How to tell a Guy that you are not Interested in him

Many girls find it difficult to tell the guy who they are dating or guys who show an interest in them that they do not like the guy enough to see them as a life partner. Sometimes it is because of the fear of the guy getting into an aggressive behavior or sometimes out of fear of hurting the guy.But the truth is the earlier you face the truth the better. There is no point in prolonging the suffering of an unwanted relationship.

However, there is certain etiquette to rejecting someone nicely. Unless the person is abusive it is better to tell him face to face than opting for a text message or a phone call or conveying the matter through a third party. As always 'Honesty is the best policy' and the earlier you solve your problem the better it is for you. It is better for the guy as well so that he can look elsewhere and not suffer the pain of getting dumped later on after he has become too serious about you. It would be better to go for a straight forward approach but make sure you do not say things like 'You are a loser' or 'You are a good for nothing' or such things which may hurt his ego or prompt him to go on a revenge mode. It is better to not involve a third party, even if he or she is a close friend to you, or dump a person in public. It is better to choose a place which is not too crowded or too private to convey your feelings to him.

How much ever careful you are when you tell a Guy that he is not someone whom you would consider for a romantic relationship, he would still be marginally hurt especially if he is head over heels in love with you. But it is better for you and him to wipe the slate clean and move forward at the earliest.

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