Friends,please respond to this love problem that a frnd has requested for your all solutions...seeing the way you all have responded earlier,he has requested us...so please do respond...!!Click read more..!
hi dude.this is akshay.from last 3 years i lve a girl.its one sided.we were in same school bt now in diferent.she was ma junior.i nvr talked her in school coz of some reasons.now tat day i msged her on facebook.we chated a bit then i told her everything....she said i respect your love...bt she cnt have boyfriend till she becomes 21.so i said i ill w8.we chated a lot n then she stopped talking with me.she also said tat she was proposed by many ppl so she cnt guarantee tat she ill pick me up....
..wat should i do now?reply soon.........
My solution :
Hi Akshay,
What ever might happen,being a guy having loads of love,dont give up.....
I believe that loving someone is not just for living with them..........love means accepting them for what they are,having a desire to see them happy,in whatever state of life they are and with whom ever they wish..........
Let me explain.....You are loving that girl since three years.....it is upto her whether to accept you or not...dont force her at any instant of time.....you continue your love...dnt let love leave ur mind...even if she doesnt accpt you,you keep loving....untill she realises that none can love her as u love...
Let me give you a practical example of what true love is.......
I know a person,very familiar to everyone...a normal guy,nothing special to say abt him...he is just like all others...he is in love with a gal since 4years....knw what...that girl has been physically molested by her relative,nt jus once..bt for three months...she has lost the desire to live...but this guy has promised her to takecare of her and he is doing the same....at one instant of time,she introduced him to her frnd who was very gud,and he used to care for the girl as her lover does...everytime she used to boast about his frnd while she was having time to have a chat wid her lover....so her lover asked her,do u like that guy..?are u sure he will take a gud care of you..??he started enquiring....the girl asked him why the hell is he asking such questions...then her lover said,if anyone loves and cares u morethan what i do,and if u really like that person i will be the first one to help you in uniting both of you..he then said love means having a desire to see our loved ones happy forever no matter where they are and with whom they live...And knw what...the girl has doubled the affection towards her lover after listening to this....!She began trusting him very much...she felt that none can love her as he did..!
So why cant you do the same??
Do see that this letter that i give you nw reaches her...by anymeans..!
what ever might happen,keep loving...dnt try impressing her...jus make her feel that you love her verymuch,you care her like no other person does....jus make it sure that ths msg reaches her
HONEY,WHERE EVER YOU ARE,WHATEVER YOU DO,HOW EVER YOU WANNA BE IN YOUR LIFE,DO AS YOU WISH,I ONLY NEED YOUR HAPPINESS...LOVE IS WHAT I HAVE IN MY MIND REGARDING YOU..I WOULD NEVER GIVEUP THIS LOVE,EVEN IF U ACCEPT ANYOTHER..UNTILL I DIE,YOU WIL BE IN MY LAST BREATH...I CAN NEVER FORGET YOU,YOUR CARE,YOUR AFFECTION AND YOUR SMILE...I WILL BE THE LUCKIEST IF U ALLOW ME IN YOUR LIFE BUT WILL BE THE SAME EVEN IF U WONT,BUT ON A CONDITION THAT THE PERSON WHO COMES IN YOUR LIFE WILL TAKECARE OF U LIKE A PRINCESS...IF I WERE TO TAKECARE OF YOU IN MY LIFE,I WOULD NEVER GIVE A CHANCE FOR YOU TO FEEL DISHEARTENED..YOU ARE SO PRECIOUS TO ME...PLEASE DONT KEEP ME AT A DISTANCE...IT HURTS WHEN YOU DO THAT...I WISH I COULD BE WITH YOU TOGETHER..
YOURZ EVERLOVING,
Akki..!!
Dont force her to love you,at the same time dont pressurise yourself to love her......Be contented with whatever happens...Leave this matter for the time and get adjusted with whatever happens...First plz do concentrate on your career cozz its time to get settled first..later on you can convince her if u get a very gud job..Be practical sometimes dude...!!
At the same time love her so much that none in the world would love her like you.......anymore help,do contact me
keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
www.loveguru-srm.blogspot.com
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