Improving Marriage by avoiding Relationships Boredom

Many Couples tend to ignore the relationship or take it for granted once the initial excitement is over resulting in boredom creeping in and couples falling apart. Boredom in Marriage can be a killer in the relationship and can even result in marital infidelity or divorce. If you really want to keep the relationship intact you need to conquer this boredom and save your relationship. After some time of marriage men and women tend to be less interested about their own appearance or intimacy with partner. This is because your priorities have shifted to work, the kids, money or something else.

If your marriage is turning sour and you do not want your partner to leave you one thing you should do is act before it is too late. Look for way ways to rediscover your feelings and bond with each other by introducing new dating ideas and spicing up the sex life. Adding romance to your relationship can help your marriage survive. Never reach the point where you are not touching each other. Also put in efforts to make yourself attractive and stay healthy.

Break away from being predictable and add a surprise element to the relationship. This reminds me of a friend’s father who takes his wife out to the restaurant nearby for dinner on their wedding anniversary. My friend and I thought that he would do something different on their 25^th anniversary. But nothing of that sort happened. Similarly one of my friends husband always gives her money whenever he has to give her a gift. Though my friend has no complaints about this and buys whatever she wants with the money I am sure she would have appreciated if her husband took the time out and personally picked up something for her. An unplanned date or an unexpected gift can be a sweet surprise for your spouse.

Sometimes being too possessive or clingy about the partner can spoil things between couples. Every individual needs space and by giving that to your partner you are also taking the time to miss each other’s company.  

Communication is very important for a healthy relationship. Keep the communication open. Be a good listener. It would help your partner to confide things to you.  Also by knowing your partners strengths fears and anxieties you gain a better understanding of your spouse and can be of assistance when they need your support. Make sure you and your partner sit down and talk on a daily basis even if it is for a 5 minutes. If you have had a disagreement or quarrel make sure you resolve things soon.

These are small things but can definitely help in building a better relationship and improving marriage. But remember, Relationships are a two way street and it takes the effort of both the partners to make it work well.

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