Wrong Reasons to Get Back to an Ex Boyfriend

I see many people wanting to go back to their ex after the breakup. Why do you want to go back to an ex? Is going back to an ex Boyfriend the right thing to do? Before getting back to an ex it is important to have an answer to these questions. Women go back to their ex for several reasons, including some wrong ones too.

Some of the right reasons to get back to an ex can be your love for him, realization that he is the one or because the reason for the break up was a misunderstanding which has cleared now. There can be many wrong reasons why women get back to their ex too. Getting back to ex for wrong reasons can be a recipe for disaster which may end up in a worse breakup and hurt. Given are some wrong reasons or motivations people use to get back together with their ex.

You are lonely: You have being emotionally dependent on your ex for long and now you are feeling lost or lonely without him and miss him a lot. But you need to understand that this is only a temporary phase and you would be right soon without him.
Your friends and family are forcing you to get back to him: Many times friends and family tend to interfere with what you need to do and what not to do. Many times women are forced by their family or friends to go back to an ex. Remember that you are the one who need to make the relationship work and not them so you should do what you want to do and do not let others decide for you.
You do not want to stay Single: It has become a habit for you to be with him. You would rather not spend time finding another guy or getting to know him but would prefer being together with him because being single pisses you off.
You want revenge: Your Ex dumped you and you want to take revenge on him. Who is he to dump you? You would rather get him back and then dump him. But you tend to forget that in your madness for revenge you are wasting your time and may hurt yourself emotionally.
You remember the happier times together: The happier moments you spend with ex makes you want to go back to him again. But you tend to forget that they are history now and that there are differences between you which have caused you to break up at the first place. It is foolishness to forget about all of the bad things which has happened between you because you have an emotional void that you need to fill.
You have a bet to keep: You have a bet to keep that you would get your guy back.
You expect him to change: You are getting back to him on hope that he would change one day. But life is too short to waste hoping that the ex would change one day. The fact is that people do not change that fast.
Jealousy: You have broken up with your ex but you cannot stand the thought of him being with another girl so you are getting back to your ex.

A Relationship which is broken would not be the same again like how a broken stick cannot be joined together so that it looks like it was never broken. Differences and troubles are likely to appear again in such relationships that it ends with a worse hurt or pain. So if you wish together get back with your ex only for the right reasons or otherwise do not get back to an ex.

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