone is something impossible to do, no matter how hard you try, there must be someone who feels unsatisfied with what you have done.

There’s a story about a father who wants to teach his son if human satisfaction is an endless fulfillment, he can’t make everyone love him even though he has tried hard to please them.

To prove it, the father takes his son to go out by bringing a donkey with them.

At first, the father rides the donkey and lets his son following him from behind. When they pass a group of people, those people start to talk about them and say, “Look that old man, he is a cruel father and doesn’t have heart, he lets his son exhausted while he’s riding the donkey”.

Then the father goes down and asks his son to ride the donkey, when they pass another group of people, those people start to look at them and say “See that kid, I’m sure if his father never teaches him how to behave, that boy lets his father exhausted while he’s riding the donkey”.

Then both of them ride the donkey, when they pass another group of people, those people also say bad things about that father and son. “See that father and son, they are very cruel, they torture the donkey. They ride that little donkey while their bodies are big”.

Then the father and son get down from the donkey and walk behind it, when they pass a group of people, those people say, “Look that father and son, they are very stupid, they have a donkey but they don’t ride it”.

Finally that father and son agree to tie up the donkey and carrying it above their heads, the people who see them laugh loudly and think if they are crazy father and son.

Life is hard, we can’t control how people should think about us, instead of struggling to please everyone or spend much energy to counter the hatred, we better always give a space to be hated and take it out together with our breath, because in this world no one is perfect.

So dear readers,hope you might nw have understood my feelings,keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Pheromones Colognes for attracting Men or Women

Pherone V-5 Cologne for Men to attract Women

Can a Cologne get a Man to attract Women or Vice versa? The founders of Pherone who are scientists with years of hands-on laboratory research experience in biochemistry, developmental biology and genetic engineering says that it is possible with their products. They even have developed specialized colognes for gays and lesbians.

According to an Article in CNN ‘Though any number of animals and insects use pheromones to communicate with each other about important things such as food, territory and sex, the idea that humans are similarly influenced too.’ Pheromones are substances which, when inhaled, can produce reactions like sexual attraction, relaxation, excitement or even euphoria. Pheromone is a natural sexual attractant the body produces to subconsciously attract the opposite sex. Certain people are always the center of attention, even though they aren't particularly handsome or beautiful. The reason may be their natural pheromones. It is said Men or women can improve sex appeal and romance with Pheromone Products.

So if you want to boost your romance and love life then Cologne with Pheromones may be the answer to that. Why not give it a try if the sparks are missing in your marriage or you are in a sexless marriage to change the situation? After all, who do not want to attract their partner?

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How to Make a Good Impression at Work Place

There is a saying that the “First Impression is the best impression”. So we don’t get a second chance to make a good first impression. If you are on your first job or if it is your first day on a new job you may find it awkward to mix up with people. But remember that your first few days or weeks at the work place can be an indicator to how the rest of your job goes. If you manage to get good first impressions from your Boss and coworkers it would make fitting in to your job in the company much easier. Sometimes we manage to make a good first impression especially with subordinates even before we meet them because of our ranking.

We all want to make a good impression at work and get noticed by our Boss and subordinates. But unfortunately, many of us even after working in several Organizations still do not have much idea on Office Etiquettes which is very important if we want to make a lasting good impression. A good book on Office Etiquettes can be of great help to know what to do and what not to do at work. And talking of Manners or Etiquettes who can be better to talk about that than the Best Selling Author Emily Post?

Here are some tips which may help

Follow Office Etiquettes. Good Manners are important if you want to make a good impression as people notice what you wear, what you say, your body language or how you behave etc.

Gaining knowledge about the Company and its activities before the first day at work can help you to start contributing and becoming part of the team faster.

Be more of a Listener at least the first few days of the work as your main motto for the week would be gaining as much as knowledge about the company and colleagues. This is a good time to build a good rapport. Being a skilled listener can make a very good impression at work.

Find a mentor who can show you the ropes and give you additional insight into your new job and company.

Make sure you learn the name of peoples at work fast.

Have a Positive attitude at work. If you do not have one develop it as No one likes negative people.

Keep your eyes and ears open. But be neutral and never be a contributor to office gossip. Do not indulge in bad humor or sarcastic remarks. Also avoid conversation on topics like politics, religion, health problems and other personal issues.

Do not boast about you or your achievements otherwise you would have people running away from you or making fun of you behind your back. Let your work speak for you.

Do not take more work than you can handle at least in the beginning months as failure in commitments can cost you dearly. It is always best to under promise and over deliver.

Make your colleagues feel important and you would be opening the doors to opportunities for friendships, jobs, love relationships, networking and sales.

You may make a mistake at work. But show the guts by taking the responsibility and coming with a solution to fix the mistake than putting the blame on others.

And Finally, Manage your time efficiently. You are paid to work. So work during the work timings.  

 

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