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Tuesday, May 31, 2011
The power of RESPONSE in a relationship..An article shared by MEGHANA
Click read more..!!
Do Not Respond Defensively
Rather than trying to avoid criticism, expert performers welcome it. They seek out coaches and advisors who can give them constructive, sometimes even painful feedback. They then use this feedback as a guide for steady improvement. Here are some steps you can take to handle criticism effectively:
1. Acknowledge Your Error
Acknowledging a mistake is not the same as acknowledging that you are an inferior person/a failure. If you believe the criticism is accurate, take full responsibility. Don't blame something or someone else and don't make excuses. If appropriate, offer a diplomatic apology: I'm sorry that my actions led to that result. It certainly was not my intention. Again, if appropriate, ask for suggestions on how you can improve your performance the next time.
2. Take Corrective Action
After you ve heard the other person out completely, and listened to any suggestions for improvement, state/communicate your eagerness to improve in the future. If appropriate, describe any actions you will take at his time to counterbalance your previous error.
3. Acknowledge the other persons motive
Thank the other person for the feedback and make sure to state how valuable you consider it. This demonstrates your ability to use criticism as a way to improve an essential quality of a leader. In addition, let the other person know that you are open to receiving his or her feedback in the future.
Even when you don't care for the style in which criticism is presented, be thankful that the other person is willing to give you feedback, and along with it, an opportunity to improve.
Thnx a lot Meghana once again for sharing such a nice article.. Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
Monday, May 30, 2011
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Love Quotes
How absurd and delicious it is to be in love with somebody younger than yourself. Everybody should try it....Barbara Pym
I believe in the compelling power of love. I do not understand it. I believe it to be the most fragrant blossom of all this thorny existence.....Theodore Dreiser
I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love....Daphne Rae
I believe in the compelling power of love. I do not understand it. I believe it to be the most fragrant blossom of all this thorny existence.....Theodore Dreiser
I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love....Daphne Rae
Saturday, May 28, 2011
Ashok Reddy's story ending.. Really heart touching...Part -3
Ee third part chadivina prati okkariki ekkado eado teliyani feeling ostundi.. Prema viluva eanto adi duram aite kani teliyadu ani antaru kada... Idi nijam emo anipinchindi..!! Idi chadivaka mee abhiprayalani tappakunda comments lo pedataru ani ashistunna..!!
Appati varaku China phone a unna naa life okka sariga Iphone la maripoindi.
Rojulu gadusthunnayi. thanaki naa gurinchi nijam cheppesa, thanu parvaledu le andi.. thank god anukunna.
Oka work unte hyd vella..vishayam telisi thanu kaluddam andi sare ani meet ayyam.
Thana favourite color yellow dress lo vasthune oka princess la undi. nenemo below avg luking gadini.
Days passing...Priya frnd Rupa cal chesi cheppindi priyani hosp lo admit chesam ani
emaindi ani adiga..... priya neeku neeku cheppaleda ani adigindi.Naku em cheppaledu ani cheppa.sare nuv aithe hospital ki vachey, anni matladukundam andi.
Priya ni ICU lo chusi edchesa.Roopa cheppindi priya ki heart prob undi ani, thanu ekkuva rojulu bathakadu ani.Naku inkem vinpinchaledu bayatiki vachesa. Priya ni discharge chesaka adiga enduku cheppaledu ani.Nenu cheppeddam anukunna ashok
but nuv naku ekkada dooram aipothavo ani cheppaledu. nen bathiki unna anni rojulu manam happy ga undali anukunna andi.Nen thanai ekkuva hospital lone choosa.
oka rojaithe phone matladuthu sudden ga padipoindi.Frnds ki cal chesi hospital lo admit cheyincha.thana parents vacharu.
Oka roju thana Mob switch off vachindi..parents unnaru kada ani switch off chesindemo anukunna. 2days varaku ade thanthu. doubt vachi roopa ki cal chesa. Thanu valla native place vellipoindi ani cheppindi. thana parents thiskellaru ani cheppindi.
Rojulu gadusthunnayi kani thana phone kalavatledu. 15days tharvatha malli roopa ki cal chesthe cheppindi Priya banglore lo valla relatives daggariki vellipoindani. 2, 3 months akkade untanani cheppindanta.
Sarle thanu akkadaina happy ga unte chalu anukunna. Oka roju thana frnd oka abbayi kalisadu.priya gurinchi adiga.Neeku theleeda thanu eppudo chanipoindi kada annadu.
inka tharvatha em jarigindo nenu cheppalenu...
Priya Gnapakalatho bathikesthunna...
Mee Ashok
Ento badha karam ayina ee story ending ni chadivaka undaleka nenu eadichesa.. May her soul rest in peace.. Naku mari maatalu ravatledu...Ashok..We all love you for ever...!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
Ashok Reddy's love story.. Really heart touching.. Awesome Narration..Part -2
Awesome narration tho first part tho manchi positive response techukunna mana Ashok Reddy,tana love story lo second part ni post chesadu..Telusukovalani unda?? Aite enduku aalashyam..Read more click chesi chadiveyandi...!!
Aug-8-05 roju oka wrong call chesa,avathali vaipu oka abbayi naku ventane ardham aindi wrong cal chesa ani..so sry cheppesi phone pettesa.
10 min tharvatha same number nundi cal vachindi. ee sari oka sweet voice appativaraku ammayila tho matladani nenu oka ammayi phone lo matladuthunna ane Anxiety ekkuvaindi.ammayi matladuthundi kada ani edo saradaga annanu, "Nenu nee sudheer gurthupattaleda", ani adiga."Naku meerevaro gurthu ravatledu",ani cheppindi. "Sare gurthu thechukoni malli call cheyandi", ani pettesa.
30min tharvatha malli call vachindi. Nalo theliyani konni vibrations start ayyayi.
"Naku meeru evaro assalu gurthuravatledu", ani cheppindi. Ala oka roju motham edipincha.. Tharvaatha nijam cheppesi thana detailes theluskunna.
Thana paeru PRIYA ani, working in a part time job and also study chesthunna ani cheppindi.Nenu mathram naa details anni wrong info icha enduku ante naa bhayam
naadi. ikkada inko pedda twist entante thanu naa kante 18 mnths peddadi so naa date of birth kuda wrong cheppa.
Two days lone baaga close ayyam..adi premo/aakarshano theliyani feeling naalo start aindi. but thanu naa gurinchi emanukuntundo theliyadu kada propose chesi anavasaram ga frndship paaducheyadam ishtam leka silent ga undipoya (ammayini chudakunda
love entra anukuntunnara manatho oka ammayi matladdame oka prapancha vintha alanidi ni8 3'o clock varaku matladesthunte kachitham ga idi lovve anukune age adi. nakkuda
alage anipinchindi).
One week tharvatha thane propose chesindi Oh My God... idi kalaa / nijama anukunna.. Naku therukovadaniki 2min pattindi. naku aluchinchukodaniki time kavalani yedava buildup kuda icha. (actual ga cheppalante dance.... oka 5 min kavalani ala cheppa)..Ventane pakka roomloki vellipoyi dance chesa choodu na sami ranga(aa dance debbaku next day antha full body pains). 5min tharvatha cal chesi I 2 LOVE U ani cheppesa...
----<@ Ashok <----<
Eanti inka next part emaindo telusukovali anukuntunara?? Kangaru endukandi... koddiga opika pattandi..next part ati twaralo ochestondi.. So keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
Friday, May 27, 2011
Ashok Reddy's love story.. Really heart touching.. Awesome Narration..Part -1
Here goes the story :)
Aa roju nen maa farm house lo work tho busy ga unna. Priya mobile nundi call vachindi
"Hi ra... college aipoinda..?", ani adiga.. Phone lo Priya friend Roopa matladuthondi.."Priya ni hospital lo admit chesam,ventane ra",ani cheppindi...
Asalu eam jarigindi??? Priya ni hosp lo enduku admit chesaru? Asalu Priya evaro thelusukovalante........ 6 mnths venakki vellali...
Flash back lo ki vaste....Naa studies complete aipoyayi..naku job cheydam assalu
ishtam ledu so maa farm chusukuntu own ga business pedadam ane planing lo unna...
Maadi chaala pedda family, chaala pedda farm house 50 acres varaku untadi..andaru city ki vellipoyaru nenu mathram village lone undipoya. naku city ante nachedi kadu anduke maa farm house chusukuntu life enjoy chesevadni..maa farm house lo bathayi pallu, nimma pallu etc undevi...aa thotalu chuskunevadni.. ade naa life. daily
workers tho work cheyinchadam,vatini market ki thiskelladam ila unde vadini. full mass.
Naa school colg life lo okka ammayitho kuda matlade vadni kadu. naku aa feelings kuda levu, votti palleturi batch nadi.. naa gang kuda anthe undedi. nene ila :D
Naa gang members voora mass..
Generala ga gang lo evadaithe logic lekunda gang ni confuse chesthu matladuthu
untado vade leader avthadu so naa gang ki nannu leader ni chesaru...vallu cheyadam
ane kante nene leader aipoya anatam better :). ide naa life.
Tollywood film idustry ki Shiva movie trend setter kada. madya lo Shiva topic
enduku vachindante shiva ki mundu industry ela undi shiva tharvatha ela
undo manaku thelsinde.
alage naa life aug 8 2005 ki mundu,aa tharvatha ani cheppukovali.. aa roju
naa life ne marchesthunadani expect cheyaledu...
----<@ Ashok Reddy <----
Asalu aa roju eam jarigindo telusukovalante,wait for the next part...
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
Heaven ablaze in our eyes
We're standing still in time
The blood on our hands is the wine
We offer as sacrifice
[Chorus]
Come on, and show them your love
Rip out the wings of a butterfly
For your soul, my love
Rip out the wings of a butterfly
For your soul
This endless mercy mile
We're crawling side by side
With hell freezing over in our eyes
Gods kneel before our crime
[Chorus]
Come on and
Thursday, May 26, 2011
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