Not all relationships start out in a traditional way and now more than ever there are many singles dipping their toes into the online dating world. While this is a very viable option for those who have written off finding love at the corner bar or in the grocery aisle, there are definitely some things worth considering before plunging into online dating headfirst.
Here, 8 Tips for Navigating the World of Online Dating:
- Choose a username that is both welcoming and easy to remember:Your username is how you will be known to the whole online dating service community so keep in mind a name like ScaryFreak might drive potential matches away, while ZumbaLover14AlMeil369 may appear incredibly confusing to someone trying to remember you.
- Use a real photo of yourself that is flattering (and recent): No cheating here. Using a picture of your great-looking college roommate will not cut it, nor will using a photo of yourself from ten years ago. A simple snapshot featuring your winning personality will do the trick.
- Be honest in your profile: State only facts that are true, important, and interesting. If the last book you read was a textbook in high school, don’t claim to be an avid reader just to lure a bookworm your way. Likewise, don’t claim to be a doctor if you’re really a nurse aide. Be truthful and forthcoming and you’re bound to get a more accurate match.
- Add a little mystery: There’s no need to divulge every single quirk about yourself in your profile. The fact that you eat raisins every night for a bedtime snack is something you can probably keep to yourself, at least until you’ve found a match. The same is true for your grandma’s cat’s name, your best friend’s opinions of you and your irrational fear of squirrels.
- Be respectful of others: If you get an email from someone who wants to get to know you better, respond in kind. If you’re not interested, say as much (gently, of course), but do not ignore the responder all together. Also keep newly interested parties informed of any new relationships you enter into out of respect for all involved.
- Meet with a potential match on the phone (or via live video): If you’re ready to go beyond emailing, try setting up a phone call or video chat before meeting in person. This is a great way to explore each other’s demeanor without the pressures of meeting face-to-face.
- Presentation counts – big time: When it’s time to meet in person (deep breath!), remember to put your best self forward. Nothing is a bigger let down than building someone up in your mind only to find out they don’t stack up. Eliminate that worry by dressing nicely, arriving fresh, clean and put together, and by being warm and friendly. And don’t forget to smile.
- Be safe: Perhaps more important than any of the other tips is to always be on a heightened awareness and safety. Whether communicating with someone online, meeting them in person, or anything in between, always use caution. Do not give out sensitive personal information like when or where you will be alone, when your house will be empty, or the names, ages and schools of your children. Once your relationship progresses, this kind of information can be shared at will, but until then, keep mum about any specifics that could put you or your family in danger.
Remember, online dating can open a whole new world of options and can be a very enriching experience. By following these tips, you are another step closer to finding that special someone. Good luck and have fun!
This is a Guest Post by Liberty Kontranowski. He is a freelance writer and blogger with hundreds of articles published online and in print, covering everything from beauty tips to purchasing prescriptions online to sexual health to parenting, fashion, entertainment and more. Liberty is the newest member of the AccessRX team providing the highest quality articles.
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