Why does some relationships fail despite how hard a couple might try?A question that came up in my mind after reading a local magazine...So just felt some issues might be the reason...Its purely my opinion so if derz anything wrong,please excuse me and do let me know ur feedback...Click read more...!
You might be aware why your relationship didn’t pan out so well; it might be an argument, an affair, a misunderstanding or a lack of trust and appreciation.
You might be worried you’ll make more mistakes so you might not take action at all.
Here are the Top 10 things that might be stopping you from getting your ex back.
10. Are you taking it seriously?
If you want your lover back, you need to be committed. You need a plan you can follow seriously. If you doubt yourself, if you think you can win them back by doing what you’ve always done, you might not see the results you want.
9. Not willing to change.
If you’re completely honest with yourself, are you willing to do change to get your ex back? Are you willing to risk and sacrifice anything for them?
8. Inner conflicts.
Perhaps the reason for the collapse of the relationship is rooted deep within yourself. If you are having emotional issues with yourself, such as dependancy or insecurity, then maybe your energy should be redirected to fixing and mending your self-love first.
7. Not paying attention or understanding what they want.
Redirect your attention away from how much pain you are feeling right now. Instead consider it from your ex-lover’s point of view. Have you hurt them just as much? How can you help them?
6. Are you taking action?
Simply saying you’ll change and things will be better does not equal being so. To show your ex you really are going to change, you need to start putting that change into action. Showing your ex how committed you are means more to them than any words you could say.
5. Are you confident?
People are attracted to those that are strong and confident. For men, if your girlfriend has left you don’t simply shower them with attention, gifts and whatever else (unless that was the reason you broke up). Identity the root of the problem and go from there. If you apologize blindly without dealing with the core issues, your ex will see through your blatant persuasions and won’t fall for it.
4. Panic.
Panicing at this stage will only do you a great deal of unnecessary damage. This means drunk dialing, smsing one after another, stalking, talking to their friends/family to try to get them to talk to you. ALL TO BE AVOIDED.
3. Misbeliefs about gaining their trust and love back.
You can never EXPECT them to come back. Thinking that way will be evident in your actions and this will only repell them. Be genuine and loving to them but never expect to get the same in return.
2. Too proud.
You need to realize what is most important. Winning the battle or winning back love and rebuilding a meaningful relationship. Swallow your pride and don’t let a good thing go just because of your ego.
1. Self-abuse.
It is much too common for people to drown in their sollows with alcohol, drugs or anything of that nature. This is NOT the time to start being self-destructive. You need to be in the BEST shape you can be right now. Meaning eating healthy, exercising, getting out of the house. Substance abuse is not only bad for your body, it will make you feel WORSE not better in the longrun.
This is specially dedicated to the ones who have a broken relationship....Hope my article might be of some help to atleast a single person...Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
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