That’s why you should be able to choose what information is appropriate to say, you can say it if only your boyfriend ask about the matter. If you ignore it … it is possible if your relationship with the new boyfriend will not run well. Here are few things about ex-boyfriend that don’t need to be discussed with the new boyfriend:
1. My parents loved him like a son
A man always wants to be the best partner for his girlfriend, knowing that there was another man who had ever filled your heart has made him feel jealous, moreover if he knows if in fact your ex was able to approach your parents, then the burden on his shoulders will be heavier. Especially if you have never brought your boyfriend to your parents, this will make him more nervous if one day he should meet your parents.
Let’s just say if your parents were kind to all of your friends, including your ex-boyfriend. In this way your boyfriend will not feel nervous when one day you take him to your parents, because he has the same opportunity to get their hearts.
2. He is successful in career and has high income
Career and finance are two important things for a man because man wants to make sure that he could meet all the needs of his couple.
You don’t need to show off by saying that your ex-boyfriend is a successful executive who always gave expensive gifts to you. If you say this, then your boyfriend will think that you only aim to his money.
If he asks about your ex’s job, just say if he is a businessman, you don’t know exactly how much he earns and you don’t want to know about it, because money is not the most important thing in assessing man’s quality.
3. He made me broken heart
Perhaps you felt devastated when your boyfriend left you, but you don’t need to tell the details about how you were hurt and suffer because of him.
If you always talk about the sad story of your old love life, your boyfriend will assume that you are not ready to accept a new man in your life.
Just say if you and your ex boyfriend had many differences that couldn’t be compromised anymore, so finally both of you decided to split up. After that … close the story about your ex, don’t need to discuss it anymore.
4. We had a date here
When a man invites you to have a dinner at a romantic place, he will wish that it is a special moment and place for you and him.
Don’t spoil it by saying if the restaurant was the unforgettable place for you and your ex, it’s the same as you say if your boyfriend is not creative enough in finding a special place for a romantic dinner.
If he asks you whether you have ever come to that place, just say that you’ve been there before, but you don’t need to say that you came with someone special in your life.
5. We had ever planned to …
By the time you still had relationship with the former boyfriend, you would have lots of plans that want to be realized in the future, such as having vacation together, making a business together, or buying property together. But when the relationship broke up, there were some plans that you haven’t done yet.
Don’t use your new boyfriend to complete the plans in the past. Just make a new plan with your boyfriend. In this way he will feel more appreciated and not being exploited
6. Telling about your ex’s ‘Breaking News’
If a couple broke up in a good way, sometimes they are still in touch as friends even though they already have another partner. However you don’t need to tell about your ex’s ‘Breaking News’ to your boyfriend, moreover if the news is about his successful career or better financial condition. Your boyfriend will feel offended and think that you still wish to come back to your ex-boyfriend.
So dear friends,recognise the situations correctly and move accordingly......Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
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