Sunday, April 18, 2010

Reasons why many Marriages fail

Nobody wants a failed marriage. But it takes the effort of both the partners to make a marriage a happy and successful one. There can be a lot of reasons why a marriage may fail. Some reasons which lead to the failure of a Marriage are given below.

Unrealistic Expectations
Lack of Trust
Inability to handle Responsibilities
Lack of Intimacy or Sexless Marriage
Being an obsessive spouse
Being abusive
Depending on the Spouse for everything
Involving ‘others’ in your fights
Interference of others in couple’s life
Not taking care of looks or making yourself attractive to your spouse after marriage
Lack of Communication or understanding with Spouse
Prioritizing other things or other people
Inability to get rid of your past relationship
Attitude Problems
Forced relationships 
Failure to cope during hard times
Money Issues
Spending too much time apart from each other
Criticizing and nagging your Partner too much
Not consulting your significant other about major decisions

The above listed are only a few reasons and there are many more reasons why a marriage may fail. The reasons may vary from couple to couple but if efforts are put to identify the root cause leading to the rift and fix it there are chances one may be able to save your marriage from heading towards divorce.

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