How to breakup with a Boyfriend

Breaking up with a Boyfriend can be a hard and painful experience. Many of us get afraid to convey the fact that he is not the one because of the consequences of such an action can create even if the guy we need to get rid of is a jerk. But rather than keeping silent or postponing telling the guy it is best to deal with the subject without delay. The longer you wait it may become harder for you to get out of the relationship.

In this modern age women choose many ways to break up with the boyfriend like SMS, email, e-card, instant messenger, social networking sites, phone, letter etc.  Some women use friends to convey the message across to him. But I think at least you owe it to the guy to break the news in person face to face unless your boyfriend is abusive. It is better to keep the break up quiet and make sure that your boyfriend should be the first person to know about the break up. Be calm, mature and ladylike when you break the news and make sure you tell the guy why you want a break up without any blame games and end the relationship with the respect and dignity it deserves. Make a clean break up and never let the guy have any doubt or false hopes that there may still be something between you or he has a chance to make things right. The place and time you choose to break the news is also of vital importance. Choose a place which is neutral but not too private like a corner and secluded table at a restaurant. Dumping a man in a public place or making him a laughing stock before others can make him go into a revenge mode.

There are many reasons why a woman may dump a man including cheating, lies, and physical abuse. It is quite natural that you may care for an ex even if he has hurt you or hope that he may change. But remember, life is too short to waste in hope. So it is best to ignore him and remove all the relationship clutter from your life so that you can move on with your life. There are hundreds of e-books all over the net with tips and tricks to get an ex boyfriend back or make him a better one. In fact I would say never take an ex back. But when you break with someone you are doing it for a reason and it is best to keep your decision firm and not become soft hearted. Moreover, once a relationship is broken it would never be the same again.