You are not accountable to a Boyfriend or Husband.
You do not have to worry if your spouse is cheating on you.
You can spend your money the way you like.
You do not have to worry about the responsibility which comes along with being in a relationship.
You do not have to share your things with anyone.
You can wear what you like.
You can do or eat want you like.
You have more time for your hobbies, likings and interest.
Nobody would question you if you want to be with your family or friends.
The list can go on…
Do not think that I am saying that all women should stay single. My point is just that there is nothing to feel distressed about being a Single no matter what your family or society has to say about it. You can be alone and be happy too even if it is for the rest of the life, it is not that bad. But it is definitely a bad idea to sacrifice all of the benefits of being single for a guy who isn't worth it. I think women should aim at getting educated and empowered first than thinking of walking down the aisle as soon as attaining the marriageable age. Marriage is just not the magic remedy to all your problems.
Another friend of mine who had a painful divorce fully agrees with me. She even goes a step further and declares that if you are thinking of marrying for sex then Vibrator is a better choice than a
As I write this I can’t help remembering a college friend of mine who married the guy she loved against the wishes of her parents at the age of 18. She was a very brilliant student at school and college and did not continue her studies. After 10 years and 2 kids later the guy she got married to abandon her for another woman. Her parents accepted her back but she and her children now live at the mercy of her parents. Her own brothers and sister in laws are not very supportive of her. I only wish if she studied further or learned something to enable her to earn a decent living.
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