1. Stop criticizing yourself
One of bad things that could hinder someone to reach her dream is negative self-talk. Sometimes without realizing, you are the biggest bad commentator for yourself. When you see a beautiful woman who gets much attention from men, suddenly you say to yourself that you are an ugly woman who doesn’t deserve to be loved by any man. Or when someone can do a job better than you, you starts to be nervous and say to yourself that you are a fool who can’t do something well. From now stop giving bad comments to yourself; if you respect yourself then others will respect you too.
2. Discover your potential talent
Everyone has talent, including you. Find your potential talent that can’t be owned by other person. If you still can not find your talent, make a list of your interests. Choose one of them that you like the most, commit to yourself that you are willing to undergo your choice, whatever the risk you will face in the future. Sharpen an interest seriously and full of commitment will create a potential talent that’s difficult to be imitated by others.
3. Aware of your own capability
If recently some men are crazy about girl who is good in dancing, and lot of your friends take a dancing class, you do not need to panic and rush to apply for the same course. If you feel that you are not interested in dancing, and your body is too stiff to dance, you don’t have to force yourself to be a dancing expert. Maybe you are not a good dancer, but who knows if you can be a good writer who will release a bestseller novel. Identify your own capability, don’t just follow the trend.
4. Do simple things
Sometimes simple things you do can give big impact to other people. For example; smile to your colleagues in the office, give chocolates to your sister, or send funny sms to your lover etc, all that simple things can make other people happy and smile to you. If you can make other people feel happy with simple things that you have done to them, then why don’t you do it again tomorrow ;)
5. Enjoy your life
Give yourself a chance to breathe and take a break from all busyness. If you’ve been working too hard and neglect your health, it means you do not love yourself. Enjoy your life and do some favorite activities, hang out with friends, hear your favorite music, or traveling with your family. Happiness will shine from you and you will look more interesting ;)
6. Celebrate your success
In this life you must have some goals, no matter how small the goal that you can achieve, give yourself reward when you are able to achieve it. Celebrate your success by doing interesting things, such as going to spa, buy a box of chocolates, or go to a beauty center, you deserve to get that reward.
7. Fall in love with yourself
Every morning before you do your daily activities, try to stand in front of a mirror, smile, and then say positive things to yourself. Such as: “Hi sweetie … you look beautiful today”, “This beautiful eyes and smile will be able to make my sweetheart loves me for more”, or “You have studied hard yesterday, now you are ready to face every single test at school”. Fall in love with yourself will make your life more interesting and full of energy.
So friends,know your inner talents.......Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
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