How to tell a Guy that you are not Interested in him

Many girls find it difficult to tell the guy who they are dating or guys who show an interest in them that they do not like the guy enough to see them as a life partner. Sometimes it is because of the fear of the guy getting into an aggressive behavior or sometimes out of fear of hurting the guy.But the truth is the earlier you face the truth the better. There is no point in prolonging the suffering of an unwanted relationship.

However, there is certain etiquette to rejecting someone nicely. Unless the person is abusive it is better to tell him face to face than opting for a text message or a phone call or conveying the matter through a third party. As always 'Honesty is the best policy' and the earlier you solve your problem the better it is for you. It is better for the guy as well so that he can look elsewhere and not suffer the pain of getting dumped later on after he has become too serious about you. It would be better to go for a straight forward approach but make sure you do not say things like 'You are a loser' or 'You are a good for nothing' or such things which may hurt his ego or prompt him to go on a revenge mode. It is better to not involve a third party, even if he or she is a close friend to you, or dump a person in public. It is better to choose a place which is not too crowded or too private to convey your feelings to him.

How much ever careful you are when you tell a Guy that he is not someone whom you would consider for a romantic relationship, he would still be marginally hurt especially if he is head over heels in love with you. But it is better for you and him to wipe the slate clean and move forward at the earliest.

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Funny redefinitions

Some re-definitions for well known phrases or words...Might be a bit funny but interesting...Felt like sharing with you all....Click read more...!

School:

A place where Papa Pays and Son Plays.

Life Insurance:

A contract that keeps you poor all your life so that you can die Rich.

Nurse:

A person who works up to give you sleeping pills.

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Love Affairs:

Something like the game of Cricket where one-day internationals are more popular than a five day test match.

Marriage:

It's an agreement in which a man loses his bachelor degree and a woman gains her masters.

Divorce:

Future tense of Marriage.

Tears:

The hydraulic force by which masculine willpower is defeated by feminine waterpower.

Lecture:

An art of transferring information from the notes of the Lecturer to the notes of the students without passing through "the minds of either"

Conference:

The confusion of one man multiplied by the number present.

Compromise:

The art of dividing a cake in such a way that everybody believes he got the biggest piece.

Dictionary:

A place where success comes before work.

Conference Room:

A place where everybody talks, nobody listens and everybody disagrees later on.

Classic:

Books, which people praise, but do not read.

Smile:

A curve that can set a lot of things straight.

Office:

A place where you can relax after your strenuous home life.

Yawn:

The only time some married men ever get to open their mouth.

Etc.:

A sign to make others believe that you know more than you actually do.

Committee:

Individuals who can do nothing individually and sit to decide that nothing can be done together.

Experience:

The name men give to their mistakes.

Atom Bomb:

An invention to end all inventions.

Philosopher:

A fool who torments himself during life, to be spoken of when dead.

Diplomat:

A person who tells you to go to hell in such a way that you actually look forward to the trip.

Opportunist:

A person who starts taking bath if he accidentally falls into a river.

Optimist:

A person who while falling from Eiffel tower says in midway "See I am not injured yet."

Miser:

A person who lives poor so that he can die rich.

Father:

A banker provided by nature.

Criminal:

A guy no different from the rest....except that he got caught.

Boss:

Someone who is early when you are late and late when you are early.

Politician:

One who shakes your hand before elections and your Confidence after.

Doctor:

A person who kills your ills by pills, and kills you by bills.


Hope you like them...Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Saving a Marriage or Letting it Go

Many times after a break up, women get back to their men. There can be many reasons which may prompt a woman to get back to her spouse like an apology from the spouse and promise that the mistake would not be repeated, family pressures, low self esteem, financial security, society, children etc to name a few. Majority of times the women who got back to their husbands end up with an even bigger hurt or breakup. Some of the reasons for this can be

Many times women are not able to forgive and forget the infidelity of their spouses completely that many women mention about what happened in the past during even minor disagreements thereby opening the old wounds.

Once the trust is broken it is very difficult to have trust in the partner again. After having caught a man cheating, women tend to be more cautious and suspicious about the man causing more fights and disagreements.

Many men take women for granted and tend to think that their women would not leave them no matter what. They think that since she has forgiven the mistakes even if it is repeated she would forgive again. Also the normal tendency is ‘once a cheat, always a cheat’. Men who have got into the habit of cheating find it very difficult to be loyal to their spouses.

So before you get back to your spouse again think ‘Do I truly want to save my marriage?’ ‘Is going back to my husband the best thing for me to do?’ If you are getting back for the sake of your kids ask yourself ‘Am I willing to sacrifice my happiness for the sake of my kids for life long? Is my decision the best for my kids? These questions are vital to consider. Life is too short to spend in a miserable and unhappy marriage. Only after carefully considering the pros and cons of getting back into the relationship, make a decision on if you should go back to your husband or not.

What do women look in a relationship?

What do women want from a relationship? What do women want from a marriage? These are probably questions many guys are looking an answer to. If any man knows the answer to these questions and act by it, he would get a happy and loyal partner in return.

Women want Men to understand them: Many women would want their men to read their mind. But unfortunately most men are not good mind readers. So guys looking to win the love of girl should develop a good communication with her and be a good listener when she talks. Try to get to know her passions, interests, hobbies and other things about her. A woman looks for appreciation and support from her partner.

Women want Men to be Honest to them: Women expect honesty from their man. A woman can't stand lies and infidelity from a partner. Women are often good with their intuitions and can find if the man is cheating. Cheating can ruin any relationship and it is difficult to build trust in the partner again. On the other hand, if you are loyal and honest to your partner it would make her feel secured and relaxed.

Women want men to Love them: Women want to know and feel that they are loved. Shower your love on your women by way of Gifts, comforts and gestures. Add good sex and romance to it and you would get her loyalty and devotion instead.

Women want men to respect them:Women would not want men to call them names or beat them or treat like a door mat. Women want their men to how them through actions that you respect their opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies and minds.

Women want their men to be committed to them: Women do not want their men taking them for a ride or taken as granted. Majority of women look for Very some sort of commitment in a relationship. No woman likes being taken for a ride. If you are a man who is willing to take a step towards commitment then that would make your women very happy.

As the saying goes ‘What you give is what you get’. If you want your partner to treat you well then you should treat her well too. In short, treat your women the way you want yourself to be treated. If you want a good wife then you should be a good husband. That makes sense, right?

Valentines Day Poems

Romantic Valentines Day Poems


Valentine cards fun to make and much more fun to give. Send one with a beautiful poem from someone you love, always cheerful. Write one to another can provide the same pleasure if you take the time to sit and write valentines day poems, for your special someone.




Some examples of Romantic Poetry Day Valentine's short haiku, which detail the best points of the person you're with, or something a little more personal, like a poem that you write yourself.




Many companies offer cards to make purchases both offline and online, such as e-card, which will help you with selecting just the right card to send on Valentine's Day romantic. Poetry there is much that you can choose the one that you think might be most attractive to their husband or partner and add it to your card has been set for him.




Valentine's romantic poetry is almost a necessity now a days. We all want to find a way to express our appreciation for all that our partner or spouse to do for us. At work, home, other things happen all the problems and some roads around us, it's not always easy to remember and find some time to do it every day.




Valentine's Day a day 1 year, where we have to allocate time to spend with people we can depend on, and that was back when we have problems. For that reason alone you should take a little time for any site and write something meaningful for both of you, or go through a few books, online sites, and find a poem or a card and a valentines day poems that expresses what a special man for you.




Many of us do not often thought to be a romantic or planning for new ways to surprise them a little we care about the small gift, or a poem or something they want, because we knew our time was taken in their lives. If you can not do day to day, and then found a special romantic valentines day poems will have a greater influence, especially if you're usually not romantic.




Valentine must not smell of romance and candle light softly. If you offer your mood is likely to be much more than you planned, as far as romantic. Valentine's Day (Valentine's Day) poetry can set a tone for a wonderful night with the sweet, and if you write, buy or search online, you'll be glad you did. By Ian Pennington

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Please comment after reading this...Need your comments for sure

Hey friends,here is set of small questions for you all.......Naaku yeppatinundo unna questions lo idoka question set...I want to know all your opinions...So please answer this question with your whole hearted opinion in the form of comments...Of course i have my own answers....Will let you know in two days but after i get your comments....Click read more...!

Is LOVE the end of everything...??Love lo fail ayithe life lo fail ayinattena??Wat are the suggestions that you give to LOVE failures...??Why is it that difficult to handle that pain for a person who failed in love..??Is over possessiveness a part of Love or is that an in-ability developed by oneself??

So hope i get the best and the most frank replies from you...Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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History and Origin of Fathers Day(Special Article )

ANY MAN CAN BE A FATHER--BUT IT TAKES SOMEONE SPECIAL TO BE A DAD.....Thatz what is the simplest line that i can say about a Dad.......I am posting an article regarding the history and origin of Fathers day..Hope you like it...And i wish every reader of my blog,every father in this entire universe a very happy FATHER's DAY :)
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Father's Day is a day honoring fathers and celebrating fatherhood, paternal bonds, and the influence of fathers in society. It is celebrated on the third Sunday of June in 55 of the world's countries and on other days elsewhere. It complements Mother's Day, the celebration honoring mothers. It is a widely known celebration.

History:
Father's Day is a celebration inaugurated in the early twentieth century to complement Mother's Day in celebrating fatherhood and male parenting. It is also celebrated to honor and commemorate our forefathers. Father's Day is celebrated on a variety of dates worldwide and typically involves gift-giving, special dinners to fathers, and family-oriented activities. The first observance of Father's Day is believed to have been held on June 19, 1910 through the efforts of Sonora Smart Dodd of Spokane, Washington. After listening to a church sermon at Spokane's Central Methodist Episcopal Church in 1909 about the newly recognized Mother's Day, Dodd felt strongly that fatherhood needed recognition, as well.She wanted a celebration that honored fathers like her own father, William Smart, a Civil War veteran who was left to raise his family alone when his wife died giving birth to their sixth child when Sonora was 16 years old.The following year with the assistance of Reverend Dr. Conrad Bluhm, her pastor at Old Centenary Presbyterian Church (now Knox Presbyterian Church), Sonora took the idea to the Spokane YMCA. The Spokane YMCA, along with the Ministerial Alliance, endorsed Dodd’s idea and helped it spread by celebrating the first Father’s Day in 1910. Sonora suggested her father’s birthday, June 5th, be established as the day to honor all Father’s. However, the pastors wanted more time to prepare, so on June 19, 1910, young members of the YMCA went to church wearing roses: a red rose to honor a living father, and a white rose to honor a deceased one. Dodd traveled through the city in a horse-drawn carriage, carrying gifts to shut-in[clarification needed] fathers.It took many years to make the holiday official. In spite of support from the YWCA, the YMCA, and churches, Father's Day ran the risk of disappearing from the calendar.Where Mother's Day was met with enthusiasm, Father's Day was often met with laughter.The holiday was gathering attention slowly, but for the wrong reasons. It was the target of much satire, parody and derision, including jokes from the local newspaper Spokesman-Review. Many people saw it as the first step in filling the calendar with mindless promotions.
A bill to accord national recognition of the holiday was introduced in Congress in 1913.In 1916, President Woodrow Wilson went to Spokane to speak in a Father's Day celebration and wanted to make it official, but Congress resisted, fearing that it would become commercialized.US President Calvin Coolidge recommended in 1924 that the day be observed by the nation, but stopped short of issuing a national proclamation. Two earlier attempts to formally recognize the holiday had been defeated by Congress.In 1957, Maine Senator Margaret Chase Smith wrote a proposal accusing Congress of ignoring fathers for 40 years while honoring mothers, thus "[singling] out just one of our two parents" In 1966, President Lyndon Johnson issued the first presidential proclamation honoring fathers, designating the third Sunday in June as Father's Day.Six years later, the day was made a permanent national holiday when President Richard Nixon signed it into law in 1972.
In 2010, the Father's Day Centennial Celebration occurs in Spokane with a month of events commemorating the day.
In addition to Father's Day, International Men's Day is celebrated in many countries on November 19 for men and boys who are not fathers.

In a few Catholic countries, it is celebrated on the Feast of St. Joseph.
Argentina
Father's Day in Argentina is celebrated on the third Sunday of June, but there have been several attempts to change the date to August 24, to commemorate the day on which the "Father of the Nation" José de San Martín became a father.
In 1953 the proposal to celebrate Father's Day in all educational establishments on August 24, in honor of José de San Martín, was raised to the General Direction of Schools of Mendoza Province. The day was celebrated for the first time in 1958, on the third Sunday of June, but it was not included in the school calendars due to pressure from several groups.
Schools in the Mendoza Province continued to celebrate Father's Day on August 24, and, in 1982, the Provincial Governor passed a law declaring Father's Day in the province to be celebrated on that day.
In 2004, several proposals to change the date to August 24 were presented to the Argentine Camara de Diputados as a single, unified project. After being approved, the project was passed to the Senate of Argentina for final review and approval. The Senate changed the proposed new date to the third Sunday of August, and scheduled the project for approval. However, the project was never addressed during the Senate's planned session, which caused its ultimate failure.

Australia
In Australia, Father's Day is celebrated on the first Sunday of September and is not a public holiday.

Costa Rica
In Costa Rica the Unidad Social Cristiana party presented a bill to change the celebration of the day from the third Sunday of June to 19 March, the day of Saint Joseph.That was in order to give tribute to this saint, who gave the name to the capital of the country San José, Costa Rica, and so family heads will be able to celebrate the Father's Day at the same time as the Feast of Saint Joseph the Worker.The official date is still third Sunday of June.

Germany
Hiking/drinking tour on Herrentag
In Germany, Father's Day (Vatertag) is celebrated differently from other parts of the world. It is always celebrated on Ascension Day (the Thursday forty days after Easter), which is a federal holiday. Regionally, it is also called men's day, Männertag, or gentlemen's day, Herrentag. It is tradition to do a males-only hiking tour with one or more smaller wagons, Bollerwagen, pulled by manpower. In the wagons are wine or beer (according to region) and traditional regional food, Hausmannskost, which could be Saumagen, Leberwurst (Liverwurst), Blutwurst (Blood Sausage), vegetables, eggs, etc. Many men will use this holiday to get very drunk, so usually groups of drunk people roam the streets all day. These traditions are probably rooted in Christian Ascension Day's processions to the farmlands,some of which reportedly took on the character of drinking sprees as early as in the 17th century.In the streets of urban regions, especially Berlin, "gentlemen parties" take place since the 19th century, excluding women and going along with alcohol consumption.However, some fathers also spend the day with their families and refrain from getting drunk.

Hindu Tradition
In countries of Hindu tradition, the western-inspired Father's Day is celebrated on the new moon day (Amavasya) during late August or early September, to fit the existing Hindu worship of fathers. This is common among countries with Hindu majorities like in India and Nepal.

Japan
In Japan, Father's Day is celebrated on the third Sunday of June and is not a public holiday.

Seychelles
In Seychelles, Father's Day is celebrated on the 16th day of June and is not a public holiday.

Nepal
Main article: Gokarna Aunsi
The Hindu population in Nepal worships fathers in Gokarna Aunsi (literally "Father's Day"), which happens in late August or early September.Also know as Bubako mukh herne din (translates as "looking at father’s face"), In the new moon day (Amavasya) many people go to the Shiva temple of Gokarneswor Mahadev, in Gokarna, a suburb of Kathmandu.
The date of the Western-inspired Father's Day was moved in Nepal to 23 August to fit the pre-existing this pre-existing Hindu festival.

New Zealand
In New Zealand, Father's Day is celebrated on the first Sunday of September and is not a public holiday.

The Philippines
In the Philippines, Father's Day is not an official holiday, but is widely observed on the 3rd Sunday of June. Most Filipinos born in the 1960s and 1970s did not celebrate Father's day but due to being under the influence of the United States (due to its colonization) as seen on television, the Filipinos most likely follow this tradition and other American holidays. The advent of the internet also helps in promoting this holiday to the Filipinos.

Roman Catholic tradition
In the Roman Catholic tradition, Fathers are celebrated on Saint Joseph's Day, commonly called Feast of Saint Joseph, March 19, though in certain countries Father's Day has become a secular celebration.It is also common for Catholics to honor their "spiritual father," their parish priest, on Father's Day.

Romania
Begining with 2010, in Romania, Father's Day is celebrated on the second Sunday of May and it is recognized officialy by the state. Out of the 27 states in the European Union, it was the only one without an official Father's Day. Law 319/2009 was passed thanks to the campaigning from the Alliance Fighting Discrimination Against Fathers (TATA).

Singapore
In Singapore, Father's Day is celebrated on the third Sunday of June but is not a public holiday.

Taiwan
In Taiwan, Father's Day is not an official holiday, but is widely observed on August 8, the eighth day of the eighth month of the year. In Mandarin Chinese, the pronunciation of the number 8 is bā. This pronunciation is very similar to the character "爸" "bà", which means "Papa" or "father". The Taiwanese, therefore, usually call August 8 by its nickname, "Bābā Day" (爸爸節).
Thailand
In Thailand, Father's Day is set as the birthday of the king. December 5 is the birthday of the current king, Bhumibol Adulyadej (Rama IX). Thais celebrate by giving their father or grandfather a Canna flower (Dok put ta ruk sa), which is considered a masculine flower. Thai people will wear yellow on this day to show respect for the king, because yellow is the Color of the day for Monday, the day king Bhumibol Adulyadej was born.
It first gained nationwide popularity in the 1980s as part of a campaign by Prime Minister Prem Tinsulanonda to promote Thailand's royal family. Mother's Day is celebrated on the birthday of Queen Sirikit, August 12.
United States of America
In the US, Father's Day is celebrated on the third Sunday of June. Its first celebration was in Spokane, Washington on June 19, 1910. Other festivities honoring fathers had been held in Fairmont and in Creston, but the modern holiday did not emerge from those.
Modern Father's Day was invented by Sonora Smart Dodd, born in Creston, Washington, who was also the driving force behind its establishment. Her father, the Civil War veteran William Jackson Smart, was a single parent who reared his six children in Spokane, Washington.She was inspired by Anna Jarvis's efforts to establish Mother's Day. Although she initially suggested June 5, her father's birthday, she did not provide the organizers with enough time to make arrangements, and the celebration was deferred to the third Sunday of June. The first June Father's Day was celebrated on June 19, 1910, in Spokane, WA, at the Spokane YMCA.[citation needed]
Unofficial support from such figures as William Jennings Bryan was immediate and widespread. President Woodrow Wilson was personally feted by his family in 1916. President Calvin Coolidge recommended it as a national holiday in 1924. In 1966, President Lyndon Johnson made Father's Day a holiday to be celebrated on the third Sunday of June. The holiday was not officially recognized until 1972, during the presidency of Richard Nixon.[citation needed]
In recent years, retailers have adapted to the holiday by promoting greeting cards and traditionally male-oriented gifts such as electronics and tools. Schools and other children's programs commonly have activities to make Father's Day gifts.
More phone calls are made in the United States during Mother's Day than during Father's Day, but the percentage of collect calls on Father's Day is much higher, making it the busiest day of the year for collect calls.Also, calls during both Mother's Day and Father's Day tend to last longer.
Father's Day is accompanied by a smaller total number of phone calls, greeting cards and gifts than Mother's Day. It is speculated that this is due to the greater number of households with a mother than households with a father (due to single mothers), to the greater role of mothers in unpaid household labor, and to different personal or societal expectations.



The first modern celebration of a "Father's Day" was held on July 5, 1908, in Fairmont, West Virginia, in the Williams Memorial Methodist Episcopal Church South, now known as Central United Methodist Church. Grace Golden Clayton chose the Sunday nearest to the birthday of her father, Methodist minister Fletcher Golden. The city was overwhelmed by other events and the celebration was never promoted outside of the town itself and no proclamation was made in the City Council. Two events overshadowed this event: the celebration of Independence Day July 4th, with 12,000 attendants and several shows including a hot air balloon event, which took over the headlines in the following days, and the death of a 16 year old girl on the 4th of July. The local church and Council were overwhelmed and they didn't even think of promoting the event, and it wasn't celebrated again for many years. The original sermon was not reproduced in press and it was lost. Additionally, Clayton was a quiet person, who never promoted the event or even talked to other persons about it.
Clayton was mourning the loss of her father, and on December of that year the Monongah Mining Disaster in nearby Monongah killed 361 men, 250 of them fathers, leaving around a thousand fatherless children. Clayton suggested her pastor Robert Thomas Webb to honor all those fathers.
Clayton also might have been inspired by Anna Jarvis' crusade to establish Mother's Day; two months prior, Jarvis had held a celebration for her dead mother in Grafton, West Virginia, a town about 15 miles (24 km) away from Fairmont.
It is also a well known American tradition for companies (especially tax and accounting firms) to allow their workers to dress down the Friday before Fathers day.

Thats the history of Fatherz Day......Wish every person,every reader and every father a very Happy Fathers day...Keep rocking,Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Happy Father's Day 2010

Today is the 3rd Sunday of June, which means today is Fathers Day and a day to express our love and gratitude to our Fathers and Father like persons in our life like father in law, uncle or grand father by giving them gifts or sending cards. I take this opportunity to Thank my Dad for being part of my life. Happy Father's Day, Dad! You have been a great role model and I have always looked up to you and think of you when I need to make a tough decision. Thank you for teaching me how to be wise. I love you Dad!

Note : Some countries celebrating Fathers Day on the third Sunday of June are Argentina, Canada, Chile,France, Japan, Netherlands,United States, United Kingdom,  Malta and India.

Should you go back to a Man who did not trust you?

Recently when I went for a Kitty Party, the topic of conversation of some of my friends revolved around the NDTV Imagine Show Jyoti. I do not blame housewives getting addicted to these numerous soaps on TV. With the numerous advertisements of serials and repeated telecasts these soaps are hard to miss. My friends were having a heated discussion on the center character Jyoti who preferred to choose her friend over her ex husband and father of the child as life partner. By the way, Have we not seen such a situation in the Priety Zinta starer Kya Kehna? Coming to the topic of discussion, while one argued that Jyoti did it wrong by not opting for her husband Pankaj as he is the father of her unborn child and he deserves to be forgiven for his mistake at least once. My other friend argued that a man who suspected her character on the basis of what others say does not deserve a second chance and she made a right decision choosing her friend Kabir as life partner as he trusts her and accepts her as she is. Well, I agree with my friend on that point too.

A few months back another friend of mine was in a similar situation. The difference was that she was not pregnant. Her husband believed the stories cooked by his mother and sister in law and threw her out of the house, the same women he married after courting for 2 years. When he realized his mistake later after over hearing the talks between her mother and sister in law he went to her and begged for forgiveness. And my friend, like majority of Indian women would do, got back with her husband. In my opinion if a marriage has to work, trust is an important factor. If you do not have trust in your partner and not willing to hear the explanation she has, then the relationship is not worth pursuing. I can to some extent understand and justify my friends husband for believing in his mother and sister in law more than his own wife as they have been part of his life for a longer period than her. But what about a man who believes in others more than his wife and suspects her? Does he deserve a second chance? I guess not.

In Jyoti’s Case, I do not think Pankaj deserved a second chance because being suspicious about the paternity of his own child is a serious mistake and no self respectful women would forgive such a thing. Suspicion is something which can be got rid of fast, so he may do it again. Moreover, he believed in someone who was his friend for a few weeks more than his wife whom he loved and married. Now that he knows the truth of his ex wife, Pankaj wants to divorce his second wife and get back to Jyoti for the sake of his child. I also do not think that any woman in her rightful mind would want to be a home breaker even if the guy is her Child's father. Kabir, her friend, on the other hand is always supportive of her and accepts her even when he knows that she is carrying her ex husbands child.

Unfortunately many women, in such situations like that of Jyoti, choose to go back to their ex partner or ex husband because they do not want the child to suffer. And many husbands want their wives back because they want their child and not because they genuinely love their wives. My Question is “Is it worth going back to a man who did not trust you at the first place?” What do you think?

Valentinesday

Romantic things to do for Valentinesday

Every year on February 14 that a special holiday celebrated only for lovers. We, of course, talking about Valentinesday.




Since January, we bombarded with advertisements on television, radio and print media to obtain perfect, most romantic gift. But that gift is not it?




It is the largest flower, the largest box of chocolates or a candlelit dinner of the most expensive? How about a shiny jewelry?




All of these things in order, they are not very romantic. Anyone can go to the nearest jewelry store or flower shop, got a credit card and spend the amount they consider necessary to impress their lovers.




There's even really show the list to give a gift certificate. Regardless, if a certificate for a spa, jewelry or sexy lingerie, gift certificates basically says that this is how you stand it for me.




Make no mistake, these things can be part of the experience of Valentinesday, they simply can not be the entire focus.




To Valentine really need to remember to resolve internal romantic, to express themselves. To do this you need to try a different policy, you should spend a little more time to find the best way to express your love to the most important person in your life.




Valentine Test




Start with the consideration of Valentine as a test. Do not test, where you sit, and mark the answers on a sheet of paper, but rather a test of how well you know your lover.




Preparing for the test actually listening to and watching your Lover. Look at what he saw in the stores. Looking at the break, when they find something in the newspaper or magazine that is striking them. Think about your relationship. Is there something you together when you're first dating is gradually replaced by the daily demands of home and at work?




When do you plan Valentine believes that the most precious gift you can give your lover is a gift of time. Time with a special time for yourself, be creative.




In addition, consider the day as a series of gifts, not just one here flowers and chocolate, but now let's have dinner. A number of small gifts and surprises that lead to something special that really make this the most memorable Valentine's ever.




Here are a few ideas.




* Start your day by giving a single red rose and a love letter, a short, when they wake up. Note this is not necessarily poetry or prose is perfect, he just needs sincerely.


* If someone who is always cooking breakfast, you do so. Put a little love coupons in addition to the plate that you give your sweetheart a gift of their time on what they want.


* To take your car and very clean inside and out. Do not tell them what you will do what you have done, just do it and allows them to find it yourself.


* Plan special events, which include only 2 of you. It does not matter whether it is rock-climbing, swimming at the beach, dancing, hiking or cycling. The idea that it is activity that you both will enjoy the more you do it together.


* If there is something you Valentine is trying to force you to do or try, now would be a fantastic time to do it with them. They tried to make you exercise, walk, take dance lessons, go to the movies special, go to the roller or any other.




The basic idea is that everything that you are not super romantic. Their relationship will be related to the fact that you really listen and respond to the one you love. By Bob Current

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Thankyou one and all

All my dear friends,my well wishers,my blog readers.....Thankyou for all your encouragement,your love and affection on me...I Started this blog in the first week of January....Today its running successfully only because of your support....My blog now has 150 articles posted successfully and over 5000 blog visits and over 3000 overall visitors...Thanx a lot for your support..hope you would continue supporting me like this...Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

True story of pain from my friend's friend...!

A true story of a friend of my friend.......He wants to dedicate this to all you readers....Click read more....!



I met this girl in 3rd year of engineering college.i met through one of my friends,on a bday party.we both talked a lot .then after few days i met her when i was thrown out of class and she was coming towards the canteen.we both sat and talked for some time. we exchanged numbers and then we started meeting more often.then she told me about her past relationship and how it ended, her secret crush in college,her daily activities and all.we were always in touch either through sms,calls or simply with each other. it took time 4 me to realise that i am in love with her.then finally a day came when i told her everything .i was shocked to listen that previous day her ex called up to patch things and she was interested ...i was hurt but couldnt do anything.then i was surprised to get a call from her and she was again goin the normal way. she told i am a very good friend of hers. i didnt want to break her trust. there was fights between them and she used to tell me everything. i tried to convince her that such fights are very common and thgs ll be fine.thngs used tp oatch up and she was happy again.then one day she told that she wanted to book a train ticket but couldnt go because her boyfriend gave her a surprise visit. i booked tickets 4 her.then while giving tickets she happily told me that she got her first kiss and her first make out.i was again hurt but couldnt let my emotions come to my face . things used to be like that for 3 months untill when i saw her boyfriend drunk and talking crap about her.i told it after proper confirmation .she was hurt and i felt bad.the next day she told that she has left him forever and she doesnt want to fall into relationship. i could understand what she was goin through .we used to meet as usual and i helped her whenever she needed me.things used to go like this for a year when another guy asked her out. she told no but since both were good friends since school days ,she talked to him too. untill one day when he came to the coll,he took her out for a movie where he gave her a gift, and she said yes to him . that was the end of my patience when i went to her and told her what i did 4 her and what she did 2 me...and since then she is not talking to me...

an advice to whole world: never be a support to any girl unless she is urs

true story from a friend my friend..........


Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Pain in love failure....!

An article that briefly tells you how a person failed in love feels.....Simply cute and had a lot of meaning in that...Thanks to Munna....Click read more...!



You see it started like this.Like every love story.It's the same over and over
again.About one girl and a guy and they both fall in love, they think everything will work out. And they will always be happy together. That love is unbreakable. But this is how they end. There not always eternal happiness. There's always a price to pay.
And at the end...
They always end up hurt and always at the end nothing will work out.
Well this is life.This has happened to me.
A failed love story not a fairytale.
To me love is something painful,something miserable.
Always being hurt at the end.
This is a true love story like all of them. Not a fairytale but a failed love story

Nice article by Munna...Thankyou munna...Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Small article,message delivering to all friends

A simple article,though looks small conveys a big message regarding whats friendship...
P.S.Special thanks to our blog reader HKRaju annaya..!

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I have learnt many things from my idiot friends............

They taught me the tricks for stupid activities.......

They gave me money when i was empty handed in the canteen.....

They taught me how to laugh without any reason.....

They showed me how to LOVE many at a time.....

They taught me the trick to pass without studying.....

They taught me how to stand smartly while being scolded.....

But still I have a complaint.....!

And you know what that is...??They didnt teach me how to live without them....Later on i came to know that

Some tough battles have to be fought alone,
Some paths have to be crossed alone.....
So never be emotionally attached to anyone because we never know when we have to walk alone...So felt like we must get ready to face anything and everything...........

Thanks for HKRaju bro for sharing this article...Keep rocking...!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Love can never be defined-A message 2u all

A cute little message that i got from one of my closest friends,our blog reader Samatha.....I felt like sharing with you all..Chala meaningful ga undi...Click read more...!



What a mother could feel looking at her child just after birth,

What a sister could feel when her brother says sorry for his mistake,

What a girl could feel when her boyfriend holds her hand tightly on a cold pleasant winter night walk,

What a father could feel when his daughter hugs him and says," I love you dad and you are the world's best dad",

What a friend feels after getting a message from his fight with whom he just had a huge fight and the message saying "I need you idiot",

A word cant define these feelings but its only LOVE that connects us all....Love can never be defined...Glad to meet you in the journey of life...

Special thanks to my childhood friend,Samatha....Keep rocking...!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

A collection of advices to know if anyonez in love with you

Signs of love.......Try reading these and know if a person is in love with you or not..Click read more...!

1. He doesn’t hesitate to say ‘I love you’.
He doesn’t hesitate to say ‘I love you’, not only when he makes a date with you, but also in front of his friends and family.

2. He looks at you with admiration.
If you catch him looking at you for several times from across the room, and his eyes shining with full of admiration, it means that he loves you and admires your beauty.

3. He is not ashamed to show his love to you.
He shows his love in various ways, start from simple things in daily live, till romantic
things that he creates special for you. For example: He buys your favorite food from work even though he is very tired, at weekend he doesn’t mind to make breakfast for you, or he makes a special card which says that he loves you so much.

4. He likes to spend holiday with you.
Although his friends ask him to hang-out during the holiday, but he prefers to spend the holiday only with you. Even if just sit back at home with you, or make travel plans together with you.

5. He always misses you.
He feels something is missing if he hasn’t contacted you. He will send you sms every day even just to say Hi! How are you? How is your day? Or What are you doing now? Even he feels happy just by listening your voice from the phone. There is no day without your presence in his life.

6. You can beat his hobby.
Beforehand he always spent his time by doing his hobby, such as fishing, gaming, Xbox, browsing etc. But now he prefers to spend time with you, or occasionally he invites you to try his hobby.

7. He likes to make surprise.
He likes to give an unexpected surprise, such as pick you up from the office without telling you first, helping you to solve a problem, or giving your favorite book. Maybe he doesn’t do something big, but he makes a clear effort to do something special for you. When man does something good for you without being asked, it means that he’s trying to attract your sympathy.

8. He tells about you to his friends.
You meet his friends for the first time, but surprisingly they already know about you, such as about your favorite movie, favorite foods, or other special things about you. There’s possibility that he has talked about you to his friends, he is addicted to talk about you. He is in love with you, so no wonder he always talks about you.

9. He enjoys doing the most ridiculous activity with you.
He loves to joke with you, playing your favorite game like a child, or using the same colored clothes with you. Maybe other people think that both of you are a silly couple, but this unusual activity could indicate that there is special chemistry between you and him.

10. He involves you in his future.
He always says “We” not “I”, and he talks about his future activity together with you, such as “We should do something fun in summer holiday, next year”. Maybe he doesn’t mention about marriage or engagement, but he’s thinking about something in long term and he involves you in it.....Keep rocking....!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Why do relationships fail manytimes...??A Dedicated article from my heart

Why does some relationships fail despite how hard a couple might try?A question that came up in my mind after reading a local magazine...So just felt some issues might be the reason...Its purely my opinion so if derz anything wrong,please excuse me and do let me know ur feedback...Click read more...!


You might be aware why your relationship didn’t pan out so well; it might be an argument, an affair, a misunderstanding or a lack of trust and appreciation.
You might be worried you’ll make more mistakes so you might not take action at all.
Here are the Top 10 things that might be stopping you from getting your ex back.
10. Are you taking it seriously?
If you want your lover back, you need to be committed. You need a plan you can follow seriously. If you doubt yourself, if you think you can win them back by doing what you’ve always done, you might not see the results you want.
9. Not willing to change.
If you’re completely honest with yourself, are you willing to do change to get your ex back? Are you willing to risk and sacrifice anything for them?
8. Inner conflicts.
Perhaps the reason for the collapse of the relationship is rooted deep within yourself. If you are having emotional issues with yourself, such as dependancy or insecurity, then maybe your energy should be redirected to fixing and mending your self-love first.
7. Not paying attention or understanding what they want.
Redirect your attention away from how much pain you are feeling right now. Instead consider it from your ex-lover’s point of view. Have you hurt them just as much? How can you help them?
6. Are you taking action?
Simply saying you’ll change and things will be better does not equal being so. To show your ex you really are going to change, you need to start putting that change into action. Showing your ex how committed you are means more to them than any words you could say.
5. Are you confident?
People are attracted to those that are strong and confident. For men, if your girlfriend has left you don’t simply shower them with attention, gifts and whatever else (unless that was the reason you broke up). Identity the root of the problem and go from there. If you apologize blindly without dealing with the core issues, your ex will see through your blatant persuasions and won’t fall for it.
4. Panic.
Panicing at this stage will only do you a great deal of unnecessary damage. This means drunk dialing, smsing one after another, stalking, talking to their friends/family to try to get them to talk to you. ALL TO BE AVOIDED.
3. Misbeliefs about gaining their trust and love back.
You can never EXPECT them to come back. Thinking that way will be evident in your actions and this will only repell them. Be genuine and loving to them but never expect to get the same in return.
2. Too proud.
You need to realize what is most important. Winning the battle or winning back love and rebuilding a meaningful relationship. Swallow your pride and don’t let a good thing go just because of your ego.
1. Self-abuse.
It is much too common for people to drown in their sollows with alcohol, drugs or anything of that nature. This is NOT the time to start being self-destructive. You need to be in the BEST shape you can be right now. Meaning eating healthy, exercising, getting out of the house. Substance abuse is not only bad for your body, it will make you feel WORSE not better in the longrun.

This is specially dedicated to the ones who have a broken relationship....Hope my article might be of some help to atleast a single person...Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Tips for Fixing a relationship

A small piece of advice in order to fix your relations.......Might be silly but felt like sharing it with you all...Click read more...!

Do you fell like there is nothing left you can do and your relationship is over? You shouldn’t… because there is ALWAYS hope. However, you need to know the correct methods in trying to get him or her back or else you could make it even worse than it already is.

Lets back up a step first though..

Do you ever find yourself:

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling him/her several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why your relationship is falling apart

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

If that’s the case…then what are you going to do when you do get a hold of them? It usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty and we don’t wanna go there…

Makes effort not just to improve him or herself but let you know they are doing their best to make themselves more attractive to you. This includes working though inner issues, improving personal appearance, getting a better job or anything to become more financially stable, committing to spiritual growth, becoming more social etc.

If your going through a difficult time in your relationship it DOESN’T mean it’s over…NO ONES relationship is perfect. Everyone has to overcome struggles. However, if you don’t have a plan on how to fix a relationship… then you could permanently ruin your relationship for good. I don’t want to see that and either do you.Its high time that you get over a stale relationship and recharge it with love & passion.Enjoy all the relationship of life.

Keep rocking,Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Valentine Hearts

How to make a Valentine Hearts Craft


I'm not a great gift in my own Valentine's Day crafts or crafts, but I have some ideas you might like. Valentine's Day show young people how their loved one how much they care. This is a great time to get sneaky and show that you can afford to for that someone special. Craft it also helps you save money if you're on budget. Here are some great crafts Valentine hearts:




Chocolate Candy Hearts-This is really more on the summit for gifts or other crafts. If you have the remnants of candy canes from Christmas time, you can get crafty with them. Keep them in a package and make them into heart shapes. You can tape the ends so they will remain that way. It's very funny to put on top your wrapped gifts, it's just some extra decorations.




Egg Carton Watch Now we really get tricky and processing at the same time. Help save the environment Crafts Valentine hearts. All you need is to document the egg cartons, not polystyrene foam, rose, purple or red cards and the broader framework. This is a simple vessel, so that you do not know. All you need to do is cut the bottom of the egg holder so that each edge is the same height, and they are in good condition.




You can cut them each individually, so they are the owners of their own. Then paint whatever color you choose, pink, red or purple. After drying, the adhesive can be cardboard cards in the shape of the heart. Once the glue is dry you can draw between the owners of each, so that all flows well. Once again, after all dry, can be better if it sits overnight, you can put it in a big frame and is going to hang. This is a great Valentine's Day heart crafts, which can be conducted each year.




Valentine Butterfly is more for children to help with, but it's great for their imagination. It really can be any way you want. I think the easiest way to use foam forms. You want four pieces of foam as a heart, two large and two small. You also want two forms of polite little heart for the antenna, some pipe cleaners and Googly eyes. Again, that makes it easy to ship.




First, you take your long oval piece of foam and glue the wings on the back side of the heart. The heart of a great low-wing and smaller hearts for the upper wings. Press firmly glue really sticks. You can take the pipe cleaner and glue to the back of the head and then glue to the Valentine hearts of small pipe cleaner antennas cute. Leave to dry a bit before you glue Googly eyes. That's it! Now you have a nice Valentine's Butterflies. You can add more bubbles form on the wing, if you want to add a little glitter or glam. By Christine Doheny

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LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS – NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE

This is a good story and is true, please read it all the way through until the end! (After the story, there are some very interesting facts! :)





I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree.

The last class I had to take was Sociology.

The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every human being had been graced with.


Her last project of the term was called, ‘Smile..’

The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions.

I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway. So, I thought this would be a piece of cake, literally.

Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald’s one crisp March morning.

It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son.

We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband did…

I did not move an inch… an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved..

As I turned around I smelled a horrible ‘dirty body’ smell, and there standing behind me were two poor homeless men.

As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was ’smiling’

His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God’s Light as he searched for acceptance……

He said, ‘Good day’ as he counted the few coins he had been clutching..

The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation.

I held my tears as I stood there with them.

The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted.

He said, ‘Coffee is all Miss’ because that was all they could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be warm).

Then I really felt it – the compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.

That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me, judging my every action.

I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray..

I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman’s cold hand..

He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, ‘Thank you.’

I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, ‘I did not do this for you. God is here working through me to give you hope.’

I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son… When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, ‘That is why God gave you to me, Honey, to give me hope…’

We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to give.

We are not church goers, but we are believers.

That day showed me the pure Light of God’s sweet love.

I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in hand..

I turned in ‘my project’ and the instructor read it.

Then she looked up at me and said, ‘Can I share this?’

I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class.

She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed.

In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald’s, my son,the instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom on the last night I spent as a college student.

I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn:

UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.

Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read this and learn how to

LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS – NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE

Keep rocking,Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

True love is an acceptance of all that is.....

A heart touching story.....With loads of meaning in it....Hope you understand the actual meaning...Click read more...!


It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80’s arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.


While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor’s appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.

He told me that sh e had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer’s Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, ‘And you still go every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?’

He smiled as he patted my hand and said,

‘She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.’

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,
‘That is the kind of love I want in my life.’
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everythingthey have.

‘Life isn’t about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain

Special thanks to Anjali garu for this story....Keep rocking...Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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