1. The number of previous girlfriends
Indeed there’s man who exaggerate the number of his previous girlfriends, he wishes that you will impress on him and think if he is an adorable man. But if a man wants to build a serious relationship, he will cut the actual number of his ex-girlfriends, so you will regard him as a good and faithful man.
How to face it:
Just say ‘okay’, but of course you still need to be aware. If you find evidence that his ex-girlfriends more than the number he has mentioned, you don’t need to confront him, keep that information only for you. What matters now is how far his seriousness to build a relationship with you. If he doesn’t have any affair with another woman when he makes relationship with you, then you don’t need to worry about his loyalty, every person has a past.
2. He secretly compares you with his ex-girlfriend
Secretly man often compares woman with his ex-girlfriends, start from the appearance, the ability to get along with his friends, and even the ability on bed.
How to face it:
You don’t need to feel upset or try hard to change yourself. Just be yourself and feel comfortable with everything you already have, a woman who has strong personality will look sexier in man’s eyes. You may feel upset if he starts to throw comments or criticisms which comparing you with his ex-girlfriends.
3. He’s still in touch via online with his ex
Technological sophistication gives possibility for people to relate each other. The presence of social networks make someone could find some old friends, including ex-girlfriend. Sometimes man gets in touch with his old love as an effort to get ‘assurance’ that there will be someone who wants to accept him if the relationship with his girlfriend doesn’t run well.
How to face it:
You don’t need to panic or forbid him to join with the social networks. Don’t threaten him to close his facebook account if he has some female friends there. Some men use social networks to widen his connections; even they use it as marketing media. As long as he doesn’t hide his wall contents, or hiding someone from you, you don’t need to worry if he joins with the social networks.
4. He’s afraid if he can’t be faithful to you.
Everything will change, including you and him, sometimes man worried if the changes will affect his feeling to you. And the worse, this modern lifestyle tends to consider if the disloyal behavior is something normal.
How to face it:
You don’t need to worry, not all men have thin loyalty, there are men who full of commitment and loyal to his partner. Even a study in England said that men with high intelligence tend to be more faithful and monogamous. Dr. Kanazawa as a part of the study said that the more intelligent men tend to be monogamous and always uphold the sexual exclusivity value compared with the less intelligent men. Besides that, you can’t deny if the temptations are always around us, not only he who must be alert for the temptations, you should also keep your heart and avoid the temptation to have an affair.
5. Increase the frequency of sex
Many married men expect if they could get more sex in their marriage life. But some of them don’t say it frankly because they are afraid if their wife thinks that they are a sex maniac. As a result, many married men distribute their biological needs by masturbating.
How to face it:
If during this time the initiative to have sex always comes from your husband, occasionally you need to make changes, there’s no wrong if you make the initiative first. Widen your knowledge about sex also important, because the quality of sexual life is one of keys for the stability of marriage.
6. He is flirting with his female colleague
Some men admit if they ever flirt with female colleague at working place. Usually this happens because men spend more time at work than at home with their wife.
How to face it:
Flirting at working place usually is not something serious, because it’s very difficult to hide an affair among the colleagues. Don’t worry too much, be nice to his coworkers, because they can help you to watch your husband’s behavior in the office, even a good friend will try to remind your husband if he is tempted to have affair with other woman.
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