According to The Free Dictionary it means hit or attack on or from the blind side or to catch or take unawares, especially with harmful or detrimental results. A Blindside can be described as the worse when it comes to a love relationship because it happens when you least expect it and you never see coming. One does not get any warning signs or signals in this type of breakup. The blow to ego and self-esteem is devastating beyond belief especially because the victims of blindside are those who have assumed that all is well with the relationship only to be shattered when the other person announces that they want to break up. Most of them do not even give a proper explanation or reasoning as to why the break up is happening leaving the other person to wonder what went wrong with the relationship. Most of the times what is given as an excuse are ‘It's not you, it's me’.That may seem like a good excuse to give to when you are ready to end the relationship, but is it your real reason? However, the person who broke up the relationship may be unhappy with it for whatsoever reasons and would have already realized that there was something amiss in the relationship. The advancement of technology has facilitated such breakups more easily with instant messages, voice mails, facebook status and many more.
Being blindsided can make a person miserable and shattered. But things would pass on if you give yourself time. There is no point crying over split milk. Accept that the Relationship has ended and that you should move on.Accept that the Guy who blindsided you was never worthy of your love and such a relationship would have had no future. Believe that whatever happened happened for the best and you deserved someone better. Go to Gym; take up a Hobby, holiday with friends or whatever would make you happy. Most importantly, clear the clutter having your previous relationship energy so that you can mend your broken heart fast.
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