Thursday, March 18, 2010

Can a Boyfriend Arm Pillow take away your loneliness?

It is at a friend’s house that I got introduced to a fantastic product called Boyfriend Arm Pillow also known as a Man Arm Pillow. As the name indicates it is a sleep pillow which is filled with foam and dressed in a soft cotton shirt which has an arm and a soft fleecy hand that wraps around you as you sleep. This pillow resembles the torso of a big strong man with a comforting arm that cuddles you while you sleep or take rest providing a secure sense of comfort. When you are in bed to sleep it is the comfort you want which one can definitely find in this pillow. It won’t snore or complain that the hand is hurting after all. If you do not have a man or if your guy is away on nights a man body pillow can be a great companion. I agree that this pillow is really cool as I too got one after seeing it but is it a real solution to get rid of loneliness? I guess not.

What is loneliness? As per wikipedia "Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation." Have we not heard “Lonely even in the midst of a crowd’? Loneliness is something which an individual chooses so if the person wants to come out of loneliness he or she has to put the efforts too. One needs to put an effort to communicate and be social to conquer loneliness. Also understanding your exact problems and rectifying it can make your journey easier. Some things which can help get rid of loneliness are

Making new friends
Communicating with friends and relatives
Getting involved in your Hobbies
Learning new things which interest you
Do things that excite you
Play with pets or children

In short, if you want to conquer loneliness you need to make a decision that you do not want to be lonely and work towards it.

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