Are you in a Rebound Relationship? Signs that you are Dating a Rebounder

A Rebound relationship is one where a person is too quick to get into a new relationship after the breakup of a long term relationship. People get into these sorts of relationships as a distraction to forget the hurt, emotional pain and loneliness after the break up and fill the void left from another. For many people such relationships act as a quick fix or like a band aid and once the purpose is over the rebounder is likely to abandon you and leave you hurt. So, How to know if you are in a relationship with a re bounder? What are some signs to identify if a person is a Rebounder? How can you protect yourself and determine if the new guy you are dating is on the rebound? A rebounder is a person who uses another person to help mend the broken heart.Most rebound relationships are only short term as it is normally not based on love. So How to know if you’re a Rebound? There are some common signs you can observe in order to know if you are Dating a Re bounder or not.

Was your Girl/Guy too fast in getting into a relationship with you after the breakup of the long term relationship? If yes, then probably she/he got into a relationship as a quick fix or out of need to prove to themselves or their ex that they are worthy of love and affection.

Does your Partner mostly talk about his /her Ex… likes, dislikes, the things they did together etc? If the answer is Yes then Beware!

Does your Partner share a mental compatibility with you and share with you his feelings, beliefs and the direction of the relationship? If the answer is No then be careful.

Do you see signs of embitterment, negativity or generalizations with regards to your gender? Then it is a sign that he/she has serious hang ups and not ready to be in a relationship.

Does he/she compare you often with Ex? If yes…There is definitely a problem. She/he may be looking out for Qualities of Ex in you.

Does he still talk to his ex, her family and her friends and try to know what is happening in her life through text, email, phone or Facebook? If that is the case, he still nurtures feelings for her and if she is willing to get back to him, he would dump you.

Does he Keep photos or other reminders of her? This means he has still not moved on from his previous relationship and needs to remove the relationship clutter from his life.

If you find yourself in relationship with a rebounder the wisest course of action would be to let the relationship develop slowly and not allow your new partner to set the pace fast or rush into emotional or physical intimacy with him lest you may end up with a broken heart.

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QUALITIES & CHARACTERISTICS OF TRUE LOVERS IN THIS GENERATION

Hiiiiiiiiiiii readers,Today I am presenting an article about two people,who are basically true lovers...The best part of this article lies in analyzing the qualities of true lovers,their characteristics and the way they think and act accordingly..Click Read More..!!

P.S. : This post might lead to a few controversies at some points so please feel free to write your opinions as comments.Whole hearted comments are always welcome :)


They are two people who choose to come together to share minds and thus realities: to enrich their experiences of life.
They are mindful in their relationship and find reasons to come together rather than excuses to be apart.

They are clean, meaning they are not dragging any 'old partners' around with them. They realise that everyone else in their lives are only there because they want them to be there; otherwise they would be a distant memory.

They take responsibility for themselves, individually, and care for each other: leaving behind any compromises for financial advantage.

They live for their own truth and thus are not concerned by the opinions of others.

They have a sharing attitude - "what's mine is yours."

They never use or abuse each other but only give to one another.

They constantly move forward in their lives, individually and together.

They trust each other because they are brutally honest with each other.

They help each other grow and encourage each other, delighting in each other's achievements.

They work at letting go of controlling one another in favour of loving one another.

They view lovemaking(physical activity) as the natural extension of the joy they experience from sharing on all levels rather than the reason for the relationship itself.

They value their intimacy(for married people only :P) and keep it sacred, excluding all others.

They know that when one can genuinely forgive then one can always find love whether for the other or for self.

They are committed and loyal to each other because they know that without that any words spoken are empty.

They are flexible and tolerant because they understand that becoming absolutely truthful is a journey that doesn't 'just happen' overnight.

They are the people who truely love each other.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik...!!

Do you agree if i say Mother's love is Unconditional..?Check out my views

Hi friends.howzz you all..??This article is specially dedicated to all the motherzz who are reading this blog..I took these many days to analyze and to present all my feelings in this article..Dont forget to read it till the end...Click read more..!

For most mothers, the love they feel for their children is a strong and powerful bond that will continue throughout their lives. The love that a mother feels for her child is the same whether the child was grown in their own body or in their heart, as when a mother adopts a child.

Do you know how a mother always feels..?? She would always say this to herself..."My children are dear to me and I find it hard to see them in pain. I feel like a mother hen watching over her baby chicks. Children are tough in some areas, but always need to know they are loved, wanted and are priceless to us, at any age. Even when our children don't need us any longer to tie their shoestrings or to wipe their noses, they still need to know that we care. Often a child will not feel the impact of their mother's love until they become a parent themselves or their mother is no longer living. Then, the power of a lifetime of love their mother provided sets in". These words are often heard here and there by any parent..I have re-collected them in my mind and have mentioned only a few of them..If you ask the same question for your mother then you would get almost the same answer that might differ in the way they express..!

To love and accept your children, even when they are driving you nuts and when their behavior is horrid is most challenging. But the mix of unconditional love and loving limits are the most important duties and responsability a mother can have. Hugs and kisses are a necessity. Love can be expressed in many other ways too, including the discipline and responsibility we give to our children. Eye contact and a simple touch on the shoulder or a love pat on the back mean so much and cost so little. Try today to think of ways you can show your children how much you love and value them.

Here are a few demonstrations of love I have found from many people of my age,many children are fond of. You can adapt these suggestions according to the ages of your child.

Children often tend to share their feelings with their friends rather than sharing them with their parents.This is because of the communication gap that you are creating between yourselves..So let this not happen..Try to become their best friends and stay close to their hearts,not only as a friend but also as a mother..!!

Outward expressions of affection for your husband such as holding hands and warm hugs are good examples of love and security you can give to your children.

Tuck little thoughtful love notes in their lunches, written on a napkin or notepaper or under their pillow.

Saying a simple, "I love you!" A smiley face or you're the greatest!

Ask them to read to you - whatever they want - for 10 minutes.

Spend time listening - this is sometimes hard with an active lifestyle,but more important than ever. Even 5 minutes can do wonders for a child's self image. Remember good eye contact is one of the keys. Pull yourself away from the computer or desk and sit with them face to face. Mirror their body language, moving forward as they do, or sitting on the floor with them.

For younger children even up to 10 years old, holding them on your lap for a minute or two might seem silly, but most kids miss the times when they were younger and were just held and comforted.


Share in their hobby or interest. Look at what they can do - kids love to show off to their parents, so watch. Listen for, "Watch this mom!" Put down what you're doing and really watch and praise them for their effort. Encourage them to keep trying. Smile and verbally respond.

Surprise them by buying their favorite magazine without being asked to. Just put it in their room with a little note - Thought of you today! Love, Mom

In some occassions,try to be silly for atleast a few seconds,for example where parents eat finishers like ice creams/salad first and then the main course; kids love it when their parents are silly at times.

Let the children make their own family photo scrapbook - try color copying some of photos in your photo albums - this way you are not losing valuable photos if they cut them up. Old cards and gift-wrap can make nice backgrounds and borders.

The best way to let them know you care is to hear it from you. Even the big kids need to hear this. They might act as if they are annoyed, but it is sinking in.

Whichever way you choose to share your feelings remember to do something each day. Experts agree that if a child receives their nurturing inside of the family, they are less inclined to look outside to others that might have other motives. Create a home where love is shown. Any parents, whether rich or poor, can afford this.

These simple and free actions can have a significant influence on our children's daily lives that will last for a lifetime. The cycle of love between you as a mother and your child will be passed on to their children all over again. Stop and enjoy them now. Before you know it, they will be grown and this time will be lost.I would always term MOTHER's LOVE as UNCONDITIONAL LOVE..So let this terminology be as such...Keep loving,keep rocking..!!

Start today!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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