Are you an obsessive girlfriend?

Many girls in love chase their boyfriends away from them by being obsessive. What they do not realize is that a Guy needs his space too or also have a life apart from them. Obsessive behavior from a girlfriend can result in the guy abandoning her. Are you an obsessive girlfriend? 

You do not trust him completely.

You call him several times to find where he is.

You insist that he spend all his free time with you.

You keep on asking him if he loves you again and again.

You suspect that he may cheat on you if you leave him on his own.

You keep track of all his female friends.

You get upset or hurt if he is late for a date or cancels a date with you.

You insist on meeting him every day.

You feel insecure even when you see him looking or talking to other girls.

You hate it when you see him adding girls as friends in social networking Sites.

You hurt yourself when he does something you do not like.

You secretly check his mails, messages on social networking sites and even him mobile.

You try spending all your free time with him.

You feel that he is your only world.

You stalk your partner to see what he is up to.

You try changing the habits you do not like in him.

You aim at getting your guy committed to you by hook or crook even if you have just started dating.

You get angry when he makes plan so meet his friends and spend time with them even if they are guys.

You try to stop him from meeting people whom you do not like.

Does this sound like you? If yes, Stop right there. If you continue behaving the way you do he would run away from you. You cannot force someone to love you or be loyal to you. He is not your puppy or slave that you should expect him to follow you around. There is an age old saying ‘if you love someone set him free: If he comes back to you, he is yours. If he doesn't then he is not yours.’

 

Though it is perfectly natural that if you love someone you may think of him or long to be with him but if it is interrupting yours and his life then may be you are having what is called OCD or Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. In case of OCD one may move from phases of attraction and anxiousness to obsession and destructing behavior. And many people confuse love with obsession. There is nothing worse than an obsessive partner. So think again, Are you an obsessive girlfriend? If you are, then avoid being so.

 

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